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well anyway im a sophmore guy and i like this girl. i was gonna tell her on the phone the other night but i couldnt bring myself to do it. how can i build up enough courage to tell her? i told her friend and she wants to tell her, should i let her? help!
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No...you tell her. It is that plain and simple. It will mean SOOO much more to her if you tell her, and it will erase any doubts in her mind that her friend might not have gotten the information right. But what you might wanna do is have her friend find out if this girl likes you back, if so then it was make your job so much easier. And when you tell the girl, tell her in person, she will be so much more greatful for that. Just take a deep breath and let her know how your feeling, and even if she doesn't like you back like that, it won't be the end of the world because if she is a nice girl than she absolutely won't act like anything has changed. Good Luck!
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If the friend tells her you like her than that may help you because then you will know that she knows and that may give you courage to tell her. But if the friend tells her than you should still tell her. So why not just tell her and get it over with?
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Try practicing infront of a mirror on how you are going to tell her. It always seems to help build up courage.
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nah man, you gotta tell her, its hard, it always is, but its alot better to hear it from the person themself and from a friend, your gonna get shot down a few times throughout your life, but for thoes other times, when you dont get shot down, and she looks at you and smiles and says "really?! i like you too" when that happens... it all worth it life is full of risks, weather its to take the 3 point shot or drive straight to the hoop. you drive straight in, balls to the wall, confident, dont let anyone push you around, and you come out of there with what u accomplished. i say not only do you tell her, you tell her in person. good luck man, lemme know how it goes
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If you let her friend tell her, the girl will feel like you don't like her enough to tell her on her own. Sometimes when you tell a friend, the friend will often tease them about it. Tell her yourself, and instead of telling it to her on the phone tell it to her in person. " ( Name ) I have been needing to talk to you about something and I was wondering if we can have a minute alone." You take it from there. Don't be shy, and don't almost tell her and then stupidly change the subject. If the feeling is not mutual tell her that you would still like to continue being friends.
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I agree with everyone else who replied to this- do it in person. All girls like it better when they're asked out in person.
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do whatever way you want but do it in person. whatever you do, DO NOT do it over the phone, it just doesnt mean as much to the girl as it would in person. good luck!!
XO KALIE
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Hey. I've been in the same situation. but hearing that you like her from her friend she wont appreciate as much as she would if she heard it from you. If you can't do it on the phone try in person. If you cant do it either of those 2 then try writting a letter but your best bet is in person.
Madskillz
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iF YOU REALLi LiKE HER, THEN YOU SHOULD JUST GET iT OVER WiTH AND TELL HER, BUT iF YOU DON'T THiNK SHE LiKES YOU OR SOMETHiNG LiKE THAT..GET SOME ADViCE FROM HER FRiEND..LET HER FRiEND TALK TO HER FOR YOU..AND SHE MiGHT END UP TELLiNG HER..BUT HEY..ATLEAST YOU DiDNT HAVE TO!
HoPe I hElPeD!
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Yeah you should let her friend see what she thinks about you and if she likes you have her friend tell her that you like her.
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