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How to get him to ask me out


Question Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 10:51 am


16/f
So there is this boy and he came to see my friend that was in a play with me. He was later telling her that he needed a girl friend and asked if i was available. After we hung out a few times I got really interested in him. That was in may now its august and nothing has happend yet. I know he is a shy guy but how can i make him feel more comfortable around me?.

thanks in advance!

ps- I don't like asking guys out. It's weird to me although when him and his best friend (and my really good friend) were talking he said girls should just say this to ask people out... I my name is (your name) I am unemployed, and I live with my parents... wanna go out? lol but that is kinda weird to me


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x0xfabulous0x answered Sunday August 20 2006, 6:35 pm:
Hey. He seems like a nice guy and it really seems like he is into you. There are a couple of things you can do. you can have your friend do it for you by straight up asking or dropping hints. You could work up the nerve to do it yourself ( this guy doesn't seem like the one that'll tease you for that ) or you could email him or something so it is less awkward. Since he is in to you but hasn't asked you out yet, I'm thinking that he is probably shy about asking you out as well. Good luck ♥ Kelli

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pinkers answered Sunday August 20 2006, 4:00 pm:
Well, it would be kinda funny if you did ask him out like that...But, if you are shy for asking him out, it's probably because you are not sure if he likes you or not. I would just have a friend ask him who he likes, and see if he likes you. I played this thing on one guy i liked one time, i said, Hey i have a friend that really wants to know who you like. When it was actually me! it worked though, and we ended up going out. Since that was in may, i think you should start talking to him a lot, just to get reaquainted with him, ya know? Okay so try that, then leave another thing in my box if ya have any questions, feel free to tell me what you choose to do and how it goes!

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missblonde answered Sunday August 20 2006, 11:27 am:
hi! i would never ask a guy out your right its so wierd hehe! i think you should get to know him as a realy good friend first of all i meanreally well so you know each other inside out ask if he wants to hang out with you but you bring your friends and he brings his friends to start off with then try hanging out with just you and his friends then finaly just you and him then when your really know each other get a friend to hint to him you like him and take it from there give him time !! if hes shy!
hope all goes well and if you have any more problems with it just ask me ill always answer

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orphans answered Sunday August 20 2006, 10:56 am:
if hes shy, you should have a friend tell him that you like him, becuase than he will feel more comfortable in asking you out. if he likes you right now, the reason that he is NOT asking you out is because he is afraid of rejection

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