will all the GUYS help me on this one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Question Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 9:42 am
the guy i like asked me to hang out with him....... and im pretty darn sure he likes me cuz he told me how he felt and everthing
but..............
he has a girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so why would he ask me to hang out with him and just him if he has a girl friend!!!!
and its not like we have been friends i mean i wouldnt even consider him a friend really but i do like him a lot tho!!!!!!!
so does any one no why??????
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
It's pretty common for a guy to like a girl outside of his relationship. As wrong as that may be, it's true. He seems to have done a few of the things above, so I would say he likes you.
Just lay low for awhile, especially since he has a girlfriend. You wouldn't want to steal him away and have a horrible reputation, would you? ;]
dirtyfryBG31MTB answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 4:06 pm: just a note: the person below me is obviously NOT a man.
i, however, am.
it does sound like he's interested, because it looks like he's willing to cheat for you. i'm thinking that's what it is, actually. this situation sounds like he's going to try to cheat on his girlfriend with you.
two bits of advice:
one: don't hang out with him, because IF something happens and the other girl finds out, she'll be out to get you.
two: stay away from the guy. he sounds like an ass.
DHunter answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 10:11 am: Maybe he is tired of his girlfriend and wants to se if you'd be a better one? Maybe he's just a player looking for some action with you? Maybe he just wants to be friends and hang out? Try calling him and asking him what he plans on doing and where he wanted to go. Maybe then you will understand his intentions better. Need anything else just contact me. [ DHunter's advice column | Ask DHunter A Question ]
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