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why are love handles called love handles? explanation please! :)

They are called love handles because they are fat that guys/girls can hold onto whilst having sex or making out or whatever.

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I love to draw but the only problem is that I never know what to draw.I need some ideas on what I can draw!And if you name something that is very colorful and takes a while to color than I will rate you a perfect five!!!

I do a fair bit of drawing and I always end up doing fantasy scenes with fairies, elves and other similar things. It sounds immature but it really lets you use your imagination and you can use as many colours as you want because you created it.

If that's not really your thing try drawing flowers, they are usually colourful and quite interesting to draw.

You could also try drawing alternative copies of famous pictures. Try doing a Mona Lisa using bright colours and in a different style.

Sometimes when I don't know what to draw, I close my eyes and the first thing that comes into my head, I draw.

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Does anyone know a good image uploading site. Preferable one that doesn't resize your pictures?

http://www.photobucket.com
You can either pay and get extra features or have a free account, it's good and easy to use.

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Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

Yes you can skip a period and not be pregnant. When you first start your periods, it is common for them to be irregular and for the first two or three years you will probably skip a few. You can also skip periods due to stress, alot of excercise and probably many other things.

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ok well everytime i shave my lower part afterwards it always itches and gets red. is this normal and what do i do so it doesn't do that anymore???

Yes, it is called razor burn and most people who shave their pubic hairs get it. Use a shaving cream and make sure your razor is sharp as a blunt razor will probably make it worse. Always make sure you are shaving in the direction that the hair grows in as this reduces the red itchiness. Apply a rich body lotion after you shave and twice a day from then on.

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Are you still a virgin if you kind of had sex? meaning... If you were making out and everything and the guy and u start to have sex and stuff and he's like half way in and then you guys stop... is that still considered being a virgin or not?
Thanks!
(Unsure)

You are not considered a virgin if the guy's penis is inside your vagina for any length of time. It doesn't matter how far in he is, if it's been in at all then you are not a virgin.

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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!

Well I usually put on really loud music and dance around singing when I tidy my room. If you don't enjoy that, then invite a friend round and chat to him/her while you clean. I have a tv in my room, sometimes I watch that when I'm doing homework or tidying up, if you have your own tv maybe you could try that.

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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?

Signed,

Freaked out Friend

No, it isn't nosy to go over there, it's just showing you care. Don't worry I'm sure it will be fine.

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so im 13/f, 4'9, and 66 lbs. there are rumors (sorry if i spelled that wrong) about me being anorexic, but i am not. i try to ignore/stop them(rumors), but i cant! its getting worse and worse! and no matter WHAT i tell people, they think im a physco anorexic person.

Well, I'm 13/female, 4"9 and I weigh 96lbs and alot of people are saying I'm underweight and anorexic. You weigh a good 30lbs less than me and you're the same height and age so maybe you are underweight. I doubt you have anorexia, anorexia is when you THINK you are overweight and I don't think you do, am I right? I do think you getting dangerously underweight though, make sure you are getting plenty of the right foods and avoid skipping meals. Also, please go and talk to your doctor, just to make sure everything is alright. As for the people who think you are anorexic, tell them that anorexia is a physcological disorder and that you don't just get anorexia from being thin. Plus, start eating more in front of them.

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hi im 14 and i got my period in august and i only got it once and i hadnt had it since..august! i know im not pregnant! do i have cancer or an infection?? someone help me!

When you first start your periods it is common for them to be very irregular, even as far apart as that. As you get older your periods will become much more regular, although they may never be exactly on time. If you are still worried then I suggest you go to your doctor just to check there's nothing wrong.

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i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.

Do you like the guy? If you do then you shouldn't care what people think of you and him. I used to care so much what people's opinions of me were but I realised how stupid and pointless it was. If you're happy with him then that is all that should matter, ignore the people who pick on you, it's not worth bothering about.

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I am thinking about dating this Christian, even though I am not religious. Please dont tell me not to care what his religion is-because I don't. I just want to know other people's opinions on christians. I want to know how they act and how other people view them. Thank you!

I am a Christian and although I don't act like a normal person, it's not because of my religion. How they act varies on who they are and how into the religion they are, it is hard to sterotype a Christian. It is also hard to say how people view them because again it depends on the person. When it comes down to it, a Christian is just a normal person and should be treated accordingly.

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I want to know different people opinions on christian people. Please share your opinion and express how you feel about christians today. Personal stories are welcome, and any experiences you had with christians/christianity. In general, I just want to get an idea of how most people view christians today. Thank you and I'll rate everyone!

I'm a sometime Christian. I go to church every sunday and all that but I don't believe in God all the time. Sometimes I'll come over all spiritual and believe but other times I find it incredibly hard. I've been going to church since I was 6 and I have always been brought up a Christian but I have never really been a strong believer.

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this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help!

Yes, you can go to the toilet while you have a tampon in. The tampon goes into a separate hole to the one you pee out of so wearing a tampon doesn't affect anything like that.

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Do boys like secret admirers???? my school is doing this this thing where u can give either chocolate or a flower to someone, and i dont know if i should do it.

Life is for living is it not? Go for it, maybe a flower is too soppy for a boy but I'm sure he would appriciate chocolate. You have nothing to lose and no one ever has fun if they don't take risks.

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hey i work as a cashier at a grocery store for 6 hours a day. it gets really boring and i feel like screaming!! can anyone please give me some helpful hints to get through the day without wanting to scream?( its so boring and i need help passing the time..)

Okay well when I'm sitting through a boring tutor period or something I do the following things:

Listen to music on my mp3 player or walkman or the radio, finish any homework or work I have to do, draw, read and text or call people.

This might sound slightly strange but why not start a little sewing project and sew something. You could do embroidery, you can buy kits fairly cheaply and they are usually quite easy to do.

Use your imagination and be creative, maybe you could get a friend to come in for half an hour or so to chat to you for a while? I hope at least one of those ideas was of any use to you.

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I have an ipod mini, but it wont turn on. I had it for a while now, and it hasnt been able to turn on since last night. Its not on hold, and i dont know what to do. Please help

Maybe the battery is dead? Try changing the batteries, or charging it if that is possible. If that doesn't help then read the manuel and see if there is anything in there about this problem. If there isn't then take it to a shop that supplys them, preferably the one the Ipod was bought from.

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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

When you find them then you will know. Maybe you will meet alot of people who you think are the 'one' before you meet the real thing but you will find them. Trust me.

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can lot of you can send me some good journals sties.. thanks

I use http://www.greatestjournal.com
It's really easy to use and it's very easy to customize the layout and extras. It also allows you to store pictures and have an icon/pic.

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should you do something you know(or are almost absolutely sure) you are going to regret?

Well, do you want to do it? Maybe, if you know in your heart that you will regret it then you shouldn't do it. Having said that, this thing might be for the best. At the end of the day, you have to do what you feel best. I know it's cliche, but follow your heart.

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