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I am very scared about having sex and i feel very scared becasue my boyfriend always wants me to "give him head" all the time. and i always tell him i want to wait but all guys wanna have sex with me because i have HUGE tits.
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i think you need to look for a guy who respects you more.you shouldnt have to have sex until your comfortable. its not your fault some horny guy wants to get it on. those kind of guys would probably do a hole in the ground. and if he keeps asking you then hes not interested in you. hes interesting in a hole and hiself. and will probably dump you afterwards. maybe your looking at the wrong type of guys. if its a good relation ship then you should have to watch your back or any other part of you 24/7 around then. i mean yeesh smack him on the nose with a rolled up newspaper or something
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The thing he doesn't get is that it's your decision. If he wants to have sex, hey that's great! But if you don't, then it's not up to him to decide. Do what you think is best for YOU, not for him. Don't have sex young because there are a lot of consequences- an STD, pregnancy, lots of things. I wouldn't risk it. Seriously, if he's asking you to give him head, that's gross (in my opinion). Don't let him pressure you, do it when you're ready otherwise you might regret it. Good luck :)
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If you're scared, you're not ready. Don't do it if you don't want to, no one says you have to. Just keep telling him you want to wait until you're ready. If he doesn't respect that, find a different boyfriend.
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If i were you, i wouldn't do it. you're asking people on an advice website, and it sounds like you're too young and should wait it out. if he's getting anxious about it, you should ask why. it shouldn't be something to rush, it's supposed to be for both of you, and if you aren't comfortable with it then i would just hold off for a while. talk to him about it too, and if he seems to avoid it or get uncomfortable then you definitely shouldn't. if he isn't mature enough to even TALK about sex than he shouldn't be doing it. it also sounds like you're worried that he just want's to have sex based on your looks. that's a horrible reason babe, and you need to wait for a guy who doesn't wan't to have sex just to see you naked.
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