15/f. i moved into a brand new house, and my bedroom is white walls with light beige carpet. Everything so far in my room is red - red bedspread, curtains, lampshades, etc. I want to know what color i should paint my walls cause white is so boring. But i'm not allowed to paint them red cause thats way too much red! i was wondering if hot pink was a good color since its a shade of red, but my mom says that won't match. so can anyone think of a color? Thanks.
Brown, Gold, Gold with red trim like outlineing the doors and windows and ceiling, yellow, Orange, take a bunch of colors from your local home depo or the place where your buying the paint and match them up with the red and see which you like best...hope i helped...mauh!
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i desperately need help to stop cutting.. im too scared everyone will judge me if i tell them, ive been doing it since i was 11 (now 16). i wanted to tell my best friend but i have already told her i got the scars from random accidents.. she has made jokes in the past about how they really look like self mutilation scars and she said 'i really dont understand how anyone could be into that.. 'i hate my life" *gestured cutting wrist. i was going to tell my teacher when he had a discussion with me on how i deal with emotions but i just couldnt say it. Theres no way i would talk to my mum because she would over react.. and i dont want to go to counseling because i heard they tell your parents.. how can i stop this by myself? i already write a journal, draw pictures and horse ride
Ok well first you have already helped yourself in one way, you realized you have a problem and your asking for help. So i have a few tips, when you feel like cutting, take an Ice Cube and put it in the palm of your hand, squeeze it until its all melted and dont let go, it should give you the same feeling as cutting yourself, maybe not the exact feeling but somewhere along that line, once youve dont that if you still feel like cutting take an ice cube and do the same thing, but this time on your wrist and dont let go until it melts. you could also put a rubberband on your wrist and when you feel like cutting just snap it aainst your wrist. its good that you keep a journal, you could also write in your journal things you like about your self and your life, that way you keep your mind on the good not the bad. But i advise you to tell your mother, but if you dont want to tell her, then you should go to a counselor because they can really help, and I have had this problem before with some of my friends and i went to the gudiance to get one of them help, and they didnt tell their parent because she asked him ( the counselor ) not to tell. and the situation worked out good. but if/when you go to a counselor ( just one in your school ) you should ask them to tell your mother, that way it would be easier for you not to fake and pretend everythings ok at home to your mother. You should also have a talk with your friend and tell her whats going on, that might have been her way of saying "please stop if you are cutting" you should invite her over and tell her not to tell anyone because its a secret and its getting taken care of, then tell her that your cutting and say that when she said 'i really dont understand how anyone could be into that.. 'i hate my life" ' that it made it harder for you to tell her because you didnt want her to make judgments about you or put you down or loose a friend, but i can now tell you i am because im getting help for it, and i just wanted to let you know that. and just tell her what you feel, and that you really cant understand the whole " i hate my life thing" if you dont live it first, and hopefully it will give her a better perspective on cutting and the way you feel. Get into new things, like music, more art stuff, writing, poetry, etc. thats how i get out my emotions and when i feel that theres noting left in the world for me, i sit down and watch a sad movie ( or comedy ) and cry/laugh myself to sleep. I hope i helped....keep me updated! mauh xoxoxo
~Katie Leigh~
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Ok for my birthdya this year(14) im going to have it at a theme park. I was only invite 5 friends intill my whole class some how found out.Should I tell them im not having one then invite only the ones i was gonan invite or ininvite all the girls, it really expensive and for sure we are going
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just invite the people you were gunna invite, the others have to understand its very expensive and you are not able to afford that much, and that if they want to just meet you there they'd have to pay for themselves, so just invite the people you were going to and if others happen to come to the theme park and pay for themselves and spend the day with you that'd be cool, but dont feel you have to invite everybody, yea it might hurt some peoples feelings and if anybody gets mad at you just tell them that you cant afford that....hope i helped...mauh
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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too?
Its Possible that you may have it, you need to ask your parents and go to a doctor and see whats going on, its better to get help soon if you have something than to let it go on for long periods of time, I hope you dont have it!! and im sorry about loosing your sister...Hope things get better very soon!! mauh ~ill keep you in my prayers~
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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.
wear black, like a black dress ( if your a girl ) or a black suit and black shoes, dont wear white or bright colors, its not a happy moment. also make or buy a card and write alot of stuff in it personal stuff or just like " im sorry for your loss..my deepest sympathy " etc, you can bring a gift but you probably shouldnt but if you decide to then do like a photo album or a frame and decorate the outside with things like " forever in our heart " " always in our prayers " " gardian angel " " heaven sent " etc. and bring flowers attached to it and a picture of him inside the frame...but you dont have to bring a gift, i dont think you should but if you wanted to do somthing like that...hope i helped...im sorry for the loss...
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a month. During that time I have became really good friends with 2 of his best friends and I'm starting to like them. I liked the one before I started going out with my current boyfriend though. What should I do?
You should break up with your boyfriend and figure out what exactly you want, get your head striaght, ya know what i mean..then once you figure out what you really want go for it...hope i helped!
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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it
Yea I do that sometimes..the best way to get over it is to find your best qualities like your hair or your teeth or smile or something and perfect it. then you have something to be confident in. but you should also look within because you probably have something thoes models dont, you may be creative, sensitive, a good friend, caring, awesome personality etc. and maybe you have to work to be " beautiful " but what does that mean? not everybody can be a size zero and have perfect hair and perfect smile etc. they have flaws too..but it would be better to be yourself, cuz you shouldnt change you because everyone thinks that thoes models are " beautiful " whos to judge? nobodys perfect, everybody has flaws even if they are hard to see, they might be really pertty and flawless on the outside but on the inside have insecurities and have doubts and be self centered etc, and somebody may weigh 350 pounds and not look so " pretty " but on the inside they are a wonderful person and they know just how to make you smile when your having a bad day, so dont change yourself to be like them, just be youself, that doesnt mean you dont have to or have to change your hair color or the makeup you use or your hairstyle etc, just dont change the way you are to be the way they are, cuz thats not cool...so just consentrate on your good qualitites, hair, makeup, face, smile, teeth, acessories, clothes, shoes etc, pick your best one and perfect it. Dont look in the mirror as much, and when you do dont look in the mirror for long periods of time just trying to pick out all your flaws..your beautiful inside and out, dont let anybody tell you different....hope i helped...mauh!
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im a 21yr old single parent, amd am in love with a married man with two kids, we have been together for 4yrs this would be the 5th now, he tells me he loves me we always argue about our relationship for weeks but eventually amke up and all he teells me he is having major problems with he wife and wants to divorce her i dnt know how true this is or whether he just says so to get what he wants and it has worked for all these years, he doesn t not agree for me to see anyone else but he is married, i love him but im not sure whether it is worth waiting for he says he also wants to have a baby wiht me but what ifheruns away denies it my parents dont know about this relationship but my mum has emphasied never to go out with a married man what do i do, he also expects me to do all the contacting callin smsin and if i dont its a big story does he really love me is heworth the while????
ok so your single..and hes married...thats messed up...hes cheating on his wife..and essiently cheating on you too...hes playing both of you..and you should break up with him and tell his wife...you can find soo much better...hes not worth while...i hope i helped...
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here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!
Its ok to be fourteen or even 15 and still not get your period...i got my period the year i turned 14 i was 13 at the time..but i alaways thought there was suttin wrong with me..but nope...its not bad...some people dont get it until there 18...yea...so dont worry..if you want more info on it talk to your doctor...hope i helped!!
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Hey Do you have to know everyone in a band inorder to listen to them?
Like say i liekd a band and i listened to them...do i have to know every person in it and wat insturment they play?
Kay thanx
Ill rate
no unless your obsessed....you dont have to know every detail in order to like them...if u like the music then u like the music...you dont have to prove it..thats just sillly...
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i have a big project im required to complete..and i was basically told that i should base it on something im passionate about. thing is i dont think im passionate about anything. and im no expert in anything. i was thinking of organizing a twister tournament, that woulld raise money for hospice. this project is completely open-ended, but the twister im afraid id get bored and quit or fall behind... it doesnt sound that interesting. any suggestions/thoughts about what i should do?
you can have just a whole bunch of games....twister, cards, charades, etc..
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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?
yes...they can bring down your grade if you are not prepared for class...ex- missing homework, no pencil/pen/folder, no book/packet, no paper...etc...they are allowed to because your not prepared for class which " takes time away from the other students working/learning time because of the having to give/find one of thoes objects to a student which causes them to have to stop teaching and help a student " i know...it stinks...alot..but he/she shouldnt take off too many points off your grade...hope i helped
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is it better to do crunches all at the same time, but like do 20 crunches then do 20 crunches and so on.. or do it throughout the day? i do my crunches at the same time and do about 60 crunches, but i rest in between about a minute
its would be better if you do them all at once.....but you could also do 60 all at once and then through out the day do 20 then 20 then 20 or just do 2 sets of 60...or something like that....it couldnt hurt...only help
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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high)
you could get a whiteboard or a chalkborad and put it up in your room...and just write down your homework on a peice of paper during school and when you get home just write it big on the board that way youll remember what you have to do and then you can just look up at the board and see what you have to work on next and you dont have to go looking around your room trying to find your agenda or anything and that way it will be easier..also you could make a binder of all your homework throughout the year..like write down the day the class and the homework and then once you do your homework check it off and if you didnt do your homework or you were absent then you know what day...good luck hope i helped...
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hi im 14 and i got my period in august and i only got it once and i hadnt had it since..august! i know im not pregnant! do i have cancer or an infection?? someone help me!
most people get it once and then they stop getting it...dont worry it happened to me to...i had it once and then the next year i started to get it again...dont worry...but if you want to make sure just go to a doctor....
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Why do sum people always say G-d insted of God!?It's only bad wen u use His name as a swear word!So its ok to say God if ur not swearing!it's soo annoying!
I know watcha mean...lol..
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now and as we all know Valentines Day is really soon but i cant seem to figure out what to get him, i dont want to get hime like cologne or jewlery or clothes, something diffrent but i can't figure it out and i really need to figure out soon, can someone please help me out PLEASE
Maybe you could get him flowers like 9 flowers for how many months together...or 9 real flowers for how long youve been together and 1 fake one and tell him that when the last one dies, thats the day youll stop loving him...maybe a cute card..or a stuffed animal....or chocolates....( i dont know how old you are ) but you could cook him dinner maybe...or a movie...or something like that...hope i helped...
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ok, i'm not ugly, but i'm not exactly beautiful. does anyone know if there's a way to make me look and FEEL prettier? and by "pretty" i dont mean "slutty"
eye liner, light brown/tan eye shadow, mascara, light pink or clear lip gloss, light blush, and maybe straightening your hair...that worked for me..good luck hope i helped!
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...maybe we could talk bout God and the trinity sometime..
yaa that would be cool!=D my sn is hottpink2010 wat is urs?
mine is Xx4KayKay8xX
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i have swimming every-other day first hour at my school. basically, we have to swim for 50 minutes, and then we get 10 minutes to shower - change- and get ready, and then itsoff to our next class. i`m very much a girly-girl, hardly ever seen without my makeup on and spend over an hour getting ready for things. I NEED HELP how am i suposed to get ready in 10 minutes?! and how can i do my hair really cute when it`s wet?? i don`t really care about not having time to put on my make up, because i don't really want to be known as the barbie. BUT i dont want to have gross nasty hair either! HELPPPP
Watcha do is make sure you get all the chlorine out of your hair...then when your done get drssed real fast so you have more time to do your hair..for your hair you could do curly/straight down ( idk your hair type ) you could do half up in a cute messy or perfect bun and the other half down, you could do it all in a messy bun or all in a perfect bun, you could do a pony tail with 2 pieces of hair framing your face, you can do low pigtails or low braided pigtails, you can put like a quarter of the top back and clip it and then put the rest down straight/curly, you could put it in a clip, what you should do is get a waterproof watch and go home and take a shower and time it then get out and get dressed and then do your hair and see how long it takes...so then you can end up perfecting it...also take a shower and then after try expiermenting with the different ideas..so then you can pick the cutest one and then do the shower and dressed and the hair and time it and maybe try shorting it if its too long...hope i helped!....
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