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I am in love with this guy and I think he is in love with me too.We are both 13. When we are by ourselfs he is all over me but when we are around other people he acts like he is just my friend. What do I do? I am a girl.
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well,this guy is oviously frontin he is a bad guy to be with if he wont show you off in front of his friends then he only cares about what his friends think.but then again you guys r in love so just talk to him about it if hes in love with you then he show you off like a superstar butif he onlycares about what his friends think then he dont love you enough.
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look, i can so totally tell that you really like this guy. ALOT. and im sure he likes you to. but you gotta relize that you are only 13 and just because you wanna real realationship doesn't mean he does. guys don't mature as fast as girls do, and he may look at being in a relationship differntly than how you see it. but if he can't act like a boyfriend around friends, then i say you should talk to him about it, and if he actually LOVES you like he says he does, then he will be able to understand. but if he doesn't change his ways, then break up. there are other fish in the sea that could treat you better. good luck with whatever you do!
with love,
advice princess
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You mean YOU THINK you're in love with somebody? Look at you...you're 13...
It's okay to be in love (if that's how you feel), but DON'T BE SURE THAT HE LOVES YOU BACK. If he really loved you he wouldn't go hiding it in front of other people (if that's what it seems like he is doing). If I were you, I'd try to strike a conversation up with him in front of people and in front of his friends or something...that way you can see if he acts like he would normally act when it's only the both of you together.
If for some reason he blows you off, talk to him about it...and...that shows he really doesn't like you. Maybe it's just infatuation.
~GL~
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i know ask him what is up just be straight forward tell him what you are feeling.
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He's just a kid and he's going to act like this until he is at least twenty. Girls mature very quickly emotionally and *want* a relationship at thirteen, but boys don't know anything about girls at that point (except they look interesting naked). There's really nothing you can do because a thirteen year old male brain will not be able to process the emotions and things behind your arguments. Just wait for the boy pool to develop a little.
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Sweetie, if I am too young for love, you are too.
He probably is shy...but he's all over you, then that means he just wants a piece of you and push you aside whenever he feel like it. Like nothing. He is not the one, dump him. If he could get you pregnant and you start to live with him, believe me, it will not be pretty.
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Just so you know, this guy is a dork for trying to "act cool" around his friends. You may very well love him, but he might not love you back, if he's acting like that. Does he know you love him? Just tell him it's bothering him the way he changes into a different person around other people. If he really loves you, he'll change. It may take awhile, but he will. Hope stuffs improve! -Siren
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Thats how my Friend is!! That or hes REALLY mean to me and makes fun of Me, and later he's Cool again, it's just him trying to impress his friends! If His friends don't think its very impressive they'll stop, this has been happening lately to me, and it hasn't stopped yet, But I'm working on it... If this happens still Write me again
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There are so many young girls on this site that are "in love". And I am sure most of you have no idea what love is, you are just in love with the idea of being in love.
You are both still young, and are still learning how relationships work. Maybe he is just embarassed to show affection for you in public. A lot of people are turned off by public displays of affection. Or maybe he is just not sure how to act.
This guy is your boyfriend, you should be able to talk with him if something is bothering you. So talk to him, you need to communicate to make a relationship work.
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Well...
I think the two of you are probably very infatuated with each other, and the concepts of love are probably very new and exciting.
When alone, he's not going to feel as inhibited and will act as such. In public, he knows that everyone else can see what he is doing, and will therefore be more shy.
And what's wrong with being friends? You can't love someone if they aren't your friend.
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I think this sounds like a good thing. I would rather have someone who loves me treat me with respect when we were with other people than be all over me <i>all</i> the time.
When I see a guy all over a girl in public, I never think "Oh, they are just in love." I think the guy has no self control and the girl has little self respect.
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