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HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

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i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

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My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14?

L0VE D0ES N0T SEE AN AGE. I am 14, my boyfriend of over a year is 21. He loves me more than my parents and wants more than just sex. I think its okay. Yes, it is possible to find your true love at 14. My boyfriend and I are actually engaged to get married in a couple of years. I love him more than anyone else. So, I think the best way to find out if he is your true love, is to hug him, and if your heart skips a beat or you feel like everything around you stops, thats when you know you love him. Just be a little careful, sometimes older guys want sex. Don't get me wronge, I don't think he does, but a lot of guys his age only want to get with a girl for sex, even if they say they love you. So, find out if he is a virgin, and what his morals are and you should be okay. But, I personaly think he really does love you! =]

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im thinking about getting my tounge pierced but not letting my mom find out. how bad does it hurt & how long is it sore. & like do you talk weird with it in at first. haha any info would be great. -- i would get it professionally done by my friends sister by the way. no need to worry about that.

Hi. I have over 20 piercings, including my tongue. So, with that being said, you could say I know what I'm talking about. To answer your question, it hurts. In some cases, I have heard of it bleeding. It stays sore for about 4 or 5 days. The first couple of weeks is rough though, you have to get used to having it. You do talk wierd, for a while. But you get used to it. It does get swollen though. Theres a website, I think its, www.tribaltic.com or something close to that, you should check it out, you can learn a lot. If that link doesn't work, go to yahoo and type in body piercing, then click the link that is closest to the one I just gave you. Its like the 3rd or 4th one. Hope I helped! =]

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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance

I wanna start out and say that, don't go and have sex just because everyone else is. Waiting to have sex shows you have good morals. Me on the other hand always said I would wait until marriage. That was before I met my boyfriend. We have been together for over a year, and hes 21. 7 years older than me. I lost my virginity to him when I was 12, so he was 19. I know that sounds wronge, but yeah. But, I loved him and it was my idea to have sex. He actually didn't want to because it was well one, illegal, and he loved me more than just being a female with a vagina. Anyways, on with your question...I really don't feel like giving you the story, cause its like impossible for me to tell a story, and leave out the details. So, I'm just gonna tell you what you need to know. Your first time hurts, even when he has a small penis. My boyfriend, has like a 3rd arm. It hurt. But I have heard that everyones first time hurts and penis size doesn't matter. The second time hurts too, it takes a couple of times before you really can get used to the feeling and it not hurt. Don't do anything that you are pressured into, you want your first time to be special for you and just not a fast fuck job. Lose it to somebody you have been with for a long time, and know you want to spend the rest of your life with, or at least be with for a really long time. As you know, use a condom. Just make sure that you are relaxed, it shouldn't hurt that bad if you are relaxed. I hope I helped!

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What are some good ways to straighten my hair? I use a Conair Cermaic straightner now and when I'm done, some of it is still frizzy. Any good creams or anything you would reccomend?

Hi. My boyfriends sister is a hair stylest, my hair used to look like an electricuted poodle. So, she told me what to buy and get and all that good stuff, and its the only thing that has really worked.
First;; Buy some shampoo and conditioner, its by Herbel Esscence, and its new. Its in a pinkish bottle, its called Straighten Up. Make sure you buy the conditioner also. If you condition your hair it will cause less breakage which means less frizz.
Second;; Once your hair is washed, conditioned, as soon as you step out of the shower, wrap your hair in a large tshirt. Towels make your hair have friction and that friction causes frizz.
Third;; When your hair is almost dry, take it out, comb it however you want it.
Fourth;; Take a large hair clip, and clip up the top layer of your hair, use the lowest heat setting of your hair dryer and dry only the section down, then straighten. Then, take and unclip a little of your hair and do the same thing. Keep doing that until you are finished.

Doing all of that will result in almost perfect or perfect hair. =]

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hi, i recently (yesterday) bought a cocatiel from a pet shop. i dont know how old it is, but was wandering if you could give me some tips on hand taming him. thanks in advance

I new exactly how you feel. I bought a cockatiel last summer. (well actually my boyfriend bought him) The pet shop said they didn't know how old he is, but apparently you shouldn't buy a bird unless you know how old he/she is.

You need to get you some leather gloves so that when you stick you hand in the cage, if it trys to bite it won't hurt. Cause they hurt really bad when they bite. He will eventually learn to get on your finger or hand. If you plan on taking him out of the cage, get his wings clipped, so he won't fly into stuff. Oh, and turn the ceiling fan off when you take him out, birds like to fly onto ceiling fans.

Thats pretty much all I know, Sorry.
Oh, and you can tell if it is a boy or girl by that red circle on its had. If its small, its a girl, and if its big, its a boy. =]

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I'm aware that the new style is now 'skinny' jeans, but I think they are absolutely hideous. I refuse to wear them. My question is will I stick out in school this year? It seems like lots of people are switching to skinny jeans, and I'm sticking with my flares. Just tell me that truth, I need to know. Are flares still okay or is it all about skinny?

I agree with you, I hate those jeans. Not to mention how they make your feet and ankles look. You probably won't stick out, because fat people can't wear skinny jeans, just because that would look gross. I don't think you will stick out unless the whole population starts wearing them. Yes, flares are still okay. I see a lot of people around here still wearing them. The only problem you might have is finding somewhere to buy them. =]

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ok so im getting a phone but i dont know like where to start i want one that like i can call people and text but i odnt want a bill everymonth and i really want a razor HELLPPP links anything

If you don't want a bill, get a Pay As you Go. Or a Prepaid. Pretty much the same thing. There is only 1 kind of prepaid Razr. Its at Wal-Mart. However, I did find the link to it;
(These are online only by the way, you CAN NOT get a prepaid Razr in stores ANYWHERE)
This is the Pink Razr:
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4940101
This is for the Silver Razr:
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4308027

They are both with different prepaid compainies. The cheapest company, is the Pink one, it is with Cingular Go Phone. And the Silver one is with Verizon.

Pretty much, you just buy a minute card, and you can talk until you use up all your minutes, then you buy another card. Texting is not free, so you have to make sure you have enough minutes or money in your account to be able to text and talk.

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I just entered my freshman year of high school, and I find it to be really stressful and i'm thinking of switching to getting homeschooled.. I just don't know where to start. Like..how does the whole thing work? Are there diffrent ways you can get homeschooled?
I have a friend who said he finished a whole class in like a week..that sounds like what I want to do.

Hi. I'm homeschooled. I'm also in 9th. It works pretty easy, all you do is get your mom to send in an homeschooling application, and everyone gets in so its not this person it, this persen isn't. Then when they send you a paper back, you can start homeschooling. You can do it by books or by DVD, or CDs on the computer. I use the CDs just because they are the easiest and don't cost but around $300. The DVDs are not the helpful, and books are just really expensive, and confusing. Plus, if your mom has another job, she may not have time to homeschool you, which is why the CDs are the way to go. You don't have to have pen and paper or anything. Its all on the computer. Yes, you can finish a whole class in a week. Its pretty simple, you just have to work really hard. For example, now, I'm in 9th. Well this year I'm going to do 9th and 10th together. So when I enter 11th, everyone else will be entering 10th. I hope I helped!

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Im getting a new phone soon .. im on verizon im either gonna get the razor or chocolate .. but idk which one to get. is the chocolate like wayy more expensive than the razor? idk which one to get .. something that's cool and works well. thanks

Hey!! I used to have a razr, but my boyfriend threw me in the pool and screwed it up, resulting in me getting a chocolate this weekend. The chocolate is way more expensive than the razr, but it is worth it. You can go to the Verizon website and read and compare them, thats what I ended up doing. They both do the same thing, just the chocolate has more memory.
If you want to read about the chocolate, then go to verizon.com/chocolate

But I would recomend the razr, it has better quality. Although I've only had the chocolate for 4 days, but don't get me wronge, the chocolate is a good phone.

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Okay so i`m in the eiqhth qrade &+ i like this quy whos a senior. hes seventeen &+ im thirteen. It seems like a huqe difference but aqe is just a number if you ask me. We have talked alot he is extremley mature &+ wants to wait for sex just like I do. At midniqht he always takes his parents car &+ comes see`s me. We have a qreat time toqether &+ what not. He said I was one of the closests friends he has &+ I admitted I liked him to a friend who told him. &+ now he has talked to me alot more lately. he calls me all the time. i was wonderinq does he like me or does he feel bad. My parents love him &+ his love me. I like him alot i`m confused.

Hello. My boyfriend of way over a year is turning 21 tomorrow, and I'm 14. So, I totally see where you are coming from. Love doesn't see an age. By, what you say, I would say he likes you. The easiest way, is just to ask him. It sounds really hard, but really its easy. Just casually be like "do you like me more than a friend" See, what he says. Its also a plus that your parents like him, even more of a reason for him to like you! But by him saying that you are one of his closest friends, I'd def. say he likes you. Just ask him. =]

Good Luck! =]

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I don't understand why boys my age think I'm not that pretty but then guys 6 years older then me think I'm soo sexy. I can't find a boyfriend my own age but then I find a boyfriend whos 5 years older then me who thinks I'm gorgeous and loves me !! When my dad is driving me to somewhere and I feel like waiting in the car all of these 20 year olds park their car right next to my dads and they stare at me and start whistling and then honk at me when they drive away and start waving. But then I walk into school and the boys that are in my school could care less about me. I don't get it!!! Why are guys 10 years older then me think I'm attractive and random dudes come up to me saying I'm hot when they are like 22 and the ones my age think I'm just okay?!!?

Hmm..my boyfriend happens to be 7 years older than me, but I've never really been in the situation that you are in. But since most of my guy friends happen to be older (in the age range you are talking about) I can pretty much tell you why older guys think you are sexy. It is one of 2 reasons.
1- They are more mature, unlike stupid dumb guys your age.
Or..
2- They think you like "alright" (like guys your age do) and just wanna have sex with you.


Hope I helped! =]

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everytime i go to the bathroom, there is this clear... like gooop. its clear and gooey. and its in my undies=( what is it? how can i get rid of it?



p.s. i have not had period.






hellppp=[

Its called discharge, and its a sign that you are gonna get you're period soon. There is nothing to worry about, all girls get it. There really is no way to get rid of it. Sorry.

Maybe you should go to beinggirl.com , its got a lot of helpful stuff on it you might be interested in! =]

But really, all it is, is a sign that you will be getting your period soon. Nothing to worry about! =]

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I'm 14/f African American, if that's any help. I was wondering if guys like girls who wear bikinis and have outtie belly buttons that aren't big. Thanks a bunch!

Guys LOVE girls in bikinis. Yes, even when they have outties. Most guys I know love outties cause they are so cute. I must agree, outties are very cute. Sometimes I wish I had one..Oh Well.

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Hi I was wondering if you can use Palmer's Cocoa Butter Massage Cream for Stretchmarks even if you're not pregnant. And also is it safe to use anywhere on your body where stretchmarks have occured? Thanksss :]

Yes, it is fine to use it all over your body, even on strechmarks from not being pregnant. Plus, its super good for your skin and makes it soft! =]

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does anyone know how to get rid of the words that come up all the time. I go to google and then if i type 1 letter like "C" i get all the other words i wrote before like cat and stuff (underneith the text bar). Does anyone know how to get rid of them words? Thanks :) (I hope you get it lol)

When the other words come up use your down arrow and when you get to the word you want to delete, hit the delete button. The delete button is in with the 6 keys above your arrow keys. (some ppl don't know) But that is how you delete those words! =]

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I heard sme feedback from my friends that although in porn girls like crazy 11 inch dicks, in real life the girls I talked to say that all they feel is pain when guys with 7 to 8 inch dicks have sex with them.They can't really feel pleasure but just a painful feeling and it also is harder for them to blow, and it's a disadvantage for the guy as well because he won't get to have his whole dick covered.

While some girls in my class said that guys with relatively small, maybe 4 to 5 inch dicks are good because they hit the g-spot which happens to be where the head of the dick goes to, so in other words, it's like a joystick.So which is it?I'm confused.

Its pretty much personal pref. My boyfriends got friggin 8 inches. You can actually feel pleasure, you just have to get used to. It takes maybe 3 or 4 times to actually get pleasure cause its so big. (I'm not even covering how wide it is here)

Although I have been with guys, with smaller dicks. And they did pretty much the same job as an 8 inch dick. Personally, my boyfriend pleasures me more than someone with a 4 or 5 inch has. But thats just me. All girls are different and have different opions. And everyone is pleasured differently.

I hope I made some sense..

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My boyfriend is 16 and I am 13, I know that is kind of a big age difference but he's alot more mature. I'm really afraid to go to the movies with him and stuff because I don't want him to try to make a move. I'll make out with him and stuff, but he might try to reach down my pants, and I'm soo NOT ready for that. How do I tell him that without sounding like a prude? He's had sex before so I told him that I'm not gunna have sex with him. This was his answer: "i dont care I dont want sex either I just want a beautiful aka you." So does it seem like he's after sex? And I'm really scared to talk to him on the phone so when he asked me to call him I said my phone is lost which it reallly isn't. I feel guilty, but my parents don't want me talking to boys. Haha, if I do go to the movies with him, should I bring a friend?

Hi. I'm 14 and my boyfriend of over a year is 21, so I can pretty much understand where you're coming from. From the way it sounds, he is really into you, and whats you and not sex or anything sexual. I mean, I don't think he would try to reach into your pants, just because he said he doesn't want sex, and thats pretty much related. But, if you really want to tell him not to, try saying like, "I just want you to know, I'm not ready for more than making out" Haha, I'm still scared to talk to my boyfriend on the phone, I think its a shyness thing. Try giving him your number and tell him to call. For me, its easier to talk on the phone when he calls. I can't really tell you whether or not to bring a friend. But if your parents don't want you talking to boys, take a friend thats a girl, and tell your parents you're going with her. Just make sure he is okay that you bring a friend! =]

Sorry this is so long..:/

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whats the song called where the main chorus is like "i like big butts and i can not lie, all the.. can not deny.." or something like that, and how does the main chorus go??

Its called "Baby Got Back"
I think its by Sir-Mix-A Lot but I'm not sure.

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i saw your answer to a question before about weights if you are 5'5 and how you have a health book or something. Can you do the same thing for me but with a person whos 5'3? thanks a lot =]

I can.

If you have a;;

Small Frame: 111-124
Medium Frame: 121-135
Large Frame: 131-147

Thats it.
Have a great day! =]

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skinny=?
a little below normal=?
normal=?
fat=?

I looked it up in my health book, heres what I got for someone who is 5'5''

Small Frame: 117-130
Medium Frame: 127-141
Large Frame: 137-155

Hopefully that helped you!

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