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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!
chat it up yo.
ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)
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A movie that disney used to play a long time ago. Maybe about 10 years ago. Its about a young girl going to prom and on her way there, she has a car accident on a bridge and dies. Years later, a family moves into her house and the teenage boy can see her. They then try to figure out how she died, etc. Anyone remember the movie title?
I loved that movie! I think it was called "Susie Q". Oh my gosh, that was such a good movie =D
-Laura. (16-f)
16/f
so me and my friends were at the beach the other day and we met a few guys and they gave us their number and then asked us to hang out later that night but it was getting too late so we just told them we would call them another night this week. so i think we're gonna call them today. they go to a different school and they don't live THAT far away. but anyways we're not really sure what we should do with them. because this would be the first time we hang out with them.. any ideas?
we already have...
- park
- mall
- movies
thanksss :)
You can go out to eat.
You can go mini golfing.
You can go see a local band play.
You can go roller skating.
You can go to somebody's house and just hang out.
-Laura. (16-f)
Heyy.
There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He isnt in any of my classes..i just see him in the hallway Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥
No, you're not right liohearted99. That was a terrible answer.
I think you should talk to this guy! What have you got to lose? Just say that you see him in school sometimes, and he seemed like a cool person and you'd like to get to know him. It's perfectly ok to be nervous, just don't let it show. Smile, but not a creepy nervous smile. Talk to him, be yourself. You'll be fine =]
-Laura. (16-f)
K this sounds kind of stupid but I am 14 and almost 15 and still have not had my period. I know that up til 16 you are ok if you don;t have it. but it is kind of embarising because all my friends are like 'don't you think tampons are such a pain' I don;t want to lye but I don' t want to feel like a baby. I have been getting like a whole bunch of whitish yellow stuff in my underware, do I have an infection? I want my period!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls start their period between the ages of 9 and 17. You are still in between those ages, therefore you have nothing to worry about. If anything, be happy you don't get your period yet. It's nothing special, trust me.
As for the yellowish white stuff, like the other said, it's just discharge. It is perfectly normal and nothing to worry about =]
-Laura. (16-f)
im going to a batmitzfa soon and im wearing a black dress. i'm looking for different hairstyles hahhaa . i have long brownish blondish hair and i usually wear it straight but sometimes that can be boring so any ideas? i dont want it to be too formal either because not alot of people are wearing dresses i dont think
How about putting the sides up and straightening the rest? Or even curling the rest? So it looks like this: http://i33.tinypic.com/1693wnd.jpg
This style isn't super formal, and you can add like a headband, or a clip to dress it up or even to dress it down ;]
-Laura. (16-f)
I want to be famous, I love to act and sing. I'm not that great at singing. I would love to be on Broadway but I don't know if I would make it. I don't know what to do with my life. I'm 14, so I want to take high school classes that will help me in what I want to be. I love fashion and everything but I don't know what to do any ideas?
At my school, we have choir offered as a class. If your school had that too, it would definitely help you out.
Other than that, I don't know what your school specifically offers, but maybe a public speaking class, just to help you out with your confidence? Or perhaps creative writing just to help you learn how to get your creativity flowing?
Hope this helps =]
-Laura. (16-f)
i am in the process of training to be a pool lifeguard. Would anyone have any advice on what would be the best training to do in the gym to help improve my fitness and what techniques would I have to do to be a better swimmer in the water??
Well, obviously, swimming is a good way to train for being a lifeguard. Running/doing sprints/jogging is also good to help improve your cardiovascular system. I'd think weightlifting might help, too, as strength is always good.
-Laura. (16-f)
so my crush ansked me to hang out with him hes a sweet guy and i think he just wants to go out on a walk or watch a scary movie somthing we can do at his house......but the thing is he knows i like him and he invited me over...but he has a girlfreind so im confused what he wants to do cause before i told him i liked him which was like a month ago we never talked so its not like were the best of friends...well anyways can anybody help me with what we can do and how to act when im with him!!!
please and thankk you!!
First off, just be yourself. He obviously likes you enough to hang out with you, and he likes you for who you are. Don't act different, or he might think you're strange and then not like you at all.
As far as him having a girlfriend goes, don't do anything romantic with him. Don't kiss him, don't hold his hand, etc. Keep his girlfriend in mind, and the fact that he is with her.
He knows that you like him, that's ok. Obviously he's ok with that, and you shouldn't be freaked out by it. Even if you end up only being friends, be thankful he is ok with you having feelings for him. Most guys are freaked out by this situation.
-Laura. (16-f)
17/m.
my ex gf of 7 months [we broke up in may] has been 'talking' to my best friend. theyre personality dont even go together. and this is bothering me so much! i have to spend a week with her @ camp next week, and i cant avoid her because theres not alot of girls going. and my best friends likes her back.
what should i do?!?!?! just let them be? or talk to them? or what?
I would just leave them alone. What your ex is up to is none of your business. And you said their personalities don't even go together, so maybe talking will be the only thing they end up doing.
If it gets to the point where he starts blowing you off for her or something really terrible, then I would talk to your best friend about it.
-Laura. (16-f)
I'm 14 and a half. I get massssive discharge, especially in a certian pair of pannies. anyway, my sister got hers in 7th. my mom got it in 6th my other sister in 7th. Why Haven't i got it yet.
so ttwo questions.
1. why dont i have it
2. how come in one certain pair i get more discharge?
1. Everyone gets it at different ages. Most girls get their first period between the ages of 9 and 17, so you're perfectly normal for not having got yours yet.
2. When you get discharge has nothing to do with the panties you wear. It's probably just a coincidence?
-Laura. (16-f)
I have this friend of mine...and well, he just admitted to me that he's bi. and he really likes this other friend of mine, but he doesn't know how to tell him. I really don't want him to get hurt, because I'm pretty sure that my friend that he likes isn't bi, since he told me that he likes this one other girl that's also another friend of mine. It's a whole complicated web of love thing. is there anything he can do?
I think you should tell him what you told us. That you don't want him to get hurt, and you think the friend he likes might not like him. It's best to be honest with him, so he doesn't end up getting hurt or making a fool of himself =/
-Laura. (16-f)
Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!
If you want to break up with him, then break up with him. Just be honest with him and tell him you're no longer comfortable in the relationship. It's better to do it now, as it will only get harder the longer you put it off.
-Laura. (16-f)
i bought this perfume and it smells like cherry vanilla (more like vanilla) and i love the smell but i was wondering if guys like the scent vanilla. i have a couple perfumes and a bunch of body sprays and stuff but i really like my vanilla perfume. the thing is i want to create a 'scent'. which means you always wear a hint of a certain smell. because people arent supposed to wear different smells everyday arent they? and vanilla is subtle but a nice smell you can pick up on. but i really want to have a scent that guys like. please help me with this whole scent and perfume thing cause obviously im just goin off of what i think. so ya just explian this whole scent thing to me and then please someone tell me what scents guys like!!
I asked my best guy friend Matt, so don't think I'm a freak for answering this ;]
Matt said that he likes girls to wear fruity scents and something like strawberry is the best.
-Laura. (16-f)
16/f what are good stores to shop at like forever21, charlotte russe, and wet seal? (besides body central and 5,7,9) online shopping works too :)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542839
-Laura. (16-f)
I absolutely LOVE this hoodie here;
http://www.freepeople.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.detail/productID/c781a657-03ab-4bd7-aa12-5d81974f1831/categoryID/200ea380-cc77-4d25-8844-132069878c76
however, i'm only 14 so there's no way i'm going to afford that. Is there like a cheaper version of that? I like that it's really long and still soft. If you can find one like it, that would help me so much! I don't really care that much about the color!
Definitely try American Eagle. Since it's summer, they won't have much. But check back when fall rolls around.
Another place to check out is Aeropostle. I've seen hoodies there just like the one in the link you included =]
-Laura. (16-f)
Does anyone know real good websites that have pictures of medium length hairstyles for girls? I google it, but the websites are sucky
Photobucket.com
- Just type in the type of hairstyle you want.
Tinypic.com
- Same as above ^
-Laura. (16-f)
well see there is this guy that is like madley in love with me and then there is my boyfriend..... and i really love my boyfriend but how do i getrid or this other guy?????? can you help me????? thank you
AGE-14
GENDER-FEMALE
You have one of two options:
1. Ignore the other guy.
2. Be straight up with him and let him know you're not interested.
If it were me, I'm be honest with him and tell him that I have a BOYFRIEND, and I'm not looking to change anytime soon. But I don't know if you're shy or if you just don't want to deal with the guy.
Either way, please be nice about it. If you decide to ignore him, don't totally blow him off, just start talking to him less.
-Laura. (16-f)
my boyfriend has alot of girls that are friends and its makes me realllly jealous
and i know i shouldnt be jealous becuase hes my boyfriend and not theres.
but he calls this one girl baby and he said shes cute and he says he loves her
i told him how i felt about it
and we got into fight and he got mad because i was making a big deal about it and stuff
but he told me that he calls all his friends baby
and like i understand if you tell your bestfriend you love them. but like you dont call her baby.
and he said that he tells her she is cute to make her feel good about herself
so im like ok whatever.
they also both have stickam. and it makes me mad when i log onto mine and see them on webcam together. they dont do anything but talk. but its makes me soooo jealous.
i need help.
ps. i know he loves me because were amazing together and he always spills his heart out to me and stuff. but i just hate the fact about the other girls.
First of all, if your boyfriend wanted to be with the other girl, he would be with her and not you. But obviously he WANTS to be with YOU and NOT her.
That being said, just talk to him about. Honesty is key in a good relationship. Tell him it really bothers you and you know they're only friends, but you'd like it if maybe he toned it down a bit. Don't make him completely stop, because I know what it's like to have a best friend with a jealous girlfriend, and telling them to stop talking will only make your boyfriend mad.
Good Luck!
-Laura. (16-f)
how old is lebron james
Next time, just Google it and you'll get an answer much quicker =]
-Laura. (16-f)
what is a good display name for myspace?
Your name + Favorite song.
For example, mine is "Laura All Over", and I got it from the song "Jamie All Over".
-Laura. (16-f)