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Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?
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You should NOT meet him until you know more about him, even if you know his sis. Or at least meet with a group of friends first.
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Well, it sounds like you found a guy that you might really like. And if u do like him in such a way, then there is no reason why u shouldn't go on a date with him. BUT, the fact of the matter is that u don't noe who he really is, so instead of goin on a date alone, go to the bowling alley with friends, and meet him there. This way, u can still meet the guy, but u always have ur friends to back u up, just in case he doesn't turn out to be the guy u thought he was. After doing a few of those kind of dates, and u feel like u truly know him, go ahead and do as u please with ur new bf :-)
-AJ
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You know his sister? On MSN or real life? If on MSN...it could be him...just on a different username rying to trick you on going out with him.
I would talk to him for a few more months if I were you...just to be on the safe side.
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Well, if you really like him, then yes, go out with him, that would make the relationship seem less shallow then most. If you don't like him in person, just start msning still, that's all i have, sorry
Lizzy
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well, you do know his sister, and she doesn't say he is a psycho murder, right? i think you should meet him with her company. if you like him, then you two could go out on your own. that way, with her if he is a jerk, then you can avoid him and only talk to her.
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Go meet him. Once you've met him go from there.
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i kind of met a guy like that also, but on the phone. and when i met him in real life he wasn't as cute as i though he would be but we dated anywayz and i feel in love. just as long as you know for sure his age and he's not some old fart posser or something, then what do you have to lose? and if your not feelin what he's all about in person then it can turn into a good friendship instead. :) good luck
mscrazy07
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i think you should go for it, since you know someone in his family, you know that he can't be a total creep. but when you go on the date, definatly have him bring a friend, and you bring a friend. so that way, when you guys run out of things to talk about, there is someone else there to talk to. it will also help not make things feel so awkward.
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I say go for it....plan a meeting place and tell him to bring a friend and you bring a friend then in case the conversation becomes dull you have two other people there to livin it up. I am sure that you know his sister and all but taking a buddy will also be safer. You also have some one to share the fun with. I know after i went out with this guy I took a friend and we ended up talking about it all night long. And the best thing about it is we could relate to everything that happened because she was there. Another thing about taking a friend is that she can tell you if this guy makes any looks to his buddy or if he check you out. If you decide not to go out with him then you guys can be great pals and just hang out. I hope you have a great time in whatever path you choose. Good Luck!
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meet him be yourself and see how it goes from there, even if you dont end up dating you have still gained a great mate to hang out with and that. go for it
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Well it wouldnt hurt to meet him and when and if you do decide then talk to him the whole time adn see if you guys like each other..and if not just talk on msn
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