so my crush ansked me to hang out with him hes a sweet guy and i think he just wants to go out on a walk or watch a scary movie somthing we can do at his house......but the thing is he knows i like him and he invited me over...but he has a girlfreind so im confused what he wants to do cause before i told him i liked him which was like a month ago we never talked so its not like were the best of friends...well anyways can anybody help me with what we can do and how to act when im with him!!!
please and thankk you!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 4:56 pm: Don't act any differently around him, just be yourself. Keep in mind that he does have a girlfriend though, so don't let him think that you are going to let him cheat with you. Be yourself, talk to him, watch a movie, eat popcorn, play a video game, anything that friends do together. Let him know that you are interested but that you are not going to act on said interest until he is single, because you are better than that.
LOL_x0x answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 4:39 pm: First off, just be yourself. He obviously likes you enough to hang out with you, and he likes you for who you are. Don't act different, or he might think you're strange and then not like you at all.
As far as him having a girlfriend goes, don't do anything romantic with him. Don't kiss him, don't hold his hand, etc. Keep his girlfriend in mind, and the fact that he is with her.
He knows that you like him, that's ok. Obviously he's ok with that, and you shouldn't be freaked out by it. Even if you end up only being friends, be thankful he is ok with you having feelings for him. Most guys are freaked out by this situation.
Briea6624 answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 3:33 pm: What yall could do is just talk for awhile...or whatever he has planned...and all you got to do is be yourself when you're with him....if you want to know what's up with him all you got to do is ask him why did he want to hang out with you when yall didn't talk for a month.
jobrolover3725 answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 3:32 pm: hmmm this is kinda a weird situation. whatever you do don't let him kiss you or anything because REMEMBER: he has a girlfriend. this means he just wants to hang out as friends. or he just wants the attention that you will give him because he knows you like him. just act like a friend. don't give him the attention as if you like him because it will cause problems between him and his girlfriend. you can flirt a little.. but not too much. also.. you should ask him if he thinks his girlfriend would mind the two of you hanging out by yourselves and see what he says because this can help tell you how you should act. if he's sneaking around behind her back.. that's bad.
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