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he liked me...but i blew him off..was i scared? am i wrong..
16-female ♥
well you see there was this guy that went out with this girl for about a year and 4 months i think? only thing he is 14 but looks older than me and acts really mature! well after him and his gf broke up he started talking to me and i didnt know him that well and he like started being all nice and saying wow when i first saw you i thought damn that girl is beautiful.and he is like i will never be able to forget that face of yours and all this stuff. but then i didnt want to start liking him because he was like still in love with his girlfriend. and everyone knew it. he would want me to like come over late at night -but i think to just do stuff and i wasnt about to go over with my car at like 130 and get caught just for him; not happening. he asked if i would ever have sex with him and i was like noo im not doing that with you..im not ready and he was totally cool with it! i blew it though i really wish we got to hangout because i wouldnt mind making out with him =) and just cuddling with him while watching a movie. but now we dont even talk i dont see him anymore! i wish he would just i/m me on AIM or message me on myspace or do something to know that he still has interest in me. but sometimes or the way i told you it looks like he is just trying to use me and get in my pants and he would only want to do stuff with me-but im a strong girl and wouldnt let anyone pressure me into stuff and i know he wouldnt pressure me. only thing is he treated his girlfriend like a f'in queen. loved her so much did anything for her and she treated him like shit but he STILL loved her after that..i just dont know what to do. do you think its the right thing to wait for him to talk to me or whatever and if he doesnt then just blow this whole thing off and obviously he still doesnt have interest in me or what?
well THANKS<3
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You're 16, he's 14 rightt.. He could've liked the idea that you were older. Maybe he thought you'd drive him around and stuff.
Or maybe he thought you weren't interested in him because you wouldn't go to his house. He could've just gotten the wrong signal. You know you have to kinda spell it out for em somtimes..
I don't think you should wait around for him. It kinda sounds like he was on the rebound lookin to get a lil somethin somethin. But if you feel like you want to, then why wait for HIM? You should try making the move. Then if he's the same way, move on, he's ovbiously not THAT mature if he handled the situation that way.
If all else fails atleast try to be friends with him, take him places with you, just hang out. It could lead to more you never know!
Good luck
=] Evy
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I hate to say this hun and your not going to like it.... you refuse to have sex - your no longer speaking? See the connection. Yeh he may of said some really nice things to you but lads will say anything if they think its going to get them some. He is obviously on the rebound from his last relationship,since it sounds to me like he worshiped the ground he ex walked on. I don't think you should wait around for him to talk to you, get out there and find someone thats worth it, afterall you will never see whats out there if you cant let go out this boy. If he does start to speak to you again then fair enough try it again, but dont just sit around waiting for something that might never happen. Gud luk! :)
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