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my boyfriend read my email
my boyfriend that i live with read my email from a man that i was planning on sleeping with in the near future and i no he knows should i bring it up he is giving me the cold shoulder my live in that is what should i do should i bring it up should i just ignore it the only reason i was planning on sleeping with the guy any how is that my live in and i have a non existent sex life and i was desperate well i hope someone out there can help me get back in the good graces of my live in
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Usually I would say it is an invasion of privacy, but sometimes it is warented. On rare occasions such as this I will side with the guy. No one shouls cheat on their b/f its just wrong. If you werent planning on loving him and spending the rest of your life with the guy why did you move in with him. You should talk to him and get his oppinion on the matter, and if hes willing to take you back consiter yourself very luckey. Explain to him why you were willing to ruin your relationship with him, just so you could have sex, I don't know how he will respond but its what has to be done.
-ben
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is very hard but tell him the truth
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Frankly I am quite shocked that your boyfriend is even still around after what he saw. He must really like you. If you want to keep him around the first thing you need to do is not cheat!! You also must communicate. Did you talk about the lack of sex in your relationship? Does he now your are not feeling satisfiyed with the relationship? You defenitly need to talk to him about the email and clear things up, otherwise it will always be hanging over your heads.
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u know what they say whatever u do will all ways come in the light. r u trying to destroy your relationship. talk 2 him about it so he will know at least u care about him. let him know your sorry but u really have to mean it just have a nice little talk with your man
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A bit confusing...like the other two said.
I think it was fair of him reading that letter. Cheating on him for sex...you know there are better things in life, and if he was a good boyfriend, well then you lost his trust if you two are still together.
Do you even know the man who wanted to sleep with you? He has no respect at all.
How old are you anyway?
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Okay, he shouldn't have read your e-mail, as that's invasion of privacy, but you should not have been planning to cheat on him. Planning to do it is just as hurtful as actually cheating. I had a guy do this to me once and it hurt an unbelieveable amount. Bring this up with your boyfriend. I understand you have "reasons" for planning to cheat, but maybe your live-in was just trying to preserve the relationship you had. You have to talk to him, though, else you'll never know his reasoning. The only way to get back in his good graces is to (a) talk to him about it and explain why you were going to cheat on him, and (b) tell this other guy you're never going to see him again.
Oh, and just a tip from me. Punctuation, PLEASE. I have trouble reading run-on sentences like that. I hope you follow our advice.
-Siren
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learn about a thing called punctuation. You are not Faulkner. You cannot make sentances that long. Secondly, I think you should have talked to your boyfriend before you went and found somebody else. At the least you could have broken up with him first. Thirdly, bring this thing up with him. Tell him about what you need from this relationship. If he doesn't have the same needs, respect them. Maybe he doesn't want to have sex.
PS: it might help to know your age.
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