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what about me?
i was good friends with these 2 girls and they have been friends too. we would always hang out together..all friends, all happy. but lately they leave me out. like, they'll have each other over and put away messages up on AIM saying it. we were all supposed to see a movie together, then they went w/o me. its alomost like they do it on purpose. most people are saying i just need to drop them and get new friends, but when they do include me we have a lot of fun. i just get so confussed and mixed signals. please help (im 14, by the way)
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Hey, i know exacly how you feel. it happens to me alot. but just so you no you shouldnt get confused because you didnt do anything..thats there problem. and if they ever do that again just say hey do yall have a problem with me or something. if they dont answer or do something mean just tell them look im sick and tierd of it and if you want to be my friend please act like one.
well i hope i could help. goodluck!
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ok best thing to do hang out with this guys sumtimez but have more reliable friends too never just ditch friends no matter what.
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I think you should just drop them. I'm sure alot of people would be happy to have you as a friend, and not take advantage of you. Besta Luck
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All you need to do is to sit them down and tell them how you feel. If they are true friend, theyll understand. Hope my advice helps!
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i know exactly how u feell !! all you could do really is sit down n talk to your friends . ask them to start includint you more. and if they dont appriciate it . they arent good friends after all !!
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When they include you is there a catch ..like do they ask you for a ride home or do they use you for your place? if so they might be using you. Or maybe the reason is whoever's mom said they can only have 2 friends over. I watched an episode of dr phil and the topic was how cruel girls can be to one another..if they are doing it on purpose..they are not your friend. Maybe they dont realize they are hurting you? There are many posibilities and the best way to find out for sure is to talk to them and tell them your being left out and your hurt.
good luck!
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ok, well just ask them whats up if you don't want to lose all those good times. otherwise drop 'em. who cares. you could always get better friends who wont leave you out.
Becki
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You don't deserve friends like these two girls who always exclude you from doing things with them. You do need to drop them and get new and better friends, like what most people are telling you to do. But before you do this, talk to them and tell them how you feel. Tell them that it isn't fair to you when they promise that they will hang out with you one day and then they don't and hang out with each other. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ugh i hate when girls act that way, its so annoying! Anway..i agree with your friends, i think that you should just ditch them and find people who want to hang out with you. they don't seem like great friends if all they do is stay with each other and don't include you or anyone else...if you guys have fun when you together maybe you can just try one time to talk to them and tell them that you feel really leftout when they do that and remind them of all the good times that you all had and that you all should try and hang out again sometime. They could be so oblivious that they are even exluding you and you guys could be back to normal again, but if it keeps up these girls are just bitches and you should find some good friends.
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I think you should leave them to it for a week and hang out with someone else they will soon see what there missing out and include you again or if not
just talk to them about it, and bout how you feel
plz rate honestly
roxie
xxx hope it all goes ok
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