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my boyfriend and other girls
my boyfriend has alot of girls that are friends and its makes me realllly jealous
and i know i shouldnt be jealous becuase hes my boyfriend and not theres.
but he calls this one girl baby and he said shes cute and he says he loves her
i told him how i felt about it
and we got into fight and he got mad because i was making a big deal about it and stuff
but he told me that he calls all his friends baby
and like i understand if you tell your bestfriend you love them. but like you dont call her baby.
and he said that he tells her she is cute to make her feel good about herself
so im like ok whatever.
they also both have stickam. and it makes me mad when i log onto mine and see them on webcam together. they dont do anything but talk. but its makes me soooo jealous.
i need help.
ps. i know he loves me because were amazing together and he always spills his heart out to me and stuff. but i just hate the fact about the other girls.
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It looks like this guy is just a flirt. Not really because he likes the other girls. Obviously, he is with you, so that should tell you something. If he were a player, he wouldn't have a girlfriend. So, I don't think he's a player, he's just a flirt. You just have to teach him a lesson. Give him a taste of his own medicine. You see, very rarely do men understand words. When you nag, they completely block you out. They're minds wander, and that's just the way guys are. You are never going to change them. You just need to stoop down to their level. Don't show him what is bothering you with words. Show him with actions. Next time one of your guy friends walks up to you to say hello, say something like "hey babe." You'll see how fast it stops. :)
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First of all, if your boyfriend wanted to be with the other girl, he would be with her and not you. But obviously he WANTS to be with YOU and NOT her.
That being said, just talk to him about. Honesty is key in a good relationship. Tell him it really bothers you and you know they're only friends, but you'd like it if maybe he toned it down a bit. Don't make him completely stop, because I know what it's like to have a best friend with a jealous girlfriend, and telling them to stop talking will only make your boyfriend mad.
Good Luck!
-Laura. (16-f)
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well. if he won't stop calling his GIRL best friend BABY for his GIRLFRIEND. he has issues, seriously. wtf is up with that? you're his girlfriend, he should be calling YOU baby.
trust me, i've been a relationship like the one you're in, and you need to either take a break with him, or just plain break-up because he's not as in love with you as he claims to be. you say he spills his heart out to you, think about that. he probably does with his best friend that he calls baby also?
if you're this jealous and he does nothing to make you feel less jealous, you need to get with someone else because i know if my boyfriend didn't care i was jealous and got mad at me for it, i would be utterly pissed.
sorry, but you need to move on, which i know is going to be hard, but you need to try.
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hey!
well... you've talked to him about it.. now it's time to give him a choice.. tell him to put himself in your shoes. how would he like it if you called your male friends baby? told them you love them? things you would tell him.. he needs to understand his friends are causing a conflict in the relationship. mind you, that you're not making a big deal about this, he shouldn't be callin them baby or anything he would be telling you.. if he doesnt change its time to say you know what youre not respecting my feelings.. it's either them or me.. good luck
flirty :)
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