I think I've finally decided to tell the guy that I like, how I feel about him. The only problem is, I'm not sure what to say. We're old friends and he's shy and I don't want it to be anymore akward than it has to be. I need some ideas on what to say and some encouragement.
Karen answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:11 pm: It's great that you have decided that you want to tell this guy how you feel about him because if you don't, you may miss a chance of being with him. When you get the chance of talking to him, casually start up a conversation with him and just tell him how you feel about him. Being confident in yourself and things will go smoothly.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
superGiRL21 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 6:59 pm: hey first of all props to you for being brave enough to tell the guy you like how you feel about them. so many times people are too afraid of rejection or what the other person will think-you get major points for that!!! so as for suggestions as to what you could say i would just be as normal and natural as possible, you said you were old friends so maybe do something you 2 would normally do like go to a movie or hang out-then be as open and honest about it as possible, "i don't want to change anything between us but theres something i have to get off my chest" and then let ur feelings out. It might be a little hard at first but you'll feel really relieved that you did get it off your chest. Honestly I don't know how he's gonna respond so its a risk you gotta take. I'll be thinking of you though and i hope it works out for the best!!! xoxoxo [ superGiRL21's advice column | Ask superGiRL21 A Question ]
msBrightsiide answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 6:29 pm: go for it, tell him... you will feel so much better, and just be forward don't hesitate, just tell him how you feel, just let the words come out...don't plan it out, let it happen on its own... good luck... ooxx~ msbrightsiide [ msBrightsiide's advice column | Ask msBrightsiide A Question ]
toxxxic11ana answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:52 pm: Ok!!! I think you should always start on something like this.
"Oh my gosh i totally LOVE your shirt, it rally looks good on you!" You know!!! And if you see a diffrent face on him, you know blush, choke... something like that... GO FOR IT GIRL!!!!! [ toxxxic11ana's advice column | Ask toxxxic11ana A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:46 pm: just tell him straight up! i think he will be exited that you told him because he probably likes you to! talk to him online about it if you dont wanna tell him in person ! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
icey0990 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:38 pm: Im glad your going to tell him..because if you dont years from now you'll still be thinking of what could have been. It will drive you insane! The best way to say it is to get to the point quick if your going to do it in person. Just say..ive been thinking a lot and im starting to like you as more than friends. Keep it simple like that and good luck with everything!! [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
your_hot answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:37 pm: you should allways be straight up with him . i mena you never know if he feels the same way unless you tell him and asks how he feels. [ your_hot's advice column | Ask your_hot A Question ]
gsngirl7 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:35 pm: Just openly come out and tell him that you like him. He'll probably be happy that you told him. Good luck! Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out! [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
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