Does anybody know where to get skinny jeans at? I mean, I've looked at a bunch of stores but can't really seem to find any, and the ones I see in the magazines cost like, $200 bucks which obviously isn't that cheap, haha. Help?
-Charlotte Russe
-Forever 21
-Foleys
-Lolas
-Delias
-Nordstrom
-Rue 21
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okay im 13/f and mi hair is really frizzy wat do i do?
For a shampoo- Garnier Fructis Sleek and Shine..
It's for "frizzy, dry, or unmanagable hair."
Or you could try blow drying your hair before bed. When you wake up try putting Terax Gloss (about $16) on your hair from roots to tips.
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whenever i send a text message it says "service not available" i have verizon and i had 3 bars when i sent the text message so service wasn't a problem. does that mean texts are blocked on my phone?
Yeah either that or the person you were trying to send it to wasn't able to recieve texts.
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sorry if this is under the wrong category. how do you insert a tampon? please do not give me the instructions off the back of a box. i don't understand them. in your own words, please?
-Decide if you prefer to insert the tampon standing or sitting. If sitting is your preference, sit on the toilet. If you want to try standing, putting one foot on the bathtub helps.
-Hold the tampon applicator in your right hand if you are right-handed, or left if left-handed.
-Use your thumb and middle finger to hold the bottom of the larger, outer tube.
-Point the tip of the applicator toward your vagina, facing slightly towards the back. The smaller tube should be pointed away from your body.
-Use your other hand to open your vagina.
-Place the tip of the applicator at the opening of your vagina.
-Gently push the smaller end of the applicator in until it is completely inside the larger outer tube. This pushes the tampon into your vagina and out of the tube.
-With your thumb and middle finger still on the outer tube, release the smaller tube and let the strings dangle freely.
-Gently pull the two tubes out together.
-When you are ready to remove the tampon, gently pull the withdrawl strings down and forward.
If the tampon is inserted correctly, you should not feel it. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, you may have inserted the tampon incorrectly or the tampon may not be placed far enough into the vagina. If this happens, just remove the tampon and start again with a new tampon. Remember that practice makes perfect. If you don't get it on the first try, your second try will most likely be successful. Instead of getting frustrated just relax and try again!
Good luck!
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16/f
lately or recently i have lost like 3 tank tops and expensive pair of jeans. i thought that my friend mandi took them because like i was at her cabin with her and i brought them up there and when i come home there not in my bag? well i was soo PISSED OFF. she said her aunt found some in the bathroom and was gonna bring them to her house but she said she came and her mom wouldnt let her in because she didnt know who she was (mandi's parents are divorced) and i knew that was a bunch of BS. and i felt bad because my family isnt the richest and clothes are that CHEAP these days so i couldnt go buy myself a new wardrobe and replace the clothes i lost. well mine and mandi's friend lisa were all together one night and lisa is like mandi those are my pants you are wearing! and mandi is like lisa no there not my dad bought them for me and shes like not uh i remember i had them in our locker when we were sharing them and you brought them home and lisa is like if they are size 7 they are mine so she checks and they are 7's! and mandi still denies it but hollister doesnt make those pants anymore they're an old brand and she said her dad just bought them for her when she told me that her friend jackie gave them to her and amanda wears like a 3/4 not a 7! and then i was like woww she probably has my clothes too! and i was like lisa did you see her wearing a brown aero tank top with a little tan butterfly in the corner? and shes like yep shes worn that around me before! I KNOW SHE HAS MY CLOTHES. i asked her about it though and shes like nooo i dont have them sorry. and i cant go to her house because its an appt. and she never lets anyone in her house trust me ive tried! and i dont want to go snooping around her room. im soo f'in mad though! one of them were a new tank top i just bought too. me and lisa cant trust her around our stuff anymore! and this year she wants to share a locker and i was like ookay. but that was before i knew all this stuff! last year we shared one and she like took all my pencils without asking then i didnt have any! i just dont know what to do anymore..now i dont really want to share a locker but im really bad at like saying no and im scared she will share one with lisa then and i wont see mandi anymore! and shes like the only one i see at school..or hangout with in the morning.
I don't think you sould confront her with everyone else. You should get her aside one day when no one else is around and be serious with her and tell her that you KNOWW what she did and she doesn't have to keep lieing about it. As you said, her parents are divorced. Meaning they probably don't have alot of money. Which probably means she's jealous that you guys have the clothes that you do, and she just wants to be like you guys. Anyways talk to her about it and tell her it has to stop. Tell her she's more than welcome to borrow a few things every now and then but not without you knowing. Also tell her to give everyone their things back and even go for an appology. Don't just ignore it though, she'll keep doing it and one day it could be more than just clothes!
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16/f
in july like the 26th or something my family went to florida for vacation. my dad said each of us could invite a friend (me and my brother) but they would each have to pay $300 for like the plane ticket and the hotel. well i invited one of my good friends amanda. and so im like will u be able to get the money? her parents are divorced and lets say amanda and neither of her parents get along. her mom is usually always drunk and he dad has a bad temper. she said she would be able to and then 2 days before we are about to leave her mom calls me and says amanda is grounded and cant come. well i tell my parents and they are like they cant do that we bought the tickets and everything already. amandas family doesnt have alot of money so we knew that they were just trying to make up some excuse because they couldnt come up with the money. well my parents feel bad for amanda because she never gets to go anywhere and her parents arent that nice. so my dad talks to her parents and is like is the money thing an issue? and hes like if it is then you guys can pay me back when we get home or whatever or when you have the money. and so then we all come back and whatever and now its been almost a month and still no money! she only brought like 70$ with her down there so we even paid for some of her souvineers she bought. my parents are always on me about getting the money because we arent exactly rich and we need this $300. i keep asking amanda about it and shes like well my dad is getting money for selling our cabin so he said he will give it to me when he gets it. my dad said he doesnt even care how he gets it..i told her that she could give us a $100 one time and like $200 the next and she is like okay! and still NO MONEY. i feel really bad for my parents because that is $300. i mean i keep asking amanda about the money but i feel bad always bringing it up and i know its probably annoying her but im just trying to help my parents out you know! any suggestions on how i can get this money and be done with it? all my parents were trying to do was be nice..thats just how they are and they always get screwed over =(
Well if nothing seems like its working try raising the money yourself, by say babysitting or something. That way maybe your parents can get it quicker from you, once Amanda gets the money, she can just give it to you. It sounds like alotta trouble but it could be easier.
If you don't wanna do that, maybe you should talk to Amandas mom. Maybe she doesn't realize how big of a deal it is that you guys want your money. Maybe she doesn't think it has to be soon.
Then again, no offense to your friend, but her mom could just be putting it off as long as she can. The only thing I know to do is get it on your own or just keep asking.
Good luck!
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Ok i have a size 38C breasts and i am in 8th grade i always wear a shirt over my bathing suits and i never wear 2 peices becasue my boobs hang out....i hate big breasts! so here are my questions:
1.) How do i make my boobs look smaller?
2.) if i do crunches will they shrink??
It is possible that your breast size would decrease if you lost weight. However, it's also possible that it wouldnt change at all. there are lots of ways to minimize the impact you think your breasts make — and keep in mind you are the person who notices them the most! The easiest is by what you wear. First of all, getting a good bra is important. Go to a department store and let the women who work there take out a tape measure and measure you. Yeah, it's a little embarrassing, but they do this all the time, so don't stress. Once you know your correct size, try on a bunch of bras. Look for ones with lots of support, usually with thicker, wider straps. Some girls love wearing sports bras every day, because they are usually quite comfortable and offer a lot of control. There is also something called a minimizer bra, which, well, does what it sounds like. Try on a bunch, and see how your t-shirt looks over each one.
As for clothing, try not to feel so self-conscious that you end up wearing your favorite baggy sweatshirt 24/7. You can still wear tank tops — just pick ones that allow you to wear a bra underneath. No spaghetti straps or anything too flimsy. Instead, go for more athletic tanks with a wider strap for support. You can also draw attention to other parts of your body that you want to play up.
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I am very scared about having sex and i feel very scared becasue my boyfriend always wants me to "give him head" all the time. and i always tell him i want to wait but all guys wanna have sex with me because i have HUGE tits.
Signed,
Sex??
If you're scared, you're not ready. Don't do it if you don't want to, no one says you have to. Just keep telling him you want to wait until you're ready. If he doesn't respect that, find a different boyfriend.
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ok. so my boyfreind and i have been dating...well for one year on saturday. and yeah this isnt that much time. but still...i really want to come up with a good idea for something that will really surprise him. I have a swim meet in the morning at 10 and then we are going to the kenny chesney concert at 4:30...so there isnt really that much time. so basically what im asking is what is a good surprise for him...girls what have you done...and guys what do you like?
Before you guys go to the concert, you should invite him to your house, or show up at his, and maybe make a cd for him and get a picture of you and him and frame it. Then surprise him with it. Maybe have a cake or something good to eat together before/after the concert.
Have fun!
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My best friend is Bi, she smokes weed, she cuts, and is into the whole "Emo, scene, be yourself type of phase"
She thinks I'm fake because I love to dress up nicely, wear "preppy style" clothes, and I like country music. She thinks everyone is really bi, and if you don't admit it youre fake. I'm sick of her and her other bi friends ragging on me cause I'm not like them! They're all like "hardcore" and they hate it that I'm friends with all sorts of people. I just relate to everyone a little bit, I'm just the type of person that will talk to anyone, they think I'm after popularity and I'm all fake for not sticking to one "type" How do I get them to stop ragging on me about this, and show them that this is the real me!
Honestly, I think you should find new friends. If your best friend thinks your fake, how does that make her a good friend? Different people have different opinions, you're allowed to do that and you don't have to change for her. The next time she says something to you about country being fake, try throwing it back in her face. Simply say, well I think emo is fake. She'll probably throw a huge fit about it because it's not what she wants to hear and it's what SHE likes. But don't argue back with her, just say well country's what I like, just like you like your stuff, and move on.
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OK this is just an opinion question, there's no right/wrong answer... its kind of long but as modivation to read this i rate =]
I saw this girl's MySpace, and it had her SN on it, and like I know her and everything, but she wasn't really my friend, more like my acquantaince, but I added her SN to my AIM buddy list anyway. But at that time I didn't have a MySpace, and I was looking at my friend's, and this girl was on her friends list... yeah, I think you get it. Soo... I clicked a link in this girl's profile, like it was random words, and it led me to her BuddyProfile. I was embarrassed and I deleted her SN and blocked her. This was 6-9 months ago. Since then I have changed my SN and forgotten about it. But... a few days ago one of her friends, which isn't really my friend, viewed MY BuddyProfile! I thought it was over and everything, but like I guess this girl and her friends have been like tracking me! I mean its been over half a year!
What do you all think? I mean you would think they would have forgotten about it by now.
And while I'm at it... when you see an SN that has viewed your BuddyProfile that you don't know, what do you do? I just add them to my Buddy list, look at their profile to see if I know who they are, then forget about it. I think IM-ing them is too straight-forward and uncomfortable. Do you guys agree.
Thans =]
You def shouldn't worry about it. Random people IM me sometimes or look at mine, I don't really even think about it. I don't think Iming them is too straight forward either. I mean it's not like they really know you or can see you. And honestly they probably don't even care. If it's bothering you, you should just IM her and be like hey, I saw you on myspace on one of my friends profiles and I was bored at the time, no big deal. But really it's not even worth wasting your time worrying about.
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Ok. So my friend came over and we decided to make a video with my dads camera. We did it and it was hilarious. We put it on the computer and it got on it. But the only thing is, I can't get it off the Kodak picture share thing. I want it on photobucket...but how?
Well this works with pictures I'm not sure about videos, sorry if it doesn't. Right click on the video like when it's a thumbnail, and click 'open with' and then choose the program you'd like to open it with. You should be able to import it to photobucket at that point. If not, just completely ignore what I said! haha good luck!
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How do you get rid of a really bad sunburn in one day? Is it even possible?
I don't think so. You need to keep it dehydrated though. Put aloe on it every chance you get. Use the spray kind if it hurts too much to touch it. And if you drink alot of water it'll help it heal better.
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Where can I buy some cute, long-lasting jeans that aren't too terribly expensive and aren't torn to shreds before I buy them? Thanks!
-Dillards
-Forever 21
-Charlotte Russe
-Rue 21
-Jc Pennys
-Lolas
-The Body shop
-579
-Old Navy
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16-female ♥
well you see there was this guy that went out with this girl for about a year and 4 months i think? only thing he is 14 but looks older than me and acts really mature! well after him and his gf broke up he started talking to me and i didnt know him that well and he like started being all nice and saying wow when i first saw you i thought damn that girl is beautiful.and he is like i will never be able to forget that face of yours and all this stuff. but then i didnt want to start liking him because he was like still in love with his girlfriend. and everyone knew it. he would want me to like come over late at night -but i think to just do stuff and i wasnt about to go over with my car at like 130 and get caught just for him; not happening. he asked if i would ever have sex with him and i was like noo im not doing that with you..im not ready and he was totally cool with it! i blew it though i really wish we got to hangout because i wouldnt mind making out with him =) and just cuddling with him while watching a movie. but now we dont even talk i dont see him anymore! i wish he would just i/m me on AIM or message me on myspace or do something to know that he still has interest in me. but sometimes or the way i told you it looks like he is just trying to use me and get in my pants and he would only want to do stuff with me-but im a strong girl and wouldnt let anyone pressure me into stuff and i know he wouldnt pressure me. only thing is he treated his girlfriend like a f'in queen. loved her so much did anything for her and she treated him like shit but he STILL loved her after that..i just dont know what to do. do you think its the right thing to wait for him to talk to me or whatever and if he doesnt then just blow this whole thing off and obviously he still doesnt have interest in me or what?
well THANKS
You're 16, he's 14 rightt.. He could've liked the idea that you were older. Maybe he thought you'd drive him around and stuff.
Or maybe he thought you weren't interested in him because you wouldn't go to his house. He could've just gotten the wrong signal. You know you have to kinda spell it out for em somtimes..
I don't think you should wait around for him. It kinda sounds like he was on the rebound lookin to get a lil somethin somethin. But if you feel like you want to, then why wait for HIM? You should try making the move. Then if he's the same way, move on, he's ovbiously not THAT mature if he handled the situation that way.
If all else fails atleast try to be friends with him, take him places with you, just hang out. It could lead to more you never know!
Good luck
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16/f
So there is this boy and he came to see my friend that was in a play with me. He was later telling her that he needed a girl friend and asked if i was available. After we hung out a few times I got really interested in him. That was in may now its august and nothing has happend yet. I know he is a shy guy but how can i make him feel more comfortable around me?.
thanks in advance!
You should try calling him at random times. Just be like hey! whats up?.. be friendly. Also you could try inviting him places with you when you go somewhere. Even if he can't go, he'll atleast know you were thinking about him. The more he's around you the more he'll probably open up to you and you can get to know each other better at the same time!
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Ok...so when im online i basically go on myspace and thats about it...i have nothing else to do what do you do when your online...like as far as what websites you go on?
www.facebook.com
That's pretty much all I do too! Besides this site and clothing stores n stuff like that! You could always go to yahoo, listen to music and play games n other things.
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I am growing lots of cucumbers. Been getting bored of just eating them in salads and so are our neighbours!
Was hoping someone out theres got some interesting recipes?
Have you tried putting them in vinegar? It's REALLY good. It's not hard to do if you haven't before.
Try these websites you might find something you like.
http://www.lpl.arizona.edu/~bcohen/cucumbers/recipes/
http://cucumber-recipes.epicurean.com/asc_results.jsp?title=Cucumber
http://southernfood.about.com/od/cucumbers/index.htm
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Well, school starts tomorrow for me. & My boyfriend promised that before I started work at eleven, he'd take me out for breakfast today, since it'd probably be a while before we saw each other again, since we'll both be going to different schools. ]: I was soo excited, I woke up at 7 to make sure he was awake, but he told me that he was going to go back to sleep because he had a big migraine, I didn't think it was a problem, because we'd still have a lot of time to go out. But, at 8 I called him, because we said we'd both set our alarms, & he didn't wake up, so I tried calling like three times, but then stopped because I didn't want him to think I was a "clingy girlfriend" he always calls me that.
Anyways, I called at like nine to see what was up & he woke up, and asked me what time it was & I told him it was 9 & he apologized, and I told him I was really upset because now I'm not going to see him before school starts, which I'm really nervous about. & It just fucking pisses me off because he didn't put ANY effort into this whatsoever.
What I'm also SO pissed about is that, I'm going to have to call my mom to get out of work [which is impossible] to drive me to work, since I can't drive yet. He knows my mom is abusive, & she's always mad about everything I do, but about this she's going to be fucking pissed bc I said I had a ride, & now I don't anymore, because he's a fucking moron.
Hah, sorry needed to vent. Anyways, I'm really nervous to call my mom now because I know she'll probably say some rude things & hit me when she gets home, but I just don't even know what to do about my boyfriend, like.. should I just wait for him to call me? Or what? I don't even know..
PLEASE HELP ME!! [:
Sorry about your mom =[
As far as your boyfriend goes, everyone has a bad day ya know? If it was you that had the headache, you really wouldn't wanna get up early when you didn't HAVE to. Make him make it up to you. If you wanna wait for him to call you that's fine it's your decision. But if I were you I def wouldn't wait. You have a life you don't have to sit around and wait on a boy. Talk to him and tell him to step it up a little. Tell him how you feel, if he doesn't understand then he's not worth it anyways.
Don't be nervous to call your mom. It isn't your fault he had a headache, just explain the situation to her and tell her it won't happen again. If she gets pissed just block it out and don't pay attention.
Good luck
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a few days ago, this guy IMed me as a prank! well, i kinda knew it was him, so i said a whole bunch of funny stuff. well, my mom read it! now, she's been on my case about it for like two weeks. i need a valid excuse showing that:
- i was not the one talking to this guy. that it was someone else pretending to be me
- i also need a reason of why i didn't want to tell her before that it wasn't me
PLEASE PLEASE
I BEG YOU
I REALLY NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY
I NEED A PERFECTLY GOOD, BELIEVABLE EXCUSE
THANK YOU
Well how did she read it? Did you print it or something? If so, and you've had a friend spend the night recently, tell her it's from when ______ was there staying with you and they talked to him on your sn just messing around.
Or try telling her that your friend got on your sn because she liked the boy and she was too shy to talk to him herself. So she pretended to be you and find out if he liked her or not.
If all else fails, just be honest with her, she'll forget it eventually.
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