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DESPARATE I NEED HELP
My g/f that i love tried to kill herself. I love her so much and she wont talk 2 me about why she did it. She wont talk 2 me at all about it some one pleese help me what should i do
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You have to back off.
I am a manic depressive so i know.
When you are depressed for a while or sometimes even shortly after you begin to love "the darkness" and hate "the light" meaning she loves to be miserable its like her only confort and she doesn't want to stop things are just out of control in her "world" and she can't control it she tries but she can't. If she is like a goth or a dark hearted person like me she writes down thoughs that she probably doesn't let anyone see.
Sometimes it when it get to bad depressed people {mostly teens} we go for the easiest exit we see which is "Death" since that is what we mostly contemplate alot of the time.
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Your girlfriend tried to commit suicide like so many others before her and after her . What you got to understand is that she doesn't need you pressuring her . She needs you to understand her .She needs someone who she can talk to on her on terms which means when translated when she is ready to open up to you . I know you are worried , but pressuring her like this could make matters worse . Think about how you would feel if you were in this situation . Give her time .
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dear,
DESPARATE I NEED HELP
this is wat i would do if my bf tryed to to that i would talk to him and and tell him we need to talk tell him how this would effect others lifes around him and tell him how much you love him .hope it worked put herin the him spaces
always,becca
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Dear,
DESPARATE I NEED HELP
tell her that you care a lot about her and if anything had ever happened that your haert would be broken and then say could you pleese tell me
so I could be aware so I could stop being scared
thinking it is about me.
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Just let her know that you lover her, and you don't know what you would do if she was gone. Keep trying to talk to her. She obviously has problems and needs to talk to sombody. Try and find out what is making her life so unbearable that she feels she can't go on. Remind her of all the positives in her life, and let her know that you are here for her.
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