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My friend and his "problem"
I have this friend of mine...and well, he just admitted to me that he's bi. and he really likes this other friend of mine, but he doesn't know how to tell him. I really don't want him to get hurt, because I'm pretty sure that my friend that he likes isn't bi, since he told me that he likes this one other girl that's also another friend of mine. It's a whole complicated web of love thing. is there anything he can do?
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Just be honest. Coming out as a bi-sexual is a big deal.. but I think anybody who has the strength to come out, also has the strength to take things as they are. It doesn't matter whether or not it's you or his friend who tell him they're not interested.. he'll feel rejection no matter what.
The best thing to do? Lay low. Maybe casually mention that you don't think your friend is interested. Either that, or you can just let him find out from your friend if in fact he ever tells him.
You shouldn't have to worry about this, or do the dirty work. It's kind of you to be concerned about your friendships-- but know that some things can't be controlled, and you have to just let whatever happens around you happen. Even if that means someone you care for will get a bit of and ouchie.
Good luck.
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I think you should tell him what you told us. That you don't want him to get hurt, and you think the friend he likes might not like him. It's best to be honest with him, so he doesn't end up getting hurt or making a fool of himself =/
-Laura. (16-f)
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tell him that the person he likes likes someone else and that he wouldint go out with him
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