i love to do sports, giving advice, chating, talking, singing, and in general haveing fun. I have blonde hair baby blue eyes,i just love to and help people so i'll help you to the best i can rate my help and im me to tell me how i did.one day i hope i become a professional at this. oh thank you i hope every thing works out ,becca always
P.S. Older post I have were done when I was younger and can't spell please don't hold that against me.
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So, I'm usually on the advising end of this question, but I can never give myself advice. If you have any suggestions, I'll happily try them out.
Here's the scenario:
My mother grounded me indefinitely. (She's done this once before, but I got out of it by writing a persuasive essay telling her why she should lift my grounding and let me go to my friend's party.) She's been awful to me all day, and I guess I subconsciously retalliated by taking my friend in her car (my mom's allergic to everything) and driving us to the mall. It was planned that I'd go over to my friend's house, but not that we'd go to the mall. See, mom doesn't want me to take anyone in her car because she's allergic to perfume and scented laundry detergents and all that.
In response to my doing this, she grounded me. Anyone have any suggestions as to how to get out of this? Or at least get her to set a time?
Please don't tell me I shouldn't have done that in the first place because I know that. I aplogized and offered to clean the car and all that, but she just told me to go shower. Lol.
Help me out any way you can! Thanks. (link)
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my advice is to write a sincere letter to her telling her you will never do it again then give it to her when shes in a good mood then leter on ask her to buy u a car lol jk bout your own car but i hope it works
always to umm
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please could u tell me what prison sentence someone will get for sexual abuse on a child of 10 years old (link)
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i donot no but it could lead to life in prison and if you did this then you need proffesional help because it is never right i shold know because i was well neways u know anyways get help
always, becca
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What does wet dreams for a guy mean???????????????????????????????????????? I NEED TO KNOW!! (link)
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well it means when a guy dreams about something that makes then well erect then they spill a little sperm but you shold ask a person you know and trust to ask them about these subjects
always, becca
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Ok my sex really sucks! what do i do? gosh please help me soon!!! my gosh!! maybe its because i am really ugly and i have a giant mole on my chin! everyone calls me triple m! for monkey, mole, and mouse! gosh.....and i weigh like 290 lbs? is that bad? oh and i am 5'3" (link)
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this is nothing to do with your sex and it is not bad because someonehas given you that image for a reason so love it andlove u for who u r not for wat people like u for
always,becca
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im just wondering. if you ask a question on advicenators, does the person reading or answering you question know the user name i am on? (link)
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no one will know you s/n or whatever enless you tell someone
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My friend got fingered by a guy, and she has had her period. I was wondering can you get pregnant from being fingered. Does that also mean ur a no a vergin anymor?? PLease write back thanx (link)
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i have to agreee with fallen angle and it is tru im am sorry for her tho buti it waz ur friends choice
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Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
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its all a idea of the mind so i dont no
always,becca
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I just got to this new school and a boy goes there that ive know just about my whole life and we hate each other and we got into a fight and I have a huge bruise and im a girl he likes to pick on me. (link)
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he is still not over show him ur over him he will leave u alone
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im almost 12 and i am tall 4 my age but i weigh like 115. I no thats bad! (link)
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dear,im writing bak.....
no that is not bad because that is how life made you and if u hate it work out no offence
always,becca
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My g/f that i love tried to kill herself. I love her so much and she wont talk 2 me about why she did it. She wont talk 2 me at all about it some one pleese help me what should i do (link)
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dear,
DESPARATE I NEED HELP
this is wat i would do if my bf tryed to to that i would talk to him and and tell him we need to talk tell him how this would effect others lifes around him and tell him how much you love him .hope it worked put herin the him spaces
always,becca
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everywhere I go I feel like someone is following me I don't know if it is good or bad but this feeling takes place when I'm alone. is this normal? (link)
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dear, followed
i donot know if it is normal but i do no tht i get that felling all the time ever since my dad died and if anyone in your family died then you have a gardian angel watching over you at least thats wat i belive
always,becca
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How is it having a boyfriend? (link)
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dear, how is it
have a boyfriend be uplifting when your down and when your in pain they give you something to gain life can be cold they might be wat your looking for. but they also can have a forbeden side that you want to keep hidden . what im saying is they help you grow in retern you help them grow but dont think just because there gr8 means you have to have one . follow your heart and youll have a better chance of making the right choice
always,becca:)
ps hope i helped you know wat they are like
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i hate my life its a whirling twirling sprial of doom i dont know wat to do my life is filled with gloom my friend likes vodo i hate it i hate me i dont no wat to do they say to slit your wrist i say i used to i wrote this before to day wat dose it mean besides the fact i wanna die but i also want to help people but i cant if im dead but i wanna die... (link)
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daer,me
i will not kill myself because i have gotten great advice from lots of people and i love giving advice plus i still have to do things in my life
always, becca
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When I click on my inbox, it says I have new questions, but then the number goes away. Does anybody know why? (link)
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dear, why
because you have to go to the give advice to find your question then click on how many answers and look how hany you have
always ,becca
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Ive been married for 20 years, my husband is 42, but acts like a 12 year old. He is irresponsible, impulsive, selfish, and out of control financially. He has made one bad decision after another, running up bills he never intends to pay, he has a really small attention span, often forgetting conversations 10 minutes later. Cant remember where he parked his car, where he left his tools, often leaving them on a job.Often causes arguements by repeating things wrong between others.Often sits and zombies out when the television is on, even shouting his name cant get his attention. Seems so distracted often says or does something embarassing,like blurting out things that have nothing to do with the current topic we're discussing, because he's not paying attention. He is very distant with all his kids, never talking or communicating with any of them, he only says hello when he gets home and thats it.All five kids are late teens and early 20's now and have no relationship with him or have any interest to. Each one is angry over his lack of attention or commication with them. He has no interest in friends or family.We have no socialized with other couples or friends in 18 years. When we do have a family get together or party, he cracks the exact same jokes, after that he is not capable of starting any conversation, and leads the company in the kitchen for me to entertain while Im cooking. He is often completely silent in the presence of everyone, because he doesnt have anything at all to say.Its bizarre and very uncomfortable for everyone. He has conducted his life so wrecklessly he is in huge financial trouble with 5 credit cards, he charged up and never once made payment on any of them, bounced checks in two states, owes two banks money, cheated the IRS five times, tryed to run a business 6 times, failed each time, and owes tons of bills, and almost cause foreclosure on our home several times. We won the lotto years back,a nd he squandered all the money on frivolous things he wanted for himself, never sharing a dime with his family or anyone.He hides snacks and treats I buy so he doesnt have to share with his own kids. Hides money from his paycheck to spend on himself. Never included me on any of his banks accounts. He has abused his checking account so bad he is no longer allowed to open an account in any bank. We are now flat broke due to his immaturity and schemes. Now that he has hit rock bottom, and has ruined every relationship with everyone he knows, he is now claiming depression because his father was an alcoholic and abusive. Is this an excuse for an immature, spoiled selfish man who is ashamed? Or is this a valid reason for the chaos of this crazy roller coaster life he's put us through? His mother says he is exaggerating about the abuse, and he was only punished by the father when it was deserved.She also told me that he was the only child the father payed attention to because he was a star athlete growing up. She says it was the other kids who were ignored and abused. He has taken advantage of every kindness anyone has ever offered him, never giving nothing back in return. He has a brother who is slightly "off" acts very hyper and loud, and has strange habits, he has a nephew diagnosed with ADHD. Is this depression, or is there something else wrong with a grown man who acts so irrpesponsible. Its as though he never learns, no matter how many times he fails, he goes right back and repeats the exact same actions and refuses to beleive the consequences will be the same. He cant remember anything he reads, hears or see's on television. Its like he is incapable of absorbing any kind of knowledge. His words, his ideas, everything about him is outdated and from the 60's and 70's time era. It is very embarassing when he speaks in front of company or any other adult we are around. There is always an uncomfortable silence after one of his embarassing remarks or comments.He is also addictive with gambling, and porn on the internet and movies,and was smoking pot for years until I finally got him to stop. he seems spaced out and zombie like at any given time of the day. What could possibly be wrong with a 42 year old who thinks and acts like this ?? If his family is saying he is exaggerating about the abuse, and they do not have any problems even close to ones he has, is he lieing and useing his father as an excuse, or could he possibly really be depressed for the last 20 years as he claims? His father died of cancer when he was 19, so he has not been an influence in his everyday life for over 20 years. Thank you (link)
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dear, trolubled wife
there is no better cure for depreestion then cheering up and medicine will help but it all depends on the dna of the person and how the body will react to the medication and how many mgs it has in it and wat type how everthing works out between you two.
always, becca
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I have this friend and she is moving to Kentucky and I do not know what to do.She is like my best friend and I dont want her to go because I will miss her too much and she is soo happy about going but she is so worried about her boyfriend.I mean she is so ...I dont have a boyfriend and was thinking of taking him when she moves.I personlly think that I am acting weird for one.Is this normal?why do want to take her boyfriend away from her at the end of the year?
signed,
good-bye and hello
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dear,good-bye and hello
i would say itz all natrual but consider her feeling because even long distance relatstionships work a if you consider it takeing him away then you think its wrong and id have to agree with youu but it your choice hope everthing works out
always, becca
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I need help in finding a career that's risky, adventurous, enjoyable and never boring.
Any suggestions (link)
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fbi or fire fighter
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My heart once was broken Untill I found you...
You took my heart,
You took some glue,
You put it back together,
And I thank you.
If I had a choice to live or die by your side,
I would die in an instant.
"Just Die"
I sit here cold and lonely,
I hear you whisper,
I hear you cry,
Why cant you just die?
You're my fears,
You're my tears,
I can see you here,
You're everywhere,
I can't stop what I have begun,
My Love is endless,
It's driving me insane!
Please turn out the lights,
Fade away into the dark,
I can't stop,
I love you,
I hate you,
I need you,
I Breathe you
GO AWAY.
"Disapear"
I've fallen down below,
I know you wish I wasnt here,
It's too late,
I made the mistake,
I gave in, Death is not my fear?!
Dont cry, I was sapposed to die,
Close your eyes and it will all disapear.
"You left me here"
Im crying,
Im laying here dying,
You let go, you left me behind,
I've cried long enough,
I tried to get you,
I tried to show you,
I was ignored,
and this night you'd wish u didnt leave me here,
Don't let me cry alone, dont let me die alone.
"Lost voice"
I tried to speak the words wouldnt come out.
I tried to tell you how much I love you and that I care.
I wnated you to know I wanted to say the words but my mouth forced them back in.
Losing the words to say, my mind is caving in.
I need to tell you these things if only I could, I would.
"You Let Go"
I felt your grip,
You held me tight,
Untill tonight,
I feel myself slipping away,
Dont try to save me,
Why would u want to?
You were the one who let go.
I have more... I'll add em later!!
By- MyNightmarex666
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dear,MyNightmarex666
you love this guy a whole lot but your mixed upin your feelings alot of girls feel this way i for one used too till i met my man all i can say is give it a try soo im gonna say bye
always, becca
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ok. i was going out with this guy for 2 weeks, and i didnt no it but he broke up with me. he told my friend he wanted to break up. he said the reason was because he was happier bein single. then a few months later he told my friend that he broke up with me because his stepbrother thought i was ugly. so my x-boyfrind believed him. now i always catch him staring at me. and never wantin 2 b by me. Also wenever he see's me he try's to get all over gurls. I dont like him anymore. but i kinda do. why does he do that? (link)
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dear,confused gurl
he dose tht because he dosent know what he wants in life and because guys are just like girls they get confussed to there are so many girls like us he most defetnliy likes u so give him another chance
always,becca
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my life is shit
i wanna die
here i go
its a bumpy ride
wondering how and when
it should be done
should i stab my chest
or use a gun
should i poison myself
or maybe drown
will people smile
or will they frown
will they cry
i'll never know
doesnt matter
here i go
should i slit my wrists
or not do it at all
im on a cliff
should i fall
if i die
will you care
or will you pretend
i was never there
why doesnt anyone like me?
why doesnt anyone care?
why doesnt anyone help?
why isnt anyone there?
I try to talk to people
I try to tell them how I feel
damn, i pour my heart to them
because this i can't conceal
I've always been ignored
I've always been scared
I've cried
I've tried
But now I wana die
So now I have made a choice
a choice about death or life
I wipe my tears away
and get out a knife
I stab it into my wrists
cut them real deep
soon I'll be in a better place
the bloods starting to seep
i have no more worries
no more fears
no more pain
dont have cry no more tears
now i am happy
wait, should I be?
I have missed out on my whole life
I am drenched in blood, just look at me
I am sorry mommy
I am sorry dad
I knew you always loved me
sorry to make you sad
but now all i can see is white
i'm getting close to the light
bye to people who ignored me'
bye to the people who hated me
bye to the people who didn't know i even existed bye forever
I am at the light now
I am in a better place
do not follow me
i am never to far away (link)
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dear poet
if this is real in your life just dont get the knife life is better than it seems u still have time to fufill ur dreams so wat im tryn to say is dont throw ur life away itz ment to be lived so dont give up hope
always, becca
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