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I know this is old, but...
Ok ok. Guy trouble.
I've liked this guy for 4 years (5 in August) and I told him through a friend that I liked him. He said he just liked me as a friend back.
Well in class he'd try to ask me for something like a calculator to try to strike up conversation. I never had a calculator, and I think he knew that.
Over the phone my friend called him (I was on the line too, but I didn't talk) and asked him if he liked me.
Friend:"So do you like Hannah?"
Him: "...n...not really..."
Friend: "Why not?"
Him: "Uh...because I have a girlfriend."
Her: "So?"
Him: "I...I have a girlfriend."
Her: "You could still like her and have a girlfriend ya know. Anyways I guess I'll talk to ya later. Bye."
Him: "Bye." (very hurried and he hung up really fast)
Well now when I was in Science today he was flirting with me alot. In History, I'd look over at my friend and in the background he would be looking at me. He actually started a convo with me! ("Hey, Hannah, what hour do you have (teacher)?") Well I don't know but I felt all excited and stuff. =D
But I wonder what he would do if I called him and asked him how he felt. Do you think he would feel bad about it since he has a girlfriend, or should I go ahead anyways? Or should I just wait and see what'll happen?
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You can still talk to him as a friend...the typical friend stuff. Nothing about girlfriends or crushes. It's his choice if he wants to break up with his girl friend or not. Just wait...he is probably just confused at the moment...have teo different girls liking him. :p
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You should call him. Your friend shouldn't have been the one to talk to him in the first place. I don't care how shy you are - it should have been you. However, interesting idea with the phone and you being silently on the line. Lol. The idea's cute, but it really should've been you talking to him. He may feel bad about having to tell you that he doesn't like you, but at least he's being loyal to his girlfriend. (Which means if they ever broke up, he'd be a good boyfriend. Lol.) Can you really blame him for sticking to one girl? I hate fickle guys, really. There are way too many of them. Call him if you like, but chances are he'll give you the same answer he gave your friend. Don't get too hopeful, but if you want to hear the answer from him, talk. =)
-Siren
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Go with what You Would do, not what your friends with do! Honestly I'd Say go for it... the Worst that could happen is a no... or a not really.. and if you think about it... it's not all that bad, I TOTALLY understand what you're going through... But I hope you Go with your heart <3 ;)
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There is nothing wrong with being friends with a guy that has a girlfriend. So call him up and talk to him. Get to know him. But don't try be his girlfriend, he already has one. Be his friend. If later he breaks up, you will have a better chance of getting together because you'll already be friends.
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