hello, my name is selina and i was advised to create my own column due to the fact that i just cant help giving out advice and helping people with any questions that are on their mind. i know what its like to be botherd by something and not no who to ask it is alot easier to log on and ask a stranger who is willing to listen and help because you get no bad comeback,no spreaded goossip, no judgment,ect, so if you have something on your mind that is bothering you ask me and i will do my very best to help you out!!!!
thank you for reading........
E-mail: angelsp84@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: south london
Occupation: nursery nurse
Age: 19
Member Since: March 9, 2004
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Is there anyway I could get a bigger butt? (certain foods I must eat or exercises I must do?) (link)
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exorcise the butt muscles by sitting on the floor and moving backwards and forward using your bottom, that may help, as i dont no of anything to eat eat that could help. hope it helps!!!!!
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First off, im a girl and i have a friend who is a guy. we always hang out and we made out once but that waz all. im afraid that we will make out again n he wants to go further then making out. how do i stop in at this point without getting him upset or looking like im afraid because im not. iv had sex with 2 guys before. i dont like him enough to have sex with him but i enjoy making out with him. Please help because i dont want to look like im scared n i wanna stay friends with him. i am 17 by the way n he is 18. (link)
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as a friend he should understand and not get offensive if you dont want to have sex with him. if you dont want to have sex with him, you shouldnt have to and no one, not even him can make you, if he doesnt understand then he's out of order.
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ok ive liked this guys for six months and he just asked me out like 4 days ago and i was thinking about how much i liked him compared to all of my other boyfriends and this by far is the most serious one even tho weve only been going out for 4 days it feels like i really do love him , but im have 2nd thoughts about telling him how i feel because (1 we are to totally different people as in he isnt a virgin and i am he does pot and i dont and i dont have a problem with him doing it , its just im not sure how he would react (2 he might think im nuts and walk away and tell his friends so they can stare at me even more at me during lunch (3 he may not feel the same way about me . and i have a friend of his who is a friend of mine and says that he talks about me all the time and in the "good" way. ok well let me get to the point im leaving this summer for 3 months and im leaving in about a month and i seriously cant stand not seeing him and i wanted to tell him how i felt befor i left ... should i?
*~a person with love issues~* (link)
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let him no how much you will miss him while your away and that alone should let him no how much he means to you.
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I have a bad sunburn on my face and I would like to know what to put on it OTC or if I should see my doctor. (link)
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aloe vera gel will help sooth and heal it.plus it is very cooling so it will feel nice to put on your skin and will help prevent any irretations. hope it heals up soon..
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I am 17. When me and my boyfriend were first together, things were so great. We used to do so much together. We saw eachother everyday. We couldn't stand being away from eachother. Infact, we couldn't be away from eachother so much that he convinced his parents and I convinced my mom to let me move in beacause it was like we practically lived together anyway. We've been together for 8 1/2 months, and lived together for about 3. I love him so much, but now at days I can't tell how much he loves me. We rarely do anything together anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. infact, about 5 mins ago he just left with his friend to go watch a movie on his friends big screen. The only reason he came here was to get a movie, and mind you its 2 o'clock in the morning. This is how it is for me every night for like the past 2 weeks, I am up til like 3 waiting for him. I tried to tell him how left out I feel but I havn't seen any improvement. Just now I tried to talk to him and he said "I'm sorry, do you want me to take you back home?" its like his solution is breaking up. I feel like I am last on his list. I don't know what to do. (link)
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wow, this sound just like what me and my boyfriend were like, i live with him, and because i got used to seeing him all the time, when he went out with his mate i felt hurt and like you said, last on his list. it's a good thing you two spending a bit of time apart, in every relationship you have to give each other space, time to do what you like, like chill with your mates ect or the relationship may become boring. spending a bit of time apart will make you apreciate the time you have together alot more, and it will show how much you mean to each other. hope i was helpfull, enjoy yourself...
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okay listen my boyfriend id an asshole he treats me like shit and i don't know why he does i treat him with love and respect well i said i would give him one more chance i told him if he pissed me off or he broke a promise it would be done for good well he broke a promise he said he would call and he didn't so i'm really upset and i did break it off! he said it's not his fault that it's his staff's fault but that's a lie! he says he should have just one more chance so should i put up with his shit or just stay away?!? (link)
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i would say stay away you deserve to be treated alot better than that, a partner is suposed to be there for you, someone you can trust,care for and enjoy their company ect.. if he's not what you want, then move on and find some one else, that'll teach him
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Hey It's Here To Help a.k.a. Gessyka
YOU'RE SO MEAN Advice1300. I'm going to find a way to kick you off advicenators. You tell people to kill themselves and use profanity towards them?? What is that? You obviously are depsperate...you probably have nobody. Listen if you have anger TALK TO US ABOUT IT! Don't call anyone names.
*stifles laugh* you're sooo....ugh!
Get a life you little baby. People deserve better advice then from someone like you.
Who agrees???
Don't ask Advice 1300 a question...she may pop another blood vessel trying to think of another 'great' insult to your question. (link)
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i also agree, she/he's not funny,clever or worth a colomn on this site, their just heartless and immature, their just gonna make people feel worse and more hurt. i am sooo anti advice 1300!!!!!!!! what an idiot.
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NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.
My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?
What should I/we do? (link)
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dont worry so much, your boyfriend can get medical treatment for his erectional problem, its not that rare for a guy to have problems keeping it up, its not your fault, and as for the hand job (lol) alot of girls cant get a guy to come, they like it a specific way,hard and heavy, and a girls delecate hands and wrist may not be strong enough. but dont stop cus its the thougt of you doing it that gets him so excited that he gives you a hand so that he can,you no, come...have fun.............
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Is there a way to get rid of lovehandles, besides getting lipo? Because, even though I'm 15, I have them, and they're so unattractive. (link)
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exorcise, stand evenly behind a chair and put on some music, and to the beat twist your torso (your upper body) to the left,centre,right,centre. do that for about 2 songs each day and before you no it they will tone up, it worked for me. good luck and have fun.....
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I just started dating this guy and he is really sweet in all but he never talks to me in school or on the phone.And I justed found out that he was just using me to get his ex-girl friend out and I just dumped him.Was that a good choice?because now all my friends have boyfriends and I dont, and all the guys are like takin'.What do I do? and did I make a good choice?
-cheated and used (link)
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absolutly, you deserve alot better than that, no one deserves to be used, its out of order, its good that you dumped him, it shows him that your no fool for letting him use you like that. you'll find better
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The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught! (link)
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loads of people get caught drinkig and smoking underage, however sadly getting caught is the consiquence of doing it, youve done it now so whovever you tell they cant change the past. they will have somthing to say, but whats done is done.
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do? (link)
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i think you should definetly go for it because he could be thinking the same way as you and you both could be waiting ages. talk to him. it'll be worth it.
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okay, my boyfriend heard me say to another person " No you cant tell anyone", and so now he wants to know, what should i do¿
signed,
confused about it (link)
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wouldn't you want to know if you heard him say the same thing, its up to you if you want to tell him or not, he just probably doesnt want to be left out of your business, however there are something that he just doesnt have to know.
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Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?
Love,
!!Plz Help!! (link)
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meet him be yourself and see how it goes from there, even if you dont end up dating you have still gained a great mate to hang out with and that. go for it
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should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?
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i spose it depends, how old are you? what are her views on sex? does she have rules about it or not. talk to her about it because she knows it will happen sooner or later, like mothers do, she will give you advice and be there for you.
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When 2 of your friends are fighting and your in the middle stuck and dont know what side to choose on what do you do? Like one person would want me to sit with them and the other one would be like lets all move away from her and i dont know what to do i mean i am friends with all of them but they make it seem like it is wrong to hang out with that person just b/c that person is different and people already make fun of her behind her back and everything. I am stuck in the middle so what do i do ? (link)
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tell them both that your stuck in the middle, and you like being friends with both of them, if they want to see you happy as their friend they should using you as a go between and let you do your own thing, nobody owns you and the sooner they relise that, the better. talk to them tell them how you feel,you'll soon relise who your real friends are.
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how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore.... (link)
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ask the girl out, they will look silly when they see you with her.
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We have enough money to pay off two car notes, but only half enough to pay into the house. Is it better to pay off the cars and in turn use that money each month to pay off the house, or pay down on the house. Our interest rates are low on all expenses. (link)
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work out what is more important to you, what you want most, but i think mayby the car because you will have that while you start paying off the house in the future, instead of paying for the house for as long as it takes and still waiting to get money for a car.
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I have a friend, well I guess you would call her a friend, who one minute she'll be all buddy buddy with me and the next minute she'll get mad at me or give me dirty looks or even start cussing me out for no reason at all. I know what your gonna say, she's not really a friend but that's not my question my question is how do I get her off my back withouttryin to kill me or something.
-sick of it (link)
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tell her what you said here (wiyhout the killin bit). ask her what her problem is, tell her if she want to keep you as a friend (with her good side) she needs to sort herself out. it will be her loss if she cant.
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My husband has panic disorder and has suffered from panic attacks his entire life. He is on medicine for them now, but he is having a hard time holding a job. I love him dearly but am afraid if I stay I will never have anything, and I'm afraid of the judgement that will be passed on me by my family. I love him and don;t want to abandon him, am I crazy for staying? (link)
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my boyfriend suffers from the same thing, at the moment he's not working, we are gradully getting through it together till he is ready to work. your husband should let his workplace know so that they can give him time off when he needs it, and so that they can be there for him if he has one of his attacks. dont leave him, you married him for a reason, you obviously love him dearly, thing will go well, be positive, people have got through life in worse situations and were able to enjoy it, you will to, look forward to the future.
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