Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!
LOL_x0x answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 4:18 pm: If you want to break up with him, then break up with him. Just be honest with him and tell him you're no longer comfortable in the relationship. It's better to do it now, as it will only get harder the longer you put it off.
dirtyfryBG31MTB answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 4:00 pm: ahh, yes, the clingy boyfriend. i've had a girlfriends like this before, one of which i went out with for a year and a half.
what i did was just let her know, politely, that i have to have time with my other friends and have time to do other things (such as practice with my band and hang out with my family). you have to let him know that you can't have your whole life revolving around him, politely.
he might get a little upset at that, but if you want him to back off you just need to tell him why you feel that way and what you want to do about it. however, i do stress being POLITE about it.
the thing is, (i'm assuming that) you're a teenager, and teenage dating is NOT about acting like you're married. it's about having fun and being a teenager. simple as that.
sunset356 answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 1:05 pm: tell him you need your space. he should respect that. if he doesnt stop obsessing, talk to him about it and tell him youre going to stop being around him. if he doesnt stop, break up with him. [ sunset356's advice column | Ask sunset356 A Question ]
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