Ask me for advice on any aspect of life. I've had experiance with everything and more.
As an immortal [vampire] of many years, I have learned the ways of karma and the world and feel that although this is only a bit of online-fun for me, I could really help some of you people.
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I just started dating this guy and he is really sweet in all but he never talks to me in school or on the phone.And I justed found out that he was just using me to get his ex-girl friend out and I just dumped him.Was that a good choice?because now all my friends have boyfriends and I dont, and all the guys are like takin'.What do I do? and did I make a good choice?
-cheated and used (link)
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Of course you made a good choice; what's the point in staying in a fake relationship?
Take my word for it, do not *ever* start a relationship with someone purely because you feel left out and all your friends have boyfriends. Your friends are probably only in these silly 'fashionable' relationships that I keep seeing so much of these days. It is pointless, and you should just wait until you meet someone whom you could see yourself falling in love with.
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Hey, it's lizzy, i have an advice collumn, i was wondering, i want to dye my hair because i am a blonde and it is getting really boring. I want to dye my hair like a maroon color, but not to whacked out, and not so it is auburn like everyone else's is. My skin is kind of pale and i don't know what to do about it. Will a dark red look good on a sort of pale person? Thanks
Lizzy (link)
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I think dark hair would look great with pale skin. The maroon color definatly seems to be in style right now, and I have noticed that it only seems to work with pale skin.
Then again, blonde can look great too. Being a blonde myself, I'm rather attached to staying true to myself, and I tend to use techniques to make it look brighter and more unique such as rinsing with cold water.
If you really must dye your hair though, go through with it, because I'm sensing it would look great on you. Might even give you a slightly gothic look, I don't know...
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She's trapped inside her own world of sins
She can't get out, but she never wanted to get in
No one seems to notice, they just pass on by
Everyday she puts on her best smile, never wanting to start to cry
She's ashamed of everything she's ever put herself through
If she could only start over again, there's things she would not do
She never really wanted to be that kind of girl
But it was just so easy to fall into that world
Her world just keeps on falling down, around her like a thick cloud
She can't even see a thing, can't even hear a sound
Her skin crawls with angst, not knowing what to expect
She's afraid to open her eyes, afraid of what she might see next
She'd huddled in a corner, wrapping herself in her arms
Trying to block whatever it is that might put her in some harm
A single tear rolls down her cheek, the one she's tried so hard to block
She's tried to find the key, the one to open up the lock
She never wanted to be bad, but never wanted to be good
She doesn't know which way to go even though she should
The girl looks deep inside her own reflection, to see what she can find
But all she sees is false hope and deception, it's what she's trying to hide
But, you wonder, how I see all those things you can not see
It's a secret I've tried to hold dear, but that little girl is me (link)
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The aspect is quite good, but I have to say it does drag on just about forever, and it doesn't flow right.
You need to use less words; try a thesaurus. And good luck with your next poem.
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I have been an athiest for about four years, and I have begun to feel lacking in that area. I looked up many differnt religions, and took trusted belief tests to see what would best fit with what I really want and believe. The tests all pointed to Pagan. I have looked up on it, and it just seems to fit. I feel so happy, even just going through a normal day is better now that I have found it. However, I do not think my parents (catholic and athiest) will accept it. Anyone who has had a similar "coming out" (be it of religion or sexual orientation) care to help me form a plan, so they might see my view?
Blessed Be (link)
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I just want to point out to you, that about 80% of teenagers seem to go through this 'pagan' phase, including myself.
It seems to 'fit' just about everyone, and admittedly I still find aspects of it very beautiful, but a lot of it is lies [and you will realise this yourself soon even if you don't believe me now.]
You will grow tired of it after about two years or maybe less [just as I did]. Once an atheist, always an atheist. I have been for about 250 years now, trust me, you will convert yourself back to it.
Becuase of this, I recommend for you not to 'come out' about it unless you find that I am wrong and that you do stick with it for more than two years. I went through torment and bullying when I possesed pagan beliefes, please don't make the same mistake as it is painful to watch from a distance.
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These dreams go on when I close my eyes
Every second of the night I live another life. i swear im living another life but these dreams seem so completley REAL! i feel lik in supposed to be in a diffrent world or place could these dreams come true?? also i think or dream about stuff one day and it comes true the next day and i already saw it the night before this only happens once in a while though?? what is going on help!!!! (link)
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Though hardly anyone ever figures out what significance their dreams have, my theory is that you are either predicting things from your future [as seems to be the case with you in particular] or are dreaming about ancestors.
I used to know someone who would dream about her mother [who died tragically in a car crash when my friend was age 3] whenever she was scared or worried.
Could this shed some light on your problem?
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I have this friend and she is moving to Kentucky and I do not know what to do.She is like my best friend and I dont want her to go because I will miss her too much and she is soo happy about going but she is so worried about her boyfriend.I mean she is so ...I dont have a boyfriend and was thinking of taking him when she moves.I personlly think that I am acting weird for one.Is this normal?why do want to take her boyfriend away from her at the end of the year?
signed,
good-bye and hello
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You want to take her boyfriend from her because you resent her for moving away. This is all expected and natural, though I do not recommend actually trying to take him. If she is worried about her boyfriend already, how do you think she will feel if you take him from her? I thought she was meant to be your friend?
As for her actually moving away, you have to let go and let her follow her own path. As an immortal, I have been through many [as I like to call them] chapters in my life and have learned that things pass on and come when it is the right time, all you need to do is accept it.
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