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im going to ninth grade next year and im knida happy but i cant get over the horrer stories i heared of high school and i want to know is it really bad????thanxs (link)
its so much better then middle school in elimentary school there is one popular crowd and then in middle school there is like 12 groups... sk8ters, preps, jocks, gothes, emos, ect, in high school there is a groupe for every one it great if you cant make freinds in highschool there is somting wrong with you and when you have that many freinds not very many people will pick on you


Ok so i had a friend. lets call her Megan. Megan is black. And i am half black half white.(not meaning to offend anyone.) And like a month before school ended we got into an...argument. And she was reallt mean and yelling and stuff. And we were going to fight. Well i never thought fighting was the way. I think that in the end, things are just as bad as before. So of course she wants to fight me anyways. Plus i play select soccer, and my life is centered to that. And getting into a fight could get my in trouble with my team. And everyone wants us to fight. I just dont want it to seem like in chickening off. I mean if thats what i takes, ill do it, but is there any way to get her to understand that i dont want to fight. I mean i forgot about it until she had her friend email me. I WILL not do anything that could hurt my chances of getting into a good school or hurt my chances of staying on this soccer team. So what can i do or tell her to make her back off and understand that i dont care about something that happened a long time ago? (link)
if she hits u first then you can fight and never get in trouble it wont go on your perment record or police record this foggot hit me and i broke his nose and his arm and all they did was send me home for the duration of the day and i was back to school the next day


ok i'm 15/f and my boobs are about a 36B. this past year i have gotten stretchmarks on them. like they go completely all around each one. i'm not too sure what caused them because they didn't just start growing, i've had boobs since 5th grade. i just don't understand what caused them now and how to get rid of them. i've tried cocoa butter but it doesn't work. and they are really noticable so i'd like to get rid of them. :/ please help. thanks!

p.s. my one friend had them and said that she switched to sports bras and hers went away. i've also tried this for a couple days, didn't work. (link)
last year i broke my back and couldint exersize and i got streatch marks on my thighs i put lotion on and i taned and they went away but taning might me a little hard in ur case


im 16 and i was at a local show (a.k.a concert) and i met a guy who was 19.its a little less then a month later and we talk on aim and texting like everyday. he wants to hang out sometime but i told him cuz of the age diffrence i'd have to ask my mom. but my mom is GOING to say no. and i dont know how to convince her. i'll feel dumb telling him my mom has to go with us or somtin. but my mom is REALLY REALLY protective. everyone says give up and dont bother. but any ideas how to convince her?
were just friends-nothing more (link)
have him meet her if u have him act like he is a good guy (not saying he isnt i dont know him) she might let u hang with him


17/m.
my ex gf of 7 months [we broke up in may] has been 'talking' to my best friend. theyre personality dont even go together. and this is bothering me so much! i have to spend a week with her @ camp next week, and i cant avoid her because theres not alot of girls going. and my best friends likes her back.
what should i do?!?!?! just let them be? or talk to them? or what? (link)
it none of ur coinsern wat ur ex dose if they arnt alike they will figure it out and it will be a short relationship


15/f
Alright, well i am going out of town tonight and the guy that i am "talking" to since monday has called me but i havent had a chance to answer and i will be busy at night for a whole week on vacation and thats when he usually calls. I don't want to talk to him in front of anybody cuz i havent talked to him on the phone yet so i don't know what to do because i will be gone for a whole week and if i dont get to talk to him, he might think i dont like him. So what do i do? Any help asap would be great! (link)
tell him stait up white lies only complicate things b honist
hope i helpd

-james 15/m


Hi i have been haveing worms what are someways to get red of them without telling my parents? (link)
if by worms you mean red circle patches on your skin you can get an otment called equate antifungal cream it got rid of mine in a couple of days


I have this friend of mine...and well, he just admitted to me that he's bi. and he really likes this other friend of mine, but he doesn't know how to tell him. I really don't want him to get hurt, because I'm pretty sure that my friend that he likes isn't bi, since he told me that he likes this one other girl that's also another friend of mine. It's a whole complicated web of love thing. is there anything he can do? (link)
tell him that the person he likes likes someone else and that he wouldint go out with him


I'm walking down the hallway on the way out of a small after school function where a guy I liked was present with one of my best friends. While we are walking, she starts talking (not quitely, mind you) about how weird I get around the guys I like and remember that one time...? I tell her to hush, and she laughs loudly and informs me that no one can hear us. The hall is quiet and a handful of people from the function are walking behind us! Ack! Another scenario: friend and I are in a school room when "the guy" and some others come in to talk to the teacher across the small room. "The guy" talks. My friend comments that indeed he has a deep voice. Again, ack! She laughs a little and tells me that they wouldn't know what we were talking about anyway. It's embarrassing, especially since if these guys knew I liked them they'd laugh their heads off. I never, ever do this to anyone who confides in me! Why can't my best friends understand that I would rather not talk about the guy I like in front of him or anyone who is his friend?! (link)
confront her 1 on 1 tell her that shes bing a bitch and freinds dont act like that
then dont talk to her until she apoligiese


Heyy.
There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He isnt in any of my classes..i just see him in the hallway Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥ (link)
dont let him no that you are nevise it might make him feel like he should be

hang out with him with HIS freinds so he feels more narural.


i am 17 years old and i have this probloem with pot. you see my boyfriend and i started dating almost a year ago and before then he was really into the pot, but he stoped fot me, now my boyfriend is have like withdrawl beacuse he says he needs and he hasnt needed it like 2 months. but out of no where he needs it. i dont know what to do i cant stand pot and he knows, i just dont want it to ruin out relationship. (link)
well for me... weed is more of a mentle adicition
so nxt time he says he needs it make out with him to distract him from wat he thinks will calm him down


Does sex hurt the first time you do it? I've never done it, but stories of pain sort of make me nervous. Does it? (link)
my first time my girlfreind said it did
when i had sex the second time i played with her pussy first and used loube and it didnt hert her


I'd be greatfull to hear the answer for my problem typed below:
I'm a student in India and I'm not an Indian citizen. It has been two years that am in this country. After my two months spent in India, a classmate of mine, spent a night in my home and she agreed upon a love relationship with me...despite she having a boy friend..but, we were sure, he'll not come within our graduation who lives in U.S. Since then we vigorously started making out and spending hundreds of condoms till now that too with a deep love affection...to be honest I totally became used to this girl and her car...we had toooo muchhhhh funnnnnn and luxuriesss! Now all of a sudden she has resumed her school boyfriend, with whom she was involved in class 7th. Although she doesn't tell me, about it, but, I'm damn sure, that everything happens to her from his side...I notice big big love bites in her valua and ties and boobs...and she suddenly broke off with...me, now I'm feeling not like living life any morrre..I'm dying to be honest...any severe advice will be expected from your side. plz! Steff. (link)
just relax everybody goes through it
my ex broke up wih me cuz she got pregnet (NOT BY ME) i felt like shit but i didnt let it keep me down bro, get back in the game find a better hoe

there are plenty of them

-james 15/m


i dont know how to kiss my girlfreind canyou give me tips on how to kiss? (link)
play it cool girls like guys that have Confidence
when the moment is right look her strait in the eyes for a couple of seconds when u go in 4 the kiss but dont look at her too long u dont wont her to think your a creep
if you french kiss try not to make a suckiling noise it might make her gigle in the midle of the kiss
try to massage her tongue with your tongue

have fun becouse making out is boss, bro


I don't know if this is the right category but here goes. My friend (&yes, i'm being serious that this is my friend and not me) told me that she can't eat and food makes her want to throw up.
She's one of my closest friends so idk what to do to help her cause I'm not a doctor or anything. I was wondering if anyone here ever had that happen or knows anything to help it.
If this helps, she's healthy, 13, and has not had any issues with anorexia/bulemia.
thanks in advance. (link)
my ex-girlfreind had a problem simerler to that she claimed she had a soft stumic and eating gressy food made her through up

no im not sure that they have the same condition but a docter could deturmin this


-james 15/m


the guy i like asked me to hang out with him....... and im pretty darn sure he likes me cuz he told me how he felt and everthing

but..............

he has a girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so why would he ask me to hang out with him and just him if he has a girl friend!!!!
and its not like we have been friends i mean i wouldnt even consider him a friend really but i do like him a lot tho!!!!!!!
so does any one no why?????? (link)
15/m
allright men are the most horny thing on earth

have u seen the movie John Tucker Must Die? if u haveint its about thz guy who has three dif. girlfrieds

men are horney pigs

hope i helped


I think im starting to like this guy. He is very good with words and im not what should i do? (link)
well i have the same problem i go out wih smart chicks and when i get nerves i start to stuter

first just relax try to think of sumthing to say be for he answers your previouse question

if you mean he knows alot of big words that you dont, just try to act like you no wat it means and look it up on google and then nonchalontly and it into a sentense it will make you look good and smart


i just got a new laptop. i had a TON of pictures on my old laptop. i can't even tell you how many folders there were. i don't want to transfer them all to this computer, but i'd like to keep them somehow, without leaving them on my old laptop for the rest of eternity. and i don't want to have to print them all out. that would be time comsuming and expensive. i've been told cd's would be good, since they have a high capacity. should i go with this idea? (link)
try to get an exturnal hard drive they can hold a shit load of pics


Im going in to the 8th grade, I have lots of friends actualy everyone is friends with everyone. Im 13 and I have NEVER had a boy friend im not ugly, but not what people call "HOT". Im not skinny, but im not fat either. I dont have a problem talking to guys and they talk to me all the time. Im just afraid to ask guys out and no one ever asks me out. I dont know what to do and i dont wanna marry the first guy i date I need help. ANSWER QUICKLY PLEASE!!! (link)
men love wat they cant have. flirt and play it cool in front of them. if u like one see if he wants to hang out look for him at partys dont make a move!!! thats his job but make sure he knows ur interested




Hi everyone,

Anyone who has ever lost weight succesfully is welcome to answer this, though if anyone has specialised knowledge,I'd find that especially helpful. Basically, there's a wedding in three weeks that I want to trim up for-I want to lose about 6lb, and also to tone up a bit.At the moment, I'm doing around 40 sit ups a day(20 in the morning, 20 in the evening) and gradually building the number up (to maybe about 70 a day?) What sounds good?) I want to tone up stomach, thigs and upper arms(I'm also following a diet plan).
Any tips and advice, both general and body -part - specific would be very helpful! Thanks in advance! (link)
i got thz book called "skinny bich in the kitch"
it did me wonders there are recipes for making really good dishes that tast great and keep u full




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