im 16 and i was at a local show (a.k.a concert) and i met a guy who was 19.its a little less then a month later and we talk on aim and texting like everyday. he wants to hang out sometime but i told him cuz of the age diffrence i'd have to ask my mom. but my mom is GOING to say no. and i dont know how to convince her. i'll feel dumb telling him my mom has to go with us or somtin. but my mom is REALLY REALLY protective. everyone says give up and dont bother. but any ideas how to convince her?
were just friends-nothing more
I suggest you talk to your mom and explain the situation to her. If she isn't okay with it, try suggesting that you meet up with him in a big group, in a public place, etc. Talk about it with her and come up with a solution you can both live with.
Also, kudos to you for being honest with the guy in saying that you would have to discuss the situation with your mom before seeing him - that's definitely the best thing you could have done.
SK8ORDIE answered Thursday July 17 2008, 2:05 am: have him meet her if u have him act like he is a good guy (not saying he isnt i dont know him) she might let u hang with him [ SK8ORDIE's advice column | Ask SK8ORDIE A Question ]
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