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Ok, Me and this guy just hooked up yesterday. Well today at school I didn't seem him very much and everytime we would talk he was like why arent you talking to me and i was like well i havent seen you and stuff like that. But still everytime he asks me that. what should I do. Please answer soon I need to know what you guys this for tomorrow

Try talking to him outside of school as well as in school. Just talk to him about ordinary stuff-school, friends, classes, ect. Hope my advice helps!

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there is this girl i really like in my science class. shes kinda out of my leauge but i cant get her outta my mind! ive asked her out but she said no but i dont know why. what should i do?

Try getting to know her a little bit better before you ask her out again. Once she gets to know you, she'll feel more comfortable around you. Hope my advice helps!

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is there any ways that i can delete a question that i answered?

If you go to edit answer and delete what you wrote and then press send, it deletes it. Hope my advice helps!

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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?

Go to your doctor and tell him a.s.a.p. Your boyfried had no right to do that. You can even file police charges against him for abuse and murder (if u had a miscarriage). GOod luick with your problem. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!

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Ok my dad lives in Atlanta Georgia and he doesnt send me anything like money and he said he would.I want a flip phone and my mom wont get it for me and i wanna ask my dad can he send me some money so i can get one. Is that being rude??? he needs 2 start sending me it or my mom is really going 2 get mad. So how do i tell him all this????
well thanx
signed,
Dont Know What To Do

By law, your dad has to pay child support each month. It wouldn't be rude to ask him. Hope my advice helps!

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Hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for ten months in March, and I really think that him and I are in love. Not just in a physical sense, but him and I connect mentally. We both really enjoy intellectual discussions about anything and everything. We can talk about any problems that we're having and the other can almost always relate. We can stay on the phone for hours at a time and not get bored, and both of us are extremely loyal to the other. We're just like best friends excluding the romance part. We're really close. The only thing is, sometimes it gets so discouraging when people say we're too young to be in love. I know we're both in love with each other, but other than getting married when we're able to (He and I are both fourteen), how can we deal with annoying old people who think love can only be understood at a certain age? Thanks in advance.

Love can happen at any age. If you truely love this guy, then just ignore everyone who has a problem with it. Hope my advice helps!

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i wanna get fatter but ma matabalism is way to high and everyone thinks im anorexic or baliemic and they yell at me when i skip luch cuz i dont got ne money and they think i just say that to get them away so what do i do help me plz. i want to get muscular a fatter ne one kno how to do this

Try exercising more and not skipping meals if you can help it. If you exersise, then you will become more muscular. Hope my advice helps!

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Well i've likes this guy for a long time now, and hes told me that he likes me and hes told some of my friends that he likes me, but hes gone out with a couple of gurls already, and i told him i liked him and stuff but he says that i dont show it and that im mean to him and i dont show any effection towards him. and my friends were telling him to go out with me and he was sayin how can i go out with her when shes so mean to me. but i realli realli like him.
i told him once that we should go out and give it a try and see how it goes, and he said thats wat i like to hear. and i asked him so are u gonna go out with me and he said lol and just shut up and stayed on for like 10 min and than left. i was talkin to him on aol.
but i like him.
help me plz.

Try to compliment him more and be nicer to him. If he continues to act like that, go out a find a guy thats even better! Hope my advice helps!

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ok so i am really really really upset! i like have a 70.00 in my literature class and a 76 in my civics class! i am really tryin to pull up that grade but i am not so sure how to! Reading my book 4 civics doesn't help it just makes me bored and my mind goes off yonder else where! Please please help me learn some good but while still being fun to learn more and bring up those low grades! thanx!

Get a group of friends togeter and have a study date. That way you can have fun with your friends and study at the same time. Hope my advice helps!

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I can do sprints, I'm fast at that, but I dread the mile because it's hard for me. does anyone know how to get in shape for long distance running?

Start by going for walks and practicing running. Go outside and run around the block a few times and as days go by, gradually increase your distance. Hope my advice helps!

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i was good friends with these 2 girls and they have been friends too. we would always hang out together..all friends, all happy. but lately they leave me out. like, they'll have each other over and put away messages up on AIM saying it. we were all supposed to see a movie together, then they went w/o me. its alomost like they do it on purpose. most people are saying i just need to drop them and get new friends, but when they do include me we have a lot of fun. i just get so confussed and mixed signals. please help (im 14, by the way)

All you need to do is to sit them down and tell them how you feel. If they are true friend, theyll understand. Hope my advice helps!

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I think I've finally decided to tell the guy that I like, how I feel about him. The only problem is, I'm not sure what to say. We're old friends and he's shy and I don't want it to be anymore akward than it has to be. I need some ideas on what to say and some encouragement.

Just openly come out and tell him that you like him. He'll probably be happy that you told him. Good luck! Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!

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hey i really like this guy, and i think he might like me, cuz he ALWAYS flirts with me, but im not sure (i am shy) how should i find out

Try flirting back. If he continues to flirt with you, then most likely he likes you. Hope my advice helps!

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I'm really skinny, especially my arms. I wanna build muscle in them, especially in my wrists cuz my wrists are so small and they make my arms look akward. What are some good excercises to build muscle in my arms? Thanks!

Try lifting weights and doing some pushups. Hope my advice helps!

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My friend just found out that they guy she was dating was two timeing her! She can't get it out of her head and I don't know what to do. I tried everything but nothing seems to be working. Advice, ANY advice, would be very helpful!

You just need to talk with her. Just let her know that you are there if she ever needs a sholder to cry on. Also you can hang out with her alot so that you can keep her mind on other things. Hope my advice helps!

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I have growing marks or stretch marks on my upper theighs. I've tried excersising that area but I dont know a whole lot of upper theigh/butt excersises. Does anyone know of any that work?

Also, if anyone knows of anything that can either get rid of competely or at least hide the stretch marks I have now. I've heard to use a self tanner but that only made my skin dark and the marks lighter.

Someone help? I promise to rate high.

Signed,
Stretch.

There are diiferent creams you can buy in stores. Vitamin E is an example. If that doesnt fade your stretch marks, then go and talk to your doctor and see if he or she will prescibe somethin for you. Hope my advice helps!

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okay..I know that this is bad and stuff but I just really need advice--quick! On sunday night i drank about a quarter of a bottle of beer, a few sips of sangria and like a cup of vodka..I am going to the doctor for a check-up on thursday and i'll be getting blood taken, will any of the alcohol be in my body still, and if so will it be shown when my blood is taken? (i'm 5'0'' and 100 lbs)

You dont need to worry. All traces of alcohol will have passed through your body by thursday. Hope my advice helps!

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Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please!

There is a big chance that you are pregnant. Go and talk to your parents. They will help you out. And go and buys a few of those pregnency tests. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)

If you want to date him but arent allowed, ask him to go to a group date. That way it wont be an actual date and your mom should be cool about it. And you need to explain to your mom that religion doest matter to you. Try inviting him to dinner so that he can talk with your mom. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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i am going to an interview because i want to become an actress but i am scared because i dont no who is going to be there and i am frightend that i will throw up or do something humiliating. does any one have experience or advice so i can calm down?

Just pretend that the people interviewing you are people you know. That way you feel relaxed and at ease. Hope my advice helps!

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