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what do i do
im a 21yr old single parent, amd am in love with a married man with two kids, we have been together for 4yrs this would be the 5th now, he tells me he loves me we always argue about our relationship for weeks but eventually amke up and all he teells me he is having major problems with he wife and wants to divorce her i dnt know how true this is or whether he just says so to get what he wants and it has worked for all these years, he doesn t not agree for me to see anyone else but he is married, i love him but im not sure whether it is worth waiting for he says he also wants to have a baby wiht me but what ifheruns away denies it my parents dont know about this relationship but my mum has emphasied never to go out with a married man what do i do, he also expects me to do all the contacting callin smsin and if i dont its a big story does he really love me is heworth the while????
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ok so your single..and hes married...thats messed up...hes cheating on his wife..and essiently cheating on you too...hes playing both of you..and you should break up with him and tell his wife...you can find soo much better...hes not worth while...i hope i helped...
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You have been his mistress for the past 4 years! If he was going to leave his wife for you, he would have done it years ago. He is not going to magicaly change overnight. What do you want from him? You can't expect him to be your husband or father of your children becuase he is not dedicated to you. If he was, he wouldn't be married! It's time go grow up and face reality. I suggest you leave him and focus on taking care of your child, that is what the focus of your life should be.
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Dump his ass, seriously, he's completly controlling your life, when he can't even handle his own!!! Stay away from him, staying with him.. thats the worst decison you can make! If he loved you, he wouldnt have a wife!! Find someone thet won't controll your life, and isnt...MARRIED!!
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O no..this is not a good situation. Your a young woman..so live it up! Dont get involved with a married man..its too much work ..with the sneaking around. If he really wanted you he would get a divorce. Plus..picture yourself as his wife..wouldnt you be heartbroken if you knew your husband was fooling around? Your not the bad guy or anything..trust me..because he wants you also. But im just saying..its traumatic to a family if the kids or the wife ever found out. I always say..once a cheater always a cheater. What makes you think he wont turn around and do the same to you if you guys got together? I think your young..and you desserve something better than this. I think you should get a guy whos single..doesnt have a wife..because thats too much baggage to be worrying about. I think your mom is right. So i would break it off with him and get a guy who isnt married.
You desserve so much more!
-melissa-
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Well first of all you shouldnt do anything with him yet until he is divorced and if he really loves you the way he says than you shouldn't be the only one contacting him. It's also not right that he doesnt let you see anyone else but him while he is still a married man. Tell him that your willing to wate on him for awhile until he gets divorced but if that takes forever and he doesnt hurry up than he is not worth it which means that he only wants to have a good time with you and still stay with his wife.
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You should get out of the relationship. First off he has a wife and could be just useing you. Thats not right that he can have a wife while seeing you but you cant date other people. It seemse like he's telling you what to do. If he says hes going to divorce his wife for the past 4 years you should know that obvioussly hes not since its been 4 years. Think about his wifes feelings what if she finds out. You dont want to be the bad person in all this for being the girl her husband cheats on with.
~Brina~
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You need to get out of this relationship. That man is trying to control you. If he would cheat on his wife, then he would cheat on you. He's not worth ANYTHING, leave him and find someone who respects you!
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