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they try to pull my pants down
Why do guys always try to pull my pants/shorts down? Like no kidding this is the fourth guy now to try and do it. Like i will be at his house and then we go upstairs and he will just quickly reach out and try ro yank them down but i dont let it happen
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I'm assuming that upstairs means the bedroom. If that is the case why in hell would you go to a bedroom with someone if you aren't planning to have sex? BTW, saying he has some neat 'whatevers' he wants to show in the bedroom means he wants to have sex too.
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You go upstairs? To his (or your) room? You are inviting him into your bedroom? And not just one guy, but one guy after another?
It's old-fashioned, but generally speaking, if you don't want your pants pulled down, don't be alone with a guy in a room with a bed in it.
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Well you are definitely picking the wrong guys to hang out with.
Are you dating them or what? They're obviously immature so try to pick better guys. Also, wear a belt from now on..or simply don't go upstairs with them.
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Yep I agree with Solid!
This is where I would slap the fool in the face for sexual harassment.
In the meantime you wear a belt. Dump the guy and find someone who respects you!
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Try slugging one in the face or gut next time. Defend yourself and nobody will screw with you anymore. They do it because they know you won't do anything. Why do they do it? Immaturity. I'm not advocating violence but in certain cases if they don't stop you have to show them not to mess with you.
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I really can't answer that question for you beyond the fact that you may be picking the wrong kind of guys to be with. Somehow these guys you know have gotten the impression you are a different kind of girl then you are. The best way I can think of to stop this is to find a different group of boys within which to chose to date from.
One other way to stop this is to charge one of these boys with attempted rape. For that is the direction they could conceivably be going if you were unable to stop them. The other thing you can charge them with is sexual harassment for that is what has happened by pulling your pants down.
You have not given your age. Though even if you all are minors; their age does not protect them from the charges I have suggested. They can be charged as juveniles or adults which would be up to the prosecutor and the courts to decide.
If somehow someone has tagged you with a reputation; charging one or all of these boys with the charges I mentioned above will definitely put a stop to the harassment you are suffering. I would suggest you speak with your parents about what is happening to you and let them help you with this. Even if you are an adult your parents are a good source of help in these situations.
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