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Friend & weed
My friend, Kyle, changed. He was always the type of person to not to drugs like weed and such. Him and his girlfriend (which is one of my best friends) have been going out for almost 2 years. He always got mad at her if she drank or smoked anything and that's why she never did it. Now, he started hanging out with our friend Luke. He's changed Kyle soo much. Kyle is smoking weed quite a few times and he's lieng to his girl friend. Their relationship is none of my buisness but I have to talk to her so she doesn't do anything stupid.
I care about both of them so much. They're like my family and she can't even talk to him anymore and she feels like he doesn't care.
What could I say to her.. what advice should I give her? Thank you so much.
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You should definitely talk to Kyle and show him how this is having such a negative affect on him and his girlfriend, and you should try to get Kyle's girlfriend to talk to Kyle about this too, it's not fair she's being lied to, and maybe Kyle is changing and he's changing in a bad way, and you can be the one to help stop him.
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Explain to Kyle how his relationship and friendship is more important than doing drugs. You need to confront him that what he is doing is wrong and needs to stop. It sounds pretty hyprocritical of him to tell his girlfriend stuff like that is wrong when he ends up doing it.
Tell Kyle that this isn't him and he needs to change. His girlfriend wants his old self back and you want your friend back as well.
The down side is in some cases it's hard to quit drugs, so you will need to support him.
In the meantime, explain to his girlfriend that she will need to help him quit the habit and to get his old self back.
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The best advice that you can give to your friend is telling her that it's probably time to end the relationship because of the lies. Relationships will never survive without trust and I'm not saying that you should be mad at her if she doesn't end it because she might not. Two years is a pretty long time in a relationship and she might stay because she's become comfortable with this guy and she might convince herself that he'll quit or he'll come out with the truth.
Just let her know that she is being treated unfairly by him and that you feel like it's time for her to show him that she's beginning to worry and reconsider the relationship if she's willing to.
I think it's very upsetting for your friend to go through this. So give her time because that's what she needs the most. If she really does end this relationship, it'll be just about one of the hardest things she's ever gone through. It's too bad that this guy couldn't have said no to the drugs and getting that started instead of hurting a girlfriend who deserves a lot better.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well actually you really should talkto both of them together and if he and she really is your friend then they will listen to what u have 2 say
oh and tell them what they are doing is wrong, stupid,immature, and very deadly and you do not want them to be in any kind of danger like cancer or cops,etc.
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