about




Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)


If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.


[♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥][♥]



advice

What are some things you can do (not changing your whole personailty) that would make guys like you? I'm 14. Any input would be helpful since I'm not doing that well in that area. I know that I should be looking for a guy who loves me for me, but thats not working, and without love my life seems incomplete. Help please? =(

be yourself! totally! if a guy cant see what a great person you are then hes not worth it. guys like when girls are themselfs around them. they dont want some fake girl, i mean yeahh they might be kinda glad that you went through alot just to be with them but they will also think that its totally not cool of them not to notice you before. be yourself around guys, dont try to be anything your not!

XO KALIE

[view]

13/m whats some good screen names for aim thanks

think of sports you play, hobbies you have, where you live, or stores you shop at.

XO KALIE

[view]

hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

youre right... looks are definatly not everything and if someone is that picky and say they are--SHALLOW!!!

XO KALIE

[view]

well anyway im a sophmore guy and i like this girl. i was gonna tell her on the phone the other night but i couldnt bring myself to do it. how can i build up enough courage to tell her? i told her friend and she wants to tell her, should i let her? help!

do whatever way you want but do it in person. whatever you do, DO NOT do it over the phone, it just doesnt mean as much to the girl as it would in person. good luck!!

XO KALIE

[view]

Okay so like 2 months ago my mom got married again to this man she knew from her home town. At first I did not like him because he was not my dad but he grew on me. One day after classes i went to meet my mom at work for lunch. I went straight home afterwards.When I got home I heard something like a man moaning. I Knew no one was supposed to be home becasue my stepdad was supposed to be at work. The moans became louder as I aproached my moms room. So I thought to myself I just had lunch with my mom. And she was at work how could she be two places at once? I came to the conclusion the my stepdad was having an affair. I got angry and decided to bust open the door and catch him in action. To my great surprise it was not a woman in bed but a man. I could not belive the image I saw. I screamed and shot the door. I could not belive it. My stepdad who is such a Monday night football guy and who usally does not care for gay people was having sex with a man. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. He begged me to be quiet but I told my my mom anyway and what I can't belive is that she thiks that I made the entire thing up. She looked at me like i was crazy. She says that I never liked him in the first place (which is true) and that I would do anything to split them up. (not true). She cried all night none stop, she told me that I was breaking her heart how could i be so cruel. Our relationship is down the drain now. How do I get my Mom to see that I am not lying? Please help.

eeewww thats nasty!!! tell your mom that you wouldnt lie to her about this kind of thing because you know how much she cares for him.

XO KALIE

[view]

my mom knows i have a boyfriend she does her best to split us up alot like when she knows im talking to him on the phone she will yell at me for no apparent reason, she won't let me go to sleep overs, movies, no where with anybody and she knows i like my boyfriend alot, i feel were growing apart because we never spend time together at all unless he sneaks over my house while my moms at work. its basically like she is jealous. what should i do? what should i say? my momma be trippin' alot i cant go nowhere me or my sister without her and this relationship im in now i never was surer about love than this one relationship i feel different its not like the others im sure of it but my momma doesn't think so because she think she knows every d#*# thang which she doesn't i won't break up with my boyfriend even if i have to sneak and do things that is very wrong and im not really a sneaky person but my momma just dont want us to get closer at all as a matter of fact i believe she wants us to break up even if she claims she likes my baby.

i think that she just sees you as her baby still. tell her that she needs to give you some room and let you grow up. it has to happen sometime. let her know that you are a responsible kid and wont do anything stupid. your gonna go out with guys eventually.

XO KALIE

[view]

i have this boyfriend, and he's my first, but sometimes it feels like i see him as just a friend. i like him but i dont think i like him enough to be in a committed relationship with him. i really dont know what to do because i'm not happy about this but i also dont want to hurt his feelings

tell him the same thing you just said. tell him you think of him as a friend and not much more. its better to end it now before something crazy happens like he wants to marry you (haha just and example but you know what i mean)

XO KALIE

[view]

Hi. I like this girl a lot and i was thinkin of writing her a poem or song but i cant play any music for it since i play the drums not the guitar. I'm having trouble writing the poem. Any ideas on what i can do?

aww that is sooo sweet!! if you cant write her a song then thats okay, just make a poem that is kinda ment to be a song. when you make the poem think of the reasons why you like her so much and the things that you have in common and why you should be together. stuff like that.

XO KALIE

[view]

Ok I really liked this boy that rode my bus for like 2 months maybe 1 but anyways i could tell he kinda liked me then at our christmas dance he was so sweet to me and like we slow danced so the next day on the bus he didnt really say much kinda acted like his regular self flirted with me a little bit but that was it and so then we got out from to christmas break and then i really lost intrest in him cause well he just took to long and today on the bus i got on and i ingored him he and he asked me ou FINALLY but i dont know if i should or not cause im not as crazy about him and hes kinda dog hes always looking at other girls so i told him i had to think about it so what do you think i should do???
ILL RATE 5'S ON ANYONES INFORMATIOn

i think you should say yes and give it a try. if he still acts the same way then you can dump him. but its better then looking back and wishing that you did say yes, right?! and some guys just take time to get the courage to actually ask a girl out, even if they are real flirty! and if he looks at other girls then maybe hell stop once hes in a relationship. but you have to keep in mind he is a guy-- they do think about girls pretty often. depending on the guy tho!!

XO KALIE

[view]

okay me and my friend fantasize about doing things with girls...but we like guys....are gay???

okay it totally sounds like your a girl but you didnt give that info so yeahh.. if you like guys than you like guys thats it. but girls tend to do things better then guys so that might be where youre coming from. and some people think that girls are just funner to do things with. or youre bi-sexual.

XO KALIE

[view]

My parents never let me, nor take me to get my hair cut. I want bangs so bad, so im thinking about cutting them myself. I have the proper scissors for it, I just need like on strand. But i dont know how to do it and i dont want to screw my hair up. Any tips on how to do it nicely?

okay i have experience from cutting my hair my self and getting it done. if you want a sweep in your bangs then use scissors and cut it then clean up the edges with a razer and scrape your hair so it isnt so choppy. but a big tip-- dont go by what it looks like in front of your face, it will turn out too short. have a friend do it or use a mirror. but make sure you know EXACTLY what you want them to look like before you start chopping your hair off! but just remember you can always cut of more if its too long!

XO KALIE

[view]

heyy i was just wondering if www.limewire.com and the program is illegal
thanks
ANK

nope! i googled it and it said no! plus its not like youre really gonna get caught anyways!

XO KALIE

[view]

Im 13 (female) So...there's this guy. ANd i REALLY like him...or at least i used to. Hes really cool and we're friends and stuff...see....i told him that i liked him...but it turns out that the same day...he had a friend fix him up with another girl...and she dosent reallylike him...and so now he thinks that the only reason i talk to him is because i like him and he barely talks to me and....what should i do?

aww... i think you should tell him that she doesnt like him and youre not just saying that to sound jelous. because chances are hell just think its outta jelousy. tell him that youre telling him that as a friend and that even if he doesnt like you then you dont wanna lose him as a friend.

XO KALIE

[view]

i have a boyfriend right now for a month [in 3 days] and i feel like i like him a lot more than he likes me. the other day he broke up with me and i was like 'fine you never liked me anyway' and he said 'yes i did and i still do but whatever' after talking for like 2 seconds he called it off and we are still together. I hate being the one to like give-in in a relationship. I dont want to always worry that hes going to break up with me. I dont want to wrry about it all the time i want him to like me more than i like him!

any advice? i mena i know i/you cant change how he thinks but i dont know. thank you!

dont 'give-in' like you say you do. dont have it be like hes the one in charge, make it obvious that you are a part of the relationship too. dont feel like he doesnt like you or doesnt want to be with you because he did call off the breakup. and congrats on 1 months!

XO KALIE


your welcome-- i dont think you should get him anything because of christmas and your b-day (happy bday by the way) and just make sure that he knows that is your 1 month. just wait to for real celebrate with gifts for like 6 months or 1 year or something! just be like "happy anneversery" and if he gets you something then great!!! but dont like MAKE him get you something-- have him get you something for your bday!!

[view]

can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager

nope

XO KALIE

[view]

Hi! I just finished my shift at my job today. This married lady that I work with is trying to set me up with a guy that knows her husband. They met him at a New Years party and he asked her if she knew any cute, nice girls from her work that would want to go out with him She said he is 32 and owns his own computer business. She said he is a really nice guy and wants to date a nice girl who has no kids. He's had problems with on line dating (and so have I)

I am 28 and have never been married or have had children. I told her I am quite shy and havent dated anyone in a long time. She said he is shy too. She is going to phone him and we (me, this guy, her and her huband) are going to meet for coffee.

Do you think he sounds like a nice guy that won't just try to sleep with me?

I rate high!
thanks
p.s it was my new years resolution to get a bf this year!

wow your resolution could come true faster then you think. i say meet him for coffee and go from there! he seems like a nice guy!

XO KALIE

[view]

i have a friend who moved here last february & we have become really good friends. i mean really close...we can talk to each other about things that i don't think i could even tell most people. i just feel like i am missing something, because i don't know about her past. i know she has a dad, stepmom & stepsister (her stepmom has been married to her dad for only a little over a year but they are luckily very close). however, i have no idea what happened to her real mom. she has never mentioned her ever...i don't know if she's dead, if her parents are divorced, or what. it never use to bother me, but now that we are so close i just feel like i should know something. i know that she proabably has never mentioned her for a reason (she might be sad or angry perhaps?) but as her close friend i feel like i should be able to know somehting. do you think i should bring it up? if so how would you go about doing that (and if something bad happened with her mom i really don't want her to get upset or angry). do you think it is appropriate for me to say/ask anything at all? thanks!

when you are talking about 'moms' in general, bring it up. if something bad happened that shes sad about then be there for her and have a shoulder to cry on. make sure she knows that you are there for her and you are curious about her family. youre right that she probably has a reason for not telling you, but maybe she just didnt know the right time to tell you. its not something you randomly talk about. i dunno maybe her moms not dead or there was a tragic argument, maybe she just dislikes her mom and thats it... who knows?!

XO KALIE

[view]

15/f

heyy! i have a question okay so i met this girl and we hung out one time and we ended up going to the movies ((oh and my cousin came along too shes 15 also) and my friend is like ohh yeah jake and kevin were wondering if they could come too and ive heard of them but just never hung out with them before so im like yeahH! and so yeah they're the ones like like to do stuff with girls haha..yeaaaa..and my friend is very outgoing and not shy around anyone! and im the total opposite sometimes..mostly around boys and so this kid jake put his arm around my friend and they cuddled and held hands and i was on the other side of her and my cousin was next to me..and kevin was on the other side of jake..haha yeah sorry confusing! but i guess when me and my cuzin left kevin is like gosh why didnt u friend cuddle with me haha? but i think im scared to get close to a guy and then im also not outgoing like my friend but i dont want them to think im shy!! i feel like such a loser thoo i wanna go out and meet new people but im soo shy when i first meet them..and i have like no guy friends :( pathetic i know! and everyone says 'flirting' but im not outgoing enough to do that...what do you think i should do?

SORRY SO LONG!!

plan another 'outing' like that one and just sit boy girl boy girl or whatever so you can sit with by the guy you want or kevin or whoever. kinda make it obvious that you want him to put his arm around you, but not to the point where youre putting yourself out there. like go see a scary movie and on a really scary part hide on his shoulder (if you know what im talking about) so that he can make the first move and know that you are okay with it. dont worry about being outgoing and dont do anything you dont want to. be yourself, relax, and have a good time. keep me 'updated' on what happens! good luck!

XO KALIE

[view]

I know alot of kids don't like their step parents but my step dad takes it to another level.


My younger sister (15) and I (17/f) have never liked him and he doesn't like us either. My mom knows that we don't like him but she thinks that he trys his hardest with us.


Well, I know what you're thinking, give him a break and you'll see that he really is trying.


I don't think so.


Last night my mom and him threw a party and my sister and I had to be there. When everyone was leaving around 3am, my mom had gone outside to say bye to everyone while my step dad, sister, and I stayed inside.


My sister and I were talking to each other about these guys we had met that night (my mom's friend’s sons). He was listening to our conversation and said, out of no where, "I don't know what boys would be interested in you two." He always says this stuff so I just told him to shut up and mind is own conversations (I know, disrespectful but it's hard to respect him).


We got into a little argument and he then told us how immature, bratty, spoiled, we are and how we think we're princesses. Jokingly, my sister told him that we were princesses, in our dad's eyes anyways. I guess that got him mad because then he went off talking about my dad and how he's the problem because he gives us what we want. He then said that if we didn't believe everything he was saying about us that we should ask our mom and grandparents on what they think about us.


After all of that, he told us about all this stuff that my dad did while he was still married to my mom like how he once slept with a hooker and how he was always at work and never home. Alot of unnecessary things that we didn't need to know and probably shouldn't have known, specially my sister.


I knew that my parents had troubles and things like that, why else would they have gotten a divorce? But who is he to tell us exactly what happened and what my dad did. I mean does he seriously think that we would turn against our dad or end up hating him or something? Or is he just jealous of him?


Like I said, I know my dad did some things (now I know exactly what) but so did my mom. But we still love him and he's great to us and is a good parent too.


After he went to sleep I went into my sister's room to get something from her and she had cried herself to sleep. When I saw that, I went to talk to my mom about what had happened because I usually just blow it off. When I told her, she didn't believe me about the names he called us and how he told us that she and my grandparents thought the same! And all she did about the part about my dad was say, "Well, at least you know the truth about your father now." She just talked about how we never once tried to be nice to him and he was trying his best. She didn't even care about the stuff he said about us or my dad.


We were nice to him before when him and my mom first started dating but he was still mean to us back then so we started being mean back. he always used to talk about my dad too.


I don't know what to do because it seems like no matter what she's always on his side. Plus he has no right talking about my mom and dad's relationship.

wow that is waaayyyy out of line. my parents are still together so i dont know exatcly what youre going through so im just going to give you my opinion on what i got out of your question. it seems like you & your sister will never get along with your stepdad, ever. and i think that your mom will be on his side until you give her proof or she sees it for herself. she might have said those things about knowing the truth and your grandparents think the same but that is NOT something you tell your kid!!! just said what i felt, not really a whole lot to say, and maybe i didnt answer your question and sorry if i didnt.

XO KALIE

[view]

ok there is this guy that i like but he is like 2 years younger than me cause im 15 and he is 13 and i dont know if i should go out with him cause it would be kinda weird cause we go to separt schools and the age difference so should i give him a change anyway ??

15 and 13 might seem weird because hes the younger one but think about when you guys grow up age wont matter. for real.. my dad graduated high school before my mom even started kindergarden! if you really like him then give it a shot but you being older and more mature then he might not give you what you want.

XO KALIE

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker