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My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
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I have really long eyelashes too. That makes it harder to wear mascara, however, I must so my eyelashes don't go in my eyes. So what I do is I don't put mascara on all the way to the end of a lash. It should work for you too. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point

thanx ill rate high

Here a a few you could use:

~Since U Been Gone- Kelly Clarkson
~Leave (Get Out)- JoJo
~He Wasn't- Avril Lanigne (I hate that song but it is about getting over someone)
~F***k It (I Don't Want You Back)- Eamon
~I'm Not Okay (I Promise)- My Chemical Romance(not about breaking up but sorta about being OK)
~Alicia Keys- Karma
~Usher- Burn
~Mr. Brightside~ The Killers (it's sorta about getting over someone)

Those are the "getting over someone" songs on launch.yahoo.com's Top 100 list. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hi. I'm 15, I weigh 120 pounds, I'm 5'4, and I do have to admit that the pounds are fat not muscle. But I wouldn't say I'm HUGE just chubby. Well my family are all very thin. My 17 yr. old sister is 110 pds, my 13 yr old sister is 100 pounds, my mom weighed 103 pounds when she was married at age 25! (the only reason she weighs more than me today is because she had kids), and my dad weighs...well he's a stick for a guy. I get my looks from my Aunt and Grandpa. I just recently joined a gym to help turn the fat to muscle more, to tone myself. But the problem lies in the family. They always call me fat. Like my sisters, if they get upset with me, they hurl the insult "your fat" at me. My parents both call me fat also. I don't think they mean any harm of it, but it really hurts. Every time someone says something I retreat to my room and cry. They don't know how much it hurts because I really do think I'm FAT. Finally today I just broke down crying and told them how I felt about them always calling me fat and my mom said I was just trying to get pity. What can I say to make them realise this really hurts my feelings when they all say this! The only persons who apologized for calling me fat is my little sister. I have 0 self esteem and I think this plays a small part in this.

Hey beautiful. First off look in a mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful because you are. Next tell your family that you are not doing this for pitty and that you really do think you are fat. If they still think you are lying then write them a letter telling them you are not. If still they act like you just want attention then you need to get some outside help. Try an adult relative that will support you 100%. They will talk to your parents and tell them it does hurt you when they say those things. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me.

Break up with him. It doesn't matter how much you want to stay with him you need to break up with him. He is not treating you right. No offense, it's kinda obvious you need to end the relationship now.

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Hi! I'm planning on starting to bring my lunch to school for now on instead of buy it (the food my cafe teria serves is disgusting and full of fat and grease). My question is, what are some yummy foods I can bring to lunch instead of a sandwhich or the usual. Also, what are some lunchbox safe snacks? And please dont say "sandwich and chips" because i already know that. Thanx!

Over the summer I go to a camp and hate sandwhiches so I have some ideas for you.

Main lunch:
bagel
wrap (like a sandwhich but on a tortilla (sp?) roll)
yogurt
salad
soup (in a container of course)
French bread
this may sound childish but Lunchables

snacks:
gold fish
fruit roll ups
carrots
gummy packs
celery
crackers
cheese

These are just a few ideas but they are different. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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This may not sound serious but it is. I was having a nervous break down during math because of this.

I can not stand the phrase "I never knew that." It just drives me insane. Whenever I hear it I either cry or scream. I just hate the phrase. So my question is how can I get over this? I am asking this in all seriousness. My friend who has a column here (she's asking this since I can't get on) has even told me do get help for this.

Hey Savvy. You need to say it over and over again. Or read it over and over again.

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i have lots of make up,but i dont no what kind of make up to use for me,and what i should focus on.I have brown hair,brown eyes,and fair skin. My eyes are a little big. Can anyone help?

I'll start with your eyes. Big or small be proud of your eyes. Many people think it is the most attractive part of your body. So don't worry about the size. For eyeshadow use something a few shades lighter than your actual color hair. Eye liner should be applied to the bottom only do the top if you really think it is nessacary (sp?). The color of the eyeliner should be black or the color of your eye. And use black mascara. Now for lips with your conplection you should use gloss. Nudes and pinks would be the best. If you use lip liner make it very light. For skin you don't really need make-up. If you really want to do something with it just foundation and some blush. Now that I am done with these tips I want to say not to overdo. You are beautiful already. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hey!

I don't know where else to get some advice for this but I was just wondering what color of eyeshadow/eyeliner would look good with a light turquoise blue dress?

I have red hair, blue eyes & I'm somewhat fair-skinned.

Thanks so much!

Try either gold of tan for eyeshadow. They will go with anything and will look great with anything. For eyeliner I think you should just use black or brown. Stick to naturals. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hey my parents are going away for a few days and I want to have a proper big house party. Any tips? And I mean like music, like alcohol, like CLEANING UP afterwards, and how many people is too many! Thanks (I have a couple weeks yet)
I rate high

No alcohol. The police will fine you if there are underage drinkers and believe me there will be. The max amount of people should be 30 so it is easier to clean up. For music have a varitey. Nevertheless, be extremely careful. There is no supervision so if something goes wrong someomne could get really hurt. And without an adult being there to help there might be a lawsuit. So be extremely careful and only invite people you can trust. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Tryouts for cheerleading at on April 29th and i need help!!!
What are some good stunts? I can do the following..
Cartweel
roundoff
Front walkover
Jumps
Split
Heel Streach..

Is it better if i did a front walk over than if i did a cartweal roundoff jump?

I was thinking...
Roundoff Frontwalkover Split????

Thanks again,
I rate high for anything!!!

I have to say judges don't like frontwalkovers. So just forget about those. They like to stick to basics or advanced stunts. So a cartwheel roundoff jump would be good. I hope I heped! &nearts; good luck

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How do you plan out a kick ass party? What sort of invitations should you give out without looking too kiddy-ish?

OK for the invitations you find the girl/boy in your school with the biggest mouth. Tell them and a few other people and tell them to speard it. You will now have at least 40 people at your party and probably more. Now you need either a good DJ or good CDs. Dance parties are the best. If you're parents don't care play spin the bottle. Also have tons of food. And a large varitey of it. Now make sure whatever room you are having this party has no breakables. That's pretty much it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Does suicide send you to hell? someone told me it did but i'm not sure.

That is a very delicate question. It is a mortal (I think that's what it's called) sin to kill. And you are killing. But then again God is all forgiving. That is why no one is sure of the concept of hell. Because if God forgives all then why would he send someone there?

It is like the question 'What did God do to Hitler when he died?' Hitler was oone of the worst people ever to live so what did God do with him?

So now to the point. I believe God will not send you to hell. However, that doesn't mean you should go commit suicide. Because no one can be sure. Suicide is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Don't resort to that. If you need to get through something leave one in my inbox.

I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I have been looking for some shorts for summer. I like SHORT shorts. Does anyone know where I can find khaki or denim shorts that are short? (Lately, everyone has been selling the long, bermuda shorts)

Yeah those Bermuda shorts are really annoying. You can find some great regular shorts at Pacsun, Delias, Ambercombie, Hollister, American Eagle, and other stores like that. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Where can I get Protein drinks in bulk(like 12-24 pacls) instead of individually?

Shop Rite. You probably have one by you it's a very common store. Leave one in my inbox if you want recipes for homemade ones. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I need a dress for my 8th grade graduation, but I have NO idea where to look. Its supposed to look nice, but not too dressy. I'm really really picky though. Any ideas where I can get a pretty cheap dress for it? Thanks!

Try the department stores at the mall. Places like Macys, JCPennys, Nodsturms, ect have nice dresses at great prices. Also a great website to try is http://gojane.com . It has extremely great dresses and aren't too expensive. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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ok so i fingured out that him and his girl friend are still going out but like it doesn't even seem like it! like WTF! they have the same PE class with each other and me..ok so they are on the same team they don't talk they don't sit next to each other they don't even stand next to each other! WTF!
help please!

I'm sorry but there really isn't anything you can do. I don't know if I've answered a question of yours or not but if I have and said what I am about to say I'm sorry but it is the only thing you can do. Talk to him online. Tell him you like him but just don't want to get in the way. He may realize he likes you more or just won't care. That is the best thing to do. Possibly if you don't tell him you like him ask him on a date and maybe you will find out how much he really likes his girlfriend. I'm extremely sorry but it's the only thing you can do. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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lastnite i was on the fone with my boyfriend and my mom kept coming in saying she needs the phone and i wouldn't get off cause my boyfriend and i were in the middle of a conversation. So... she took my cell phone which in this case my dad bought for me (parents are split up) and i pay for monthly and she only did it to waste my minutes. so when i got off the phone i walked into the living room and there she was on the couch talking on my phone and i got pretty pissed off about it. So... i tried grabbing it from her and told her to give me my damn phone but she pushed me away and slapped my arm and then she finally got off but she wouldn't give it to me and she went and got the home phone so again i tried grabbing for my cell phone and she pushed me into the wall and started choking me and cussing at me and so i called her a fucking bitch and she pushed me onto the couch and punched me in the chest and in the face and slapped me across the face and kept saying what did you just call me and i tried kicking her off me and then i finally got her off me and she goes to my stepdad you wanted her here then you can stay with her and she left..... thats just the background... but my question is what am i supposed to do, I have a HUGE mark on my neck from where she was choking me and now i have worse breathing problems (i have asthma pretty bad) i mean like should i call the poilce or should i call child services i have no idea what to do!! HELP ME PLEASE

I would say call both the police and chils abuse serivices. Actions need to be taken. If you can get to your dad's house. If you don't have issues with your stepdad ask him to drive you there. Just get out of there for now. I would suggest you don't tell your mom you are leaving. However, notifiy her once you get to your dad's house. And you still need to call the police or child services (even both). You should really take this to court. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i dont get it!!!!! like do guys really only like pertty girls? cause i mean if they do im never gunna get 1!!!!!! oh my god.... it all because i weigh 120 and im only 13 omg! im never gunna get married! im never uh i cant think of anything but help!!!!!!

You are over reacting. You are only 13. I've said it many times. Everyone loves at their own pace. Just talk to a guy you like and ask him out. But don't freak out. Like I said you are only 13 you have your whole life ahead of you. And you're not going to get married now anyway. But one day you will find a guy. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Okay:
Put yourself in my position, say you like a girl. But, you have heard they like someone else. You can do one of two things, either keep quiet and stay quiet. Or you can play the risk card and ask her out(You dont give a F if it makes you lok like a total loser) What would you do? In my opinion this girl is absolutly BEAUTIFUL. She is smart, funny,great friend,awsome all-around person. And like I sais absolutely gorgous(sp?)

What Would *You* do?

Well I am a girl so I really wouldn't care. But if I were you I would go for her. You really never know until you ask. And even if she likes someone else she may like you too. I think you really have a chance and should go for it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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for AIM buddy icons.. i downloaded animation shop and paint shop pro.. but my free trials expired. i`ve tried removing the program but when i download again it says it`s already present on my computer. it`s driving me crazy not being able to make icons. is there any way i can download free trials or different programs? or is there any way to completely erase them from my computer so i can get the free trial again? please help!

I have to say the best is movies 12. This is the website to get it at:

http://www.brothersoft.com/Multimedia_Graphics_Video_Tools_Movies_4213.html

You can download version one or two. I use it and it is really good.

If you need a tutorial go here but remeber to scroll down:

http://forums.buddy4u.com/viewtopic.php?t=13299

I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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