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band camp
ok so im in the colorguard at my highschool for the marching band. and my friend sally is in the marching band. well sally made a friend named..uhmm...jake.there really close. well i saw his pic on myspace.. and i fell in love. i relly like him. and i have liked him for over a month. he went to summer camp and just came back. so i couldnt talk to him during camp. well, now since hes back he doesnt think that i like him anymore (my friend told him that i liked him and hes coo land wants to get to know me) well hes like ooh she doesnt talk to me i doubt she stil llikes me. but i do. i even tell him but like well my friend does for me cuz for som reason i cant. its really annoying to me and him. its just that when i talk to him i freak out. like if he ims me and says hi im like omfg what do i say? and hes like oh your not talkative are you? its like i jsut freeze and forget how to type or something. he knows im nervous to talk to him but it still pisses him off. i was on 3 way with him and "sally" and i still couldnt talk. im meeting him tomorrow at band camp. so basically, HOW CAN I TALK TO HIM!?!?! and what about??
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Just be your self, talk about him, What i first did was I had him do all the talking, i would ask him questions, then tell him that he needed to elaborate more. If things get quiet look into his eyes and ask him what he is thinking stare into his eyes while he is answering you, it will give you a better idea on what he is REALLY thinking (at least it does for me) talk about things that you are both interested it, guys are just as nervous, if not moreso than girls. Just go with the flow, it will all work out in the end.
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~Ash
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That's funny because I'm in colorguard too and I have band camp tomorrow also haha. Anyways, when you see him tomorrow, just smile and say hi to him. I know it's hard to talk to him because you're nervous but just be nice and friendly to him. Obviously he wants to get to know you better, so next time you see him, just say something like "Hi Jake! I haven't seen you in awhile? How are you?" Just talk to him about band, what he thinks of the band uniforms, if he's excited for school coming up, etc. And if you're too nervous to talk to him yourself, go with Sally to talk to him. But don't let Sally do all the talking; talk to him, too. And don't forget to smile a lot. If he thinks you're afraid to talk to him, he might not know what to do and might think you don't like him. So just be yourself, be outgoing, and smile. There's nothing to be afraid of. Oh yeah, and have fun at bandcamp. =)
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