I AM A TEEN AGE GIRL WHO LIVE IN THE SUNNY CALIFORNIA. I KNOW ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE, BECAUSE I LIVE IT EVERYDAY. SO I KNOW ABOUT LIFE'S ISSUES AND DRAMA, WEATHER IT'S WITH FRIENDS OR WITH YOUR HOME LIFE. SO NEED HELP? HIT ME UP.
Website: ADVICE FOR TEENAGE LIFE
E-mail: bic07@rock.com
Gender: Female
Location: SOUTHER CALIFORNIA
AIM: mscrazy0128
Member Since: April 3, 2004
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Hey im a boy and 13 so theres a girl i like and she likes me. And im tryin to find a way to ask her out, because she doesnt have any messengers i dont think and im to shy to ask her on the phone or in person.What do i do?
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here's what you do. first just get to know her, make sure you two just start talking as friends. then once you have that down if your too nervous ask her in a letter, put down something like, "i know we've been talking as friends and i was wondering if you would like to take this to the next level? or in other words, would you like to be my girl?" if she say yes, then great, if she turns you down, just think of it as her loss. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm responsible and respectful. I don't drink, smoke, have sex, do drugs, or anything of the sort. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 4 years and have no interest in having one, I get exceptional grades, and I'm extremely focused on my schoolwork and acting career. The problem is with my father. This past winter, I met a guy in my drama class. I'm a freshman and he's a senior, I'm white and he's black. We have no interest in a relationship, but we are very good friends. I have alot of guy friends, and this was no different. I'm friends with this guy because I can relate to him. We both struggle with depression, have a love of acting, and we just get along great. He gets good grades and has a future. He's respectful to authority and gets along with everyone. We started talking on the phone. It was just general stuff-cooking, acting, music, that kind of thing. My father is kind of racist, which is stupid, i know. He thinks that a person shouldn't associate with a black person outside of work or school. He's being a hypocrite, since I know that he's had plenty of african-american friends. Anyways, my father (whom I have no respect for for several reasons and who doesn't live with me and hasn't since before i was in kindergarten) found out and now I'm not allowed to talk to any guys on the phone whatsoever unless its my boss or a male relative. He said he'd reconsider when I'm 16, but he's already said that he probably won't allow it until I'm 18. This is ridiculous-I've already told 3 guys this year that I wouldn't go out with them, and I dont want a boyfriend at all. I'm a responsible teenager and I simply want a little freedom. I never go anywhere with my friends, and I've never done anything to make them not trust me. My father gets mad if I say anything about my friends, or anything at all besides my grades and schoolwork.He constantly puts me down about my grades and schoolwork and makes fun of me, but i'm required to call him once a week and endure the rude remarks. I just want to be able to talk to my guy friends on the phone, and i think this is extremely unfair. He won't listen to my point of view at all. How can I get him to see things my way? (link)
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if your father is racist, then your going to have a hard time getting him to see it your way. what you should do, if you haven't already, is tell your father the truth. I had a similer problem with my dad, when he moved out. soon enough i tried all in my power to avoid him, because i didn't want him in my life. then one day when he tried to talk to me, i let him know, that the things he dose is destorying our relationship and my love towards him. you should do the same, let him know that you dont appriciate his put downs, and you know your a great responsible teenager. you shouldn't have to take his crap, espically if he's not living wiht you. so don't tell him, let him know. it might take him some time to relize it, but maybe it'll make him relize how stupid he really is being. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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I havae never had a boyfriend. Every time i ask someone out they say no. Does God want me to have one. I don't know how to flirt? What am I doing wrong? (link)
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if you haven't had a boyfriend yet, then maybe it's not your time yet. and as for the God thing, well he will send you one, when he finds the perfect one for you, and check out this link about flirting, i hope it helps :) good luck
mscrazy07
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html
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what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at? (link)
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go ahead and wear the skirt, who cares what other people think, it you feel that people might think bad things about you then just ignor them, because if we live life according to what people around us think then we would basically live a pretty messed up life. if you like the skirt, then go on with your bad self! :D
mscrazy07
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What do you do when all you think about is dying? (link)
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Don't Leave
If i told you that i loved you would you go
if i told you that i care care would you leave
if i told you that you're specia would you change ur mind
if i told you i'll be your friend would you stay
if i told you that ill be there for you would you please
now im telling you
I do love you as a person
I do care for you
I do know you are specila
i do want to be your friend
i do want to be there for you
please dont leave
Sometimes we all have times when were going through the worst situations, well i like to call it life on earth. try looking at the good things about life, there ARE people out there who want to care for you called freinds, just gotta find them, im one of them if you need one. try to stop thinking about the negative things in life. look at the sunshine that allows children to play outside. or the rain that helps our plants to grow from the ground. :) life can be beautifull, just have to find a way to allow it to be to you. :)
mscrazy07
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Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?
Love,
!!Plz Help!! (link)
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i kind of met a guy like that also, but on the phone. and when i met him in real life he wasn't as cute as i though he would be but we dated anywayz and i feel in love. just as long as you know for sure his age and he's not some old fart posser or something, then what do you have to lose? and if your not feelin what he's all about in person then it can turn into a good friendship instead. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?
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if you are underage the age of 18 then you really shouldn't be doing it. but if you are going to do it anywayz, or can't help yourself then the best thing to do is to talk to your mom about it, and let her know how you feel. it's normal for a girl's harmons to act up during teen years. be open with your mom and try to respect her opinion and answer. and remember if she says no it's only because she cares. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught! (link)
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if your underage then you just shouldn't be doing it. there really is no explination for it. personally ive had a similer problem, but it did it because of family issues, even that it was no excuse. if you need help there are clinics that can help you and girl homes and even teen hotlines. dont be scared go and talk to a school canceler or an adult you trust for help. :) good luck
ms_crazy07
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life is lonleyness
death is happieness
for me this is what i feel
thoughts of suicide
day and night
should i make teh cut
or use those tylenol pills
rope sounds good
but the gun maybe faster
there are many more ways
that i could say
but the one for me is not today
for i will be strong
for who knows how much longer
many times i cant go on
so a cut here
a cut there
to help me on
now my wounds
will have some time to heal
though the thoughts are still
waking me up at night
i am strong
but for how long (link)
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i see you like poems, so here is a quick little poem for you
Don't Leave
If i told you that i loved you would you go
if i told you that i care care would you leave
if i told you that you're specia would you change ur mind
if i told you i'll be your friend would you stay
if i told you that ill be there for you would you please
now im telling you
I do love you as a person
I do care for you
I do know you are specila
i do want to be your friend
i do want to be there for you
please dont leave
Sometimes we all have times when were going through the worst situations, well i like to call it life on earth. try looking at the good things about life, there ARE people out there who want to care for you called freinds, just gotta find them, im one of them if you need one. try to stop thinking about the negative things in life. look at the sunshine that allows children to play outside. or the rain that helps our plants to grow from the ground. :) life can be beautifull, just have to find a way to allow it to be to you. :)
mscrazy07
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do? (link)
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what do you have to lose? if you both really like eachoter then go for it. what you should do first though is become like a friend with him, or well..how can i put it? get to know him, phone conversations and letters, just don't bug him to much. then once you both are comfortable with eachother, tell him. say, i really like you and like your personality, i was wondering if maybe we can go out somewhere sometime and maybe excellerate this friendship into something else? good luck :)
mscrazy07
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