I have this friend and she is moving to Kentucky and I do not know what to do.She is like my best friend and I dont want her to go because I will miss her too much and she is soo happy about going but she is so worried about her boyfriend.I mean she is so ...I dont have a boyfriend and was thinking of taking him when she moves.I personlly think that I am acting weird for one.Is this normal?why do want to take her boyfriend away from her at the end of the year?
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good-bye and hello
okiegrl91 answered Thursday April 8 2004, 7:58 pm: alls i can tell u is to talk 2 ur friend on the phone and computer, and just go see ur friend on school vacations
Alice-Noir answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 12:03 pm: You want to take her boyfriend from her because you resent her for moving away. This is all expected and natural, though I do not recommend actually trying to take him. If she is worried about her boyfriend already, how do you think she will feel if you take him from her? I thought she was meant to be your friend?
As for her actually moving away, you have to let go and let her follow her own path. As an immortal, I have been through many [as I like to call them] chapters in my life and have learned that things pass on and come when it is the right time, all you need to do is accept it. [ Alice-Noir's advice column | Ask Alice-Noir A Question ]
gatarphinx answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 11:40 am: dear,good-bye and hello
i would say itz all natrual but consider her feeling because even long distance relatstionships work a if you consider it takeing him away then you think its wrong and id have to agree with youu but it your choice hope everthing works out
always, becca [ gatarphinx's advice column | Ask gatarphinx A Question ]
Magenta answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 11:16 am: Sounds to me like you are trying to seek revenge on your friend for leaving you, and you feel that by taking her boyfriend you will have done that. It's not the right way to go. Talk to her, tlel you're going to miss her loads. Arrange to write, talk on the phone and the internet, and meet up lots. Just because she's moving away, it doesn't mean the two of you still can't be friends. And why not get her a great goodbye present, like a video of all her friends, or throw her a big party. Let her know how much she means to you. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
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