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She wants to fight me, But i dont belive in fighting


Question Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 1:57 am

Ok so i had a friend. lets call her Megan. Megan is black. And i am half black half white.(not meaning to offend anyone.) And like a month before school ended we got into an...argument. And she was reallt mean and yelling and stuff. And we were going to fight. Well i never thought fighting was the way. I think that in the end, things are just as bad as before. So of course she wants to fight me anyways. Plus i play select soccer, and my life is centered to that. And getting into a fight could get my in trouble with my team. And everyone wants us to fight. I just dont want it to seem like in chickening off. I mean if thats what i takes, ill do it, but is there any way to get her to understand that i dont want to fight. I mean i forgot about it until she had her friend email me. I WILL not do anything that could hurt my chances of getting into a good school or hurt my chances of staying on this soccer team. So what can i do or tell her to make her back off and understand that i dont care about something that happened a long time ago?

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Additional info, added Thursday July 17 2008, 2:00 am:
im 13/f and shes 12/f i think. So im also not going to fight a girl younger than me. Also i think that things can be talked out and theres no need to fight. And because of this iv never been in a fight. But i know how to because my guyfriends and brother and his friends showed me. And also....she lives on the street next to mine.... Please help!.

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person43 answered Thursday July 17 2008, 3:30 am:
If you really don't want to fight her, just don't do it. If she is willing to listen, tell her some of the stuff you wrote on here. You can be the mature one and just tell her you don't want to fight her because she is younger than you and you don't feel like you need to prove anything to her. Maybe if you just ignore the subject and not egg her on at all she will just give up and move on. good luck and good choice not to fight...fighting is pretty lame, especially when girls do it.

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SK8ORDIE answered Thursday July 17 2008, 3:03 am:
if she hits u first then you can fight and never get in trouble it wont go on your perment record or police record this foggot hit me and i broke his nose and his arm and all they did was send me home for the duration of the day and i was back to school the next day

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