Member Since: April 6, 2004
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Last Update: April 8, 2004
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dear, any one
one of my friend is a gay/lisbaian
person i dont think its tht bad but it goes alout against my religion is it wrong of me not to care even tho my religon says that they will not go to heaven at least thts wat my mom says but im 16 and 16 a very confussing age
*The confussed 16 year old* (link)
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Do you really think god cares if you are interested in the same sex. The truth is god doesnt. And there is nothing wrong with gays so what if they are different. Your mother might as well be a Notzi or in the KKK because if you think about it whats the difference between hatred of Blacks or Jews and hatred of gays. You are right not to care if they are gay because there is nothing wrong with it. As for your mother she needs to be more open minded and accepting of other peoples differences.
-ben
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I have been told that I am a very gifted actress, and my drama teacher said that I should get into theatre camp, but I live with my dad, and money is tight. I really want to go to theatre camp, but all the places I looked at are day camps that cost way too much money. (my dad has a tough job and cant drive me to and from camp so it would have to be an overnight camp) any ideas what I should do?
HELP ME!!! (link)
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Often camps will provide scholorship oppertunitys that you can get the camp paid for with. As for a ride do any of your friends have cars, if so ask them to take you a good friend would be willing 2 help u out
-ben
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is it posible to date two friends at a time?people said it is bad can i believe this? (link)
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Its POSIBLE its not moral or right in any sence. And would you want to live everyday in fear that they might find out about each other. Its smarter just to have 1 b/f or g/f, and you will be a lot happier.
-ben
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my boyfriend that i live with read my email from a man that i was planning on sleeping with in the near future and i no he knows should i bring it up he is giving me the cold shoulder my live in that is what should i do should i bring it up should i just ignore it the only reason i was planning on sleeping with the guy any how is that my live in and i have a non existent sex life and i was desperate well i hope someone out there can help me get back in the good graces of my live in (link)
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Usually I would say it is an invasion of privacy, but sometimes it is warented. On rare occasions such as this I will side with the guy. No one shouls cheat on their b/f its just wrong. If you werent planning on loving him and spending the rest of your life with the guy why did you move in with him. You should talk to him and get his oppinion on the matter, and if hes willing to take you back consiter yourself very luckey. Explain to him why you were willing to ruin your relationship with him, just so you could have sex, I don't know how he will respond but its what has to be done.
-ben
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I havae never had a boyfriend. Every time i ask someone out they say no. Does God want me to have one. I don't know how to flirt? What am I doing wrong? (link)
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You arent doing anything wrong. If anything you are doing everything right. As for god I cant speak for him but I know from experience that when the time does come you will meet somone who is your soul mate and you were destined to be together. I know thats what everyone says and it may seem a tad repetitive because I was the same way you are. But then I found Becca and my life has changed so have faith and one day it will happen to you i am sure of it.
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I was in a relationship, and we were having difficulties, I called the police and charged him with assault. Now that i have to go to court he didnt commit assault, all i wanted to do was get my childern back. Can you give me some advice on what i should do (link)
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You should admit what you did. It was wrong for you to lie, but you can still make things right. This man should not go to jail for somthing he did not do. And as for the kids you should go to court and get visitation privleges.
-ben
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okay, my boyfriend heard me say to another person " No you cant tell anyone", and so now he wants to know, what should i do¿
signed,
confused about it (link)
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You should be completely honest no matter what it is about you should tell him. If the relationsip will last there must be complete and total honesty. I do not blame the guy for wanting to know its the same thing i would do. Hes just concerned about you, or worried that there could be a problem with the relationship and he needs to know if there is.
-Ben
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thank you everyone who helped me with my problem ive have done it since i was 2 i think you have helped me break my habit of death everytime i want to die i will think of you and say i still have time to help people because that is wat i do in life always, becca (link)
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good i was worried about u hunny
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How is it having a boyfriend? (link)
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that i do not know but i do know that meeting my g/f has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. It makes you happy on your worst of days. It uplifts your spirits, and makes you want to be a better person. And when it is love TRUE LOVE your heart soars. It feels like sunlight warming your whole body. When you talk to the person your heart races, your palms sweat, and you cant think of anything but them.
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i tryed to kill my self and told my bf and now he wont leave me alone wat do i do ? (link)
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i only keep asking you because im worried i love you and i need you to talk 2 me about it. I kno it is hard but it is important. I want to help you and the only way i can is if you talk 2 me im worried i couldnt live my life with out you
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I want to get breast surgery to make my boobs larger, but I wanted to know what you guys think. Should I get breast surgery? I am only an A cup right now and I don't feel comfortable wearing tank tops or any clothes that show my real size. I want to make them at least a B cup. If I do decide to get surgery, is who should I consult to get on with it? Has anyone already got surgery who can tell me the price and the side-effects? Thankyou for your help (link)
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personally i am against any kind of surgery to change your appearance. I think its shallow and stupid. You should not feel that you should be "like everyone else". After all breasts are just there to provide milk for newborns, nothing else.
-ben
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HOW DO YOU TELL A BOY YOU LIKE HIM. BUT YOU ARE SCARED? (link)
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You dont need to be scared. Guys are fundamentally like you they love and hate. But ask yourself this question if you are afrade of him than do you think it is true love. It is a common mistake of adolesants they get confused and mix up lust and love. But if it is true love than you should swallow your fears of regection and ask him. And if he says no than you two were not made for each other.
-ben
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i need to loose weight! what should I do!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know its very often said, but rarely understood. what you need to realize is that you are beautiful inside. Weight, size, color, shape these things are only on the outside but you must realize that it is your soul that is what makes up who you are not your appearance. In this world of conformity few realize that its not whats in the outside that counts. I know this from experience i too am not of average weight, and i was just like you. I wanted to be like everyone else, but then I realized that looks are fleeting and you should be yourself.
-ben
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I've liked a certain guy for over a year. I know that he used to like me, but I don't know if he still does. Whenever I get a friend to ask him, he won't answer them. But he always stares at me, which is really confusing, because it's in a good way. Like, he'll smile as he looks at me. But his friend said that he doesn't like me that way. I know that I should just get over him, but it isn't that easy. There's no other guys like him.. He's the only nice, sweet, and funny guy at my school who isn't taken. It's all so confusing. (link)
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He seems more of a romantic, you should ask him yourself and see how he responds.
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