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So, I'm usually on the advising end of this question, but I can never give myself advice. If you have any suggestions, I'll happily try them out.
Here's the scenario:
My mother grounded me indefinitely. (She's done this once before, but I got out of it by writing a persuasive essay telling her why she should lift my grounding and let me go to my friend's party.) She's been awful to me all day, and I guess I subconsciously retalliated by taking my friend in her car (my mom's allergic to everything) and driving us to the mall. It was planned that I'd go over to my friend's house, but not that we'd go to the mall. See, mom doesn't want me to take anyone in her car because she's allergic to perfume and scented laundry detergents and all that.
In response to my doing this, she grounded me. Anyone have any suggestions as to how to get out of this? Or at least get her to set a time?
Please don't tell me I shouldn't have done that in the first place because I know that. I aplogized and offered to clean the car and all that, but she just told me to go shower. Lol.
Help me out any way you can! Thanks.
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First step is to breathe. Take yoga breaths: in until you can take no more air, out until there is no more air. Then apologize once more to your mother, and don't mention the rose. Help around the house a bit, and write her another letter explaining how you feel.
When she comes around, maybe you can tell her off about the rose. Keyword there being maybe; you don't want to anger her again.....
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my advice is to write a sincere letter to her telling her you will never do it again then give it to her when shes in a good mood then leter on ask her to buy u a car lol jk bout your own car but i hope it works
always to umm
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Take deep breaths and calm down. You might want to wait a little while ( a few days maybe) until you are both not so mad at each other.
Tell her you are sorry and won't do it again. (I know you already did.) Tell her it is unreasonable not to set an end point to grounding. Does she expect you to be grounded until you are able to move out?
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