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my friend took my clothes..but she denies it..i cant trust h
16/f
lately or recently i have lost like 3 tank tops and expensive pair of jeans. i thought that my friend mandi took them because like i was at her cabin with her and i brought them up there and when i come home there not in my bag? well i was soo PISSED OFF. she said her aunt found some in the bathroom and was gonna bring them to her house but she said she came and her mom wouldnt let her in because she didnt know who she was (mandi's parents are divorced) and i knew that was a bunch of BS. and i felt bad because my family isnt the richest and clothes are that CHEAP these days so i couldnt go buy myself a new wardrobe and replace the clothes i lost. well mine and mandi's friend lisa were all together one night and lisa is like mandi those are my pants you are wearing! and mandi is like lisa no there not my dad bought them for me and shes like not uh i remember i had them in our locker when we were sharing them and you brought them home and lisa is like if they are size 7 they are mine so she checks and they are 7's! and mandi still denies it but hollister doesnt make those pants anymore they're an old brand and she said her dad just bought them for her when she told me that her friend jackie gave them to her and amanda wears like a 3/4 not a 7! and then i was like woww she probably has my clothes too! and i was like lisa did you see her wearing a brown aero tank top with a little tan butterfly in the corner? and shes like yep shes worn that around me before! I KNOW SHE HAS MY CLOTHES. i asked her about it though and shes like nooo i dont have them sorry. and i cant go to her house because its an appt. and she never lets anyone in her house trust me ive tried! and i dont want to go snooping around her room. im soo f'in mad though! one of them were a new tank top i just bought too. me and lisa cant trust her around our stuff anymore! and this year she wants to share a locker and i was like ookay. but that was before i knew all this stuff! last year we shared one and she like took all my pencils without asking then i didnt have any! i just dont know what to do anymore..now i dont really want to share a locker but im really bad at like saying no and im scared she will share one with lisa then and i wont see mandi anymore! and shes like the only one i see at school..or hangout with in the morning.
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Your friend steals from you, stop being her friends right now before she starts stealing other things from you. Don't worry about your clothes, consider that a small price to pay for learning that you can't trust someone before you loose some really important to you.
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Ok first to get your clothes back, your parents need to have a talk with her parents. Your parents work hard to keep you clothed, im pretty sure hers do the same, if not, that's not your problem or an excuse for her to steal your clothes. After that it would be best if you stopped talking to her and asked your admin. to change ur locker combo. I know it sounds a lil mean but she deserves.
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ok well obvoisly this girl is not a true friend i think you should tell her that when you confront herou should also tell her that you need your clothes back and you are sorry she did this to you tell her please dont denie this it will only make things worse ask her wat motivated her to steal your clothes she may have a logical reason and then you guys can work on rebuilding your friendsip if you choose to dont let her make you feel guilty for this you know you are right tell me how it goes
~nikki~
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I don't think you sould confront her with everyone else. You should get her aside one day when no one else is around and be serious with her and tell her that you KNOWW what she did and she doesn't have to keep lieing about it. As you said, her parents are divorced. Meaning they probably don't have alot of money. Which probably means she's jealous that you guys have the clothes that you do, and she just wants to be like you guys. Anyways talk to her about it and tell her it has to stop. Tell her she's more than welcome to borrow a few things every now and then but not without you knowing. Also tell her to give everyone their things back and even go for an appology. Don't just ignore it though, she'll keep doing it and one day it could be more than just clothes!
=] Evy
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Oh my god, that is ridiculous. She is a petty thief.
Both you and Lisa need to confront her together and tell her that she needs to give you your clothes back and you’ll forgive her but if she doesn’t, you’re going to resort to drastic measures.
If she gives you the clothes, accept them and be more careful around her and your stuff next time. If she doesn’t, call up her mom and her dad and complain to them. Tell them that if they don’t deal with her, you’ll have to take it to the authorities.
If that doesn’t work, gather up receipts and photos of you in your clothes as well as testimonies from other friends that know they have seen you in the clothes. Get as much evidence as you can. File in small claims.
It sounds harsh because it’s your friend but you need to stop her from stealing now before she starts stealing bigger and more expensive things. You need to watch out for her and yourself too.
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