I just started dating this guy and he is really sweet in all but he never talks to me in school or on the phone.And I justed found out that he was just using me to get his ex-girl friend out and I just dumped him.Was that a good choice?because now all my friends have boyfriends and I dont, and all the guys are like takin'.What do I do? and did I make a good choice?
Here-To-Help answered Friday April 9 2004, 4:27 pm: Yes you made a VERY GOOD choice...and A LOT of my friends are going through the whole love thing...whether they like somebody who likes them back, or if boys like them...or some even had more boyfriends then me...or they have one now. I just feel so useless and I don't haev a boyfriend. I know it's hard to see everyone around you dating...but don't go out with a guy JUST TO GO OUT WITH A GUY? Do you get what I mean? You have to really like that guy and he has to really like you for it to mean something...
IT WAS A VERY GOOD CHOICE...and don't get back together with that boy. A boy will come to you...you can't rush love/infatuation.
*sigh* Trust me...I know how hard it is...and I really like a kid but I have no clue what to do...I'm such a shy person...AHHH~! (sorry) *runs away and hides*
So yeah...if you find out somebody likes you...or if you REALLY like someone...then go for it and ask them out if you feel you want to.
PepeLePew answered Thursday April 8 2004, 4:30 pm: You made the right choice. It doesn't matter what the other people think or are doing. It's better being unique sometimes, :). The dude shouldn't have done that in the first place, I applaud you. [ PepeLePew's advice column | Ask PepeLePew A Question ]
oblvr10 answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 7:28 pm: Dear,Cheated
I thinck you did a great chose that happened to me.There are other fish in the sea and also dont just get one cuse your friends have 1 the right man will come to you just have to wait intill you
find the right one. [ oblvr10's advice column | Ask oblvr10 A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 1:29 pm: Yes, you made the right choice and you know it. He is a jerk and that is why you dumped him. I hope you realize that boyfriends are not a neccessity of life. Just because your friends have a guy doen't meen you have to have one. Your not going to find a good boyfriend by snatching up the frist avalible guy. Wait for a guy that you actually like and share the same interests with before making him your boyfriend. You don't want to be associated with a bunch of jerks. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
Alice-Noir answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 12:51 pm: Of course you made a good choice; what's the point in staying in a fake relationship?
Take my word for it, do not *ever* start a relationship with someone purely because you feel left out and all your friends have boyfriends. Your friends are probably only in these silly 'fashionable' relationships that I keep seeing so much of these days. It is pointless, and you should just wait until you meet someone whom you could see yourself falling in love with. [ Alice-Noir's advice column | Ask Alice-Noir A Question ]
Magenta answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 11:04 am: Seriously hun, this guy is not worth you worrying over. He's obviously a jerk, and so not good enough for you. Go find one that's really worth your time ;) [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
angelsp answered Wednesday April 7 2004, 9:00 am: absolutly, you deserve alot better than that, no one deserves to be used, its out of order, its good that you dumped him, it shows him that your no fool for letting him use you like that. you'll find better [ angelsp's advice column | Ask angelsp A Question ]
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