I havae never had a boyfriend. Every time i ask someone out they say no. Does God want me to have one. I don't know how to flirt? What am I doing wrong?
beccaluvr answered Thursday April 8 2004, 11:47 am: You arent doing anything wrong. If anything you are doing everything right. As for god I cant speak for him but I know from experience that when the time does come you will meet somone who is your soul mate and you were destined to be together. I know thats what everyone says and it may seem a tad repetitive because I was the same way you are. But then I found Becca and my life has changed so have faith and one day it will happen to you i am sure of it. [ beccaluvr's advice column | Ask beccaluvr A Question ]
mscrazy07 answered Monday April 5 2004, 12:41 pm: if you haven't had a boyfriend yet, then maybe it's not your time yet. and as for the God thing, well he will send you one, when he finds the perfect one for you, and check out this link about flirting, i hope it helps :) good luck
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Magenta answered Monday April 5 2004, 6:45 am: Maybe you are just not comfortable with the idea of boys yet. They aren't all that scary, I can assure you. Get to know them, talk to them, have fun. Always be yourself, never put on an act, they'll like you a whole lot more if you are just you. And remember, boys aren't the be all and end all. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
adviceforteens answered Sunday April 4 2004, 11:30 pm: Most the time you are never the reason. You just haven't found that special someone. You just have to start a friendship with a guy really start to know him and then maybe after a while go to a movie, skating, or bowling. Just as friends though you each could have 1 or 2 friends to keep the conversation fun, flowing, and lively. Then after a while you can work some magic and go out. I wish you luck in finding a guy. [ adviceforteens's advice column | Ask adviceforteens A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Sunday April 4 2004, 10:29 pm: Hey its never you, but have you thought that your trying to hard? I'm serious that can make a guy feel so uncomfortable, like I can't stand a female that askes me out and has little confidence in the question and in herself. And trust me everyone knows how to flirt just they use differnt methods. Some are extremely obvious some use a shy approach with smiling and talking. And some just use humor and flirt with every male/female they know. Im a guy and I flirt with all the females and they know it, but when flirting be casual and cool, don't push them to like you just be yourself.
Lizzy answered Sunday April 4 2004, 8:56 pm: let a guy come to you. Guys don't always want a desperate girl looking to ask them out, make them beg, that's all your probably doing wrong. Don't seem so interested to make him go out with you though. Good luck
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