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girlfriend acting different
Hey im usinng my sisters account lol but anyway im a guy im 17 and my girlfriend is 16. We get intimate alot and we go up to my bedroom and do oral usually. Well for two days now when i asked to go up to my bedroom she made up an excuse that she was too tired or that she wanted to watch a show on tv but she never did that before. When i finally convinced her to come up to my bedroom she wouldnt let me eat her out or finger her. She always tells me when she is on her period and i asked if she was and she said she wasnt. When i tried to reach to finger her she quick stopped me and said she would rather just give me a blowjob today. Thats fine by me haha but i cant figure out why she was acting like that...
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The best way to find out what is up is to ask her. Although, there may be a chance that she truly does not know why either. It is possible that if this is her first sexual experience or second, that she is still dating and having sex for the experience but not realizing the importance of having an actual physical sexual attraction and chemistry with her partner. She may like you well enough as a friend, and for the attention and you're cute enough for her but somethings missing. Or it could be that she is now attracted to someone else even if she isnt seeing them, just in her mind, wanting them can turn off the feelings for you. The dating experience is all about meeting several different people, not sticking with for life with the 1st person you meet. During your dating years, you learn to discover what you like and don;t like in the opposite sex, not that theres anything wrong with them, they just are not right for you. So try to be encouraging, let her know you'd rather know the truth than go on wondering. Be gentle and don't get mad. Because if it's not the right match, then it's not something you did wrong. You will be the right catch for the right girl and she will think you're the cat's meow.
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There could be tons of reasons why she was acting like that. Do you guys do this often? Maybe she's tired of it or something. Maybe she doesn't find it enjoyable anymore.
Honestly, we can all just make guesses but you should probably just ask her about it. Just ask her why this has been going on. She'll hopefully tell you why and how you guys can fix it.
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Your girlfriend is the only one who can answer this question for you. The only thing I can think of is that she may have gotten tired of hiding in the bathroom to have sex with you.
One thing all women need to have an enjoyable sexual experience, be it oral sex or intercourse is the feeling of security and being comfortable. I don't think sneaking off to the bathroom is neither comfortable or offers the level of security she may be looking for or needs. It may have been exciting at first but not anymore.
For girls/women comfort and security are paramount when it comes to love making. It is much different for us guys. We will whip it out almost anywhere the opportunity arises. Your job as a caring lover is to see to your gals comfort and security if you want your gal to take care of your needs and hers. It is really just that simple.
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