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Is it awful to feel this way?
I'm an 18 year old male, and I could never even think about young girls sexually. But the other day at work, a girl came in with her parents and was clearly(by looking at her face and size) about 13 years old. However, she was very developed in every other way, quite well endowed, in good shape, in dressed in an outfit that complimented her features VERY well, and I couldn't help but be attracted to her. I would never try anything, because I know that it would be horribly wrong. But does the fact that I couldn't get her out of my head make me a monster? Or is it normal to feel that way under those circumstances?
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No I don't think you are a monster.
It is a fact of life these days that young girls her age are growing up faster in every conceivable way these days.
When I look at young girls these days I try to remember if 13 and 14 year old girls looked like they do today when I was that age. I really don't think they did. Some of these young girls with proper dress and makeup can pass for girls 2, 3 or 4 years older than they actually are. If you could see some of the questions we get from girls of her age you would really start to wonder about girls her age and how fast they tend to grow up.
No you saw her for what she was a 13 year old girl dressing above her age. Who also was attractive. This does not make you a monster.
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Don't feel bad about how your body reacts to seeing a particular female and feeling sexually attracted to. Guys as long as they have eyes in their head, are going to see women throughout life that may garner that response from their body...whether she be younger, same age or old enough to be your mom. Just as long as you for now not allow yourself to mess with someone who isn't of legal age, then you're doing good. If it makes you feel better, females have those responses, because it's easier for us to hide our responses, we can pretend it doesn't happen to us. Perhaps it doesn't happen quite as often as it does for guys but it can be inappropriate too. Like being a teen and seeing a guy older than my dad who I thought was so sexy looking at his age but i wouldnt act on it. I just had to be discreet to not get caught staring at him all the time. I remember a time my ex had a prayer buddy friend over from church and all of a sudden as I had to pass behind the dining chair he was seated at, I had the most strongest desire to dig my hands into his hair and play with it, I felt the desire that strong. It shook me up pretty bad, being the Christian lady and married too. LOL I had to learn to not take life so seriously. Enjoy the fact that I have a healthy body with a healthy libido. Some people have a libido but not a healthy body. Some have a healthy body but their libido has gone to sleep. YOU will do fine. Start dating and enjoy some romance between you and someone your age. Best wished for your life
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It doesn't make you a monster. I don't want to say it's normal though either. Young girls are looking more and more older, and that's obviously not a good thing.
I think it's normal to be attracted, but don't keep trying to look. When you see a young girl who is attractive, remind yourself how old she is and how creepy that can be. And definitely don't keep staring because then you'll get bad images in your mind.
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EDIT: I judged what you have written, I wrote what I thought. I am sorry you are not man enough to handle that.
An 18 year old man should not be looking at a 13 year old child. I do not care how developed a child appears to be, She us a minor and you are an adult.
I know you said you would never try anything which would ve a very smart move. I would highly recommend you keep reminding yourself tgat these are KIDS. Go for older woman 18-21
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