16/f
So there is this boy and he came to see my friend that was in a play with me. He was later telling her that he needed a girl friend and asked if i was available. After we hung out a few times I got really interested in him. That was in may now its august and nothing has happend yet. I know he is a shy guy but how can i make him feel more comfortable around me?.
thanks in advance!
ps- I don't like asking guys out. It's weird to me although when him and his best friend (and my really good friend) were talking he said girls should just say this to ask people out... I my name is (your name) I am unemployed, and I live with my parents... wanna go out? lol but that is kinda weird to me
pinkers answered Sunday August 20 2006, 4:00 pm: Well, it would be kinda funny if you did ask him out like that...But, if you are shy for asking him out, it's probably because you are not sure if he likes you or not. I would just have a friend ask him who he likes, and see if he likes you. I played this thing on one guy i liked one time, i said, Hey i have a friend that really wants to know who you like. When it was actually me! it worked though, and we ended up going out. Since that was in may, i think you should start talking to him a lot, just to get reaquainted with him, ya know? Okay so try that, then leave another thing in my box if ya have any questions, feel free to tell me what you choose to do and how it goes! [ pinkers's advice column | Ask pinkers A Question ]
missblonde answered Sunday August 20 2006, 11:27 am: hi! i would never ask a guy out your right its so wierd hehe! i think you should get to know him as a realy good friend first of all i meanreally well so you know each other inside out ask if he wants to hang out with you but you bring your friends and he brings his friends to start off with then try hanging out with just you and his friends then finaly just you and him then when your really know each other get a friend to hint to him you like him and take it from there give him time !! if hes shy!
hope all goes well and if you have any more problems with it just ask me ill always answer [ missblonde's advice column | Ask missblonde A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday August 20 2006, 10:56 am: if hes shy, you should have a friend tell him that you like him, becuase than he will feel more comfortable in asking you out. if he likes you right now, the reason that he is NOT asking you out is because he is afraid of rejection [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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