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I can't help but be angry at him...
Well, school starts tomorrow for me. & My boyfriend promised that before I started work at eleven, he'd take me out for breakfast today, since it'd probably be a while before we saw each other again, since we'll both be going to different schools. ]: I was soo excited, I woke up at 7 to make sure he was awake, but he told me that he was going to go back to sleep because he had a big migraine, I didn't think it was a problem, because we'd still have a lot of time to go out. But, at 8 I called him, because we said we'd both set our alarms, & he didn't wake up, so I tried calling like three times, but then stopped because I didn't want him to think I was a "clingy girlfriend" he always calls me that.
Anyways, I called at like nine to see what was up & he woke up, and asked me what time it was & I told him it was 9 & he apologized, and I told him I was really upset because now I'm not going to see him before school starts, which I'm really nervous about. & It just fucking pisses me off because he didn't put ANY effort into this whatsoever.
What I'm also SO pissed about is that, I'm going to have to call my mom to get out of work [which is impossible] to drive me to work, since I can't drive yet. He knows my mom is abusive, & she's always mad about everything I do, but about this she's going to be fucking pissed bc I said I had a ride, & now I don't anymore, because he's a fucking moron.
Hah, sorry needed to vent. Anyways, I'm really nervous to call my mom now because I know she'll probably say some rude things & hit me when she gets home, but I just don't even know what to do about my boyfriend, like.. should I just wait for him to call me? Or what? I don't even know..
PLEASE HELP ME!! [:
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About your mom when you talk to her say that things went worng,it wasn't your fault,not to get mad,you thought your boyfriend was going to give you a ride but since he woke up late then he couldn't,that if you knew he wasn't you wouldn't tell her that,that your sorry for what is happening,your mom shouldn't be abusing you,if she comes home hysterical,seems like she is coming to hit you then get out of the house for a while until things calm down or just try making sense out of her or try not letting her hit you, keep telling her it wasn't your fault which is the truth so she would get it straight in her head okay ,and one last thing I hope you're alright.
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It sounds like you really need your boyfriend now. Especially since you aren't too close with your mother (it seems) and she hits you and such. Everyone does have a bad day, though. And sometimes it takes awhile for a headache to go away. I know when I get a headache I usually sleep for 4 hours. He was probably just in pain so he slept through everything and he didn't feel like going out for breakfast. However, he should have just said that in the first place and I'm sure you would have understood. I think you should get him make it up to you. The least he can do is take you out for breakfast tomorrow, or whichever day is good for you. Just talk to him about it and I'm sure everything will get fixed up.
Now, I know you didn't want any advice on this mom part, or you would have asked. But, being abused can become really serious. You should really try talking to someone you trust, just to get everything that is bothering you out in the open (if you want that.) Tell a family member or a close friend. You mother shouldn't be doing this to you. She should be there for you whenever you need her. No if, ands, or buts about it. Mothers should always be there for their daughters. So, please, try to get some help with this before it gets out of hand. ♥
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i think that maybe you should wait a while before you call/see your boyfriend again, and then after a few days call him and see if y'all can hang out or whatever to get everything straight. as for your mom, i'd tell a responsible adult... teachers, neighbors, friends' parents, whoever. you could even call the cops because that is illegal to abuse your kids. and as for your ride to work, try calling up a friend, or a friend's parent. i'm sure they would be happy to get you to work on time. you could even ask a neighbor. if all else fails, call your mom and if she gets really mad and abuses you then call the cops.
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You know a mother who hits her child is illegal. it comes to things like that. If she tries just tell you will call the police. If you set boundries then mothers will back when Don't worry about it so much. I don't know if you are relgious or not but usually when i pray about doing something that makes me nervous calms me down and helps me do what i need to do. Just take a deep breath and do it. If you dont do it then you wont have airde to work. Maybe call your boyfriend and say that if he drives you to work you guys can spend at least a little time together.
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Sorry about your mom =[
As far as your boyfriend goes, everyone has a bad day ya know? If it was you that had the headache, you really wouldn't wanna get up early when you didn't HAVE to. Make him make it up to you. If you wanna wait for him to call you that's fine it's your decision. But if I were you I def wouldn't wait. You have a life you don't have to sit around and wait on a boy. Talk to him and tell him to step it up a little. Tell him how you feel, if he doesn't understand then he's not worth it anyways.
Don't be nervous to call your mom. It isn't your fault he had a headache, just explain the situation to her and tell her it won't happen again. If she gets pissed just block it out and don't pay attention.
Good luck
=] Evy
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be like to your bf
dude give me a ride atleast like he didnt take you out for breakfast so still make him drive you
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