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Should I make the first move?
I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do?
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MAKE THE FIRST MOVE...that's AWESOME when a girl makes the first move...
It's like...we're in control of something.
~GL with that~
DO IT! He'll be happy...hehe
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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well be brave and ask him out or you could do what i did and write a note to him it always works he will write a note back of come up to you and say yes
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Dear first move,
I think that you should ask him out I mean what are your chances um lets think um......... 100 to 100.This guy digs you and if he has not asked you out yet than it is your turn, if you do not do it now than....you could not have chance to date him.
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I dont even know you and I dont want you to make the same mistake I did so go for it.
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with a girl making the first move. Hell, we're in the 21st century, us girls can do anything ;) And it seems as if there's pretty much no way he can say no, so go for it. Good luck!
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Just make the first move. Be strong. It'll turn out fine if you both feel the same way about the other. I hope it all is good.
Lizzy
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Well since it's perfectly acceptable in today's society for girls to ask guys out, and it sounds like you really like each other, just go for it. He'll probably thank you for saving him one hell of a lot of nervousness. Guys can appreciate when a girl makes the first move, so just take a deep breath and ask him out. You'll probably be better off once this step is out of the way. =)
-Siren
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give him the "ohh ur so cute" looks and other hints to get him to ask you out if he cant get the hint, then go up to him and in a funny way say is it just you or cant boys take hints¿ then play a jedi master trick on him and say . . .
you want to ask me out so just do it and get it over with because we both know we like each other.
(in a good way say that)
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MAKE the 1st move... For all u know, the time could pass?
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Don't Wait, Make the first move. If you just wait nothin will get done..
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just go for it! if you know that he likes you too, then there shouldnt be a problem. ;)
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i think you should definetly go for it because he could be thinking the same way as you and you both could be waiting ages. talk to him. it'll be worth it.
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Write down your feelings on paper and drop it through his letter box, at least it will be a start and maybe get conversation going or he may develope into your penpal.
Best of luck
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what do you have to lose? if you both really like eachoter then go for it. what you should do first though is become like a friend with him, or well..how can i put it? get to know him, phone conversations and letters, just don't bug him to much. then once you both are comfortable with eachother, tell him. say, i really like you and like your personality, i was wondering if maybe we can go out somewhere sometime and maybe excellerate this friendship into something else? good luck :)
mscrazy07
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Trust me, I know how hard it is to make the first move. I usually don't because I'm also not brave enough to ask a guy out. But if you know for sure that he likes you, (and i really think he does because if he talks about you all the time;)then i say go for it! i mean there is a very good chance of him saying yes. but if he doesn't say yes, maybe he just doesn't want a girlfriend right now. just give him time and he will start to like you even more than he aleady does. But to answer your question, i say go ahead and ask him out!
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I say go for it. Just spend some time with him and then casually bring up the subject. I'm sure it'll work out for the best.
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If by "really long time" you mean months, and nothing has happened...
Personally, I say go for it. Ask away. You might try to keep it low-key and/or casual at first, as to not scare him off, but you're better off asking than waiting for something that may not happen otherwise.
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I think you should wait alittle longer and see what happens in the next week or so. If he is still really flirty then go for it. And if he says no then maybe that is the reason he didn't ask you out in the first place. He maybe insecure with you right now. or he just wants to be friends...and that is ok maybe you will go out later. I wish you luck in whatever you decide.
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