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Hi, im 21 years old girl. im loving him deeply. but he dumb me. he was very nice n was loving me but last 7 months he was cheated me. now i knw everything about him. but i still love him. i dont want to loss him but i really dont want to loss my self respect. feeling very upset n lonely. i wont b able to handle my self. please suggest me how can i solve this metter n how teach him that waht im facing. how can i get him back with that love. (link)
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You need to give yourself some time. He broke your trust by cheating on you for the last 7 months. You do still love him, that's fine but you should stay with him even if you love him.
Relationships don't work without trust. You will always be wondering what he's doing or if he's cheating on you.
So don't stay with him. Find someone else who won't cheat on you. You deserve that.
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I've been dating my bf for 3 1/2 months I really adore him but I have a feeling he might be cheating. I'm really emotionally unstable and untrusting because of all my past relationships so its hard for me to trust. I saw a dick pic on his phone that wasn't sent to me but then he explained that he was gonna sext me one night when we were talking dirty etc. I got so upset and he got really upset and apologized for everything and said I was his world and he didn't want to lose me. He is always there to reasure me that things are ok and always answers questions when I have them. Also what bothered me was that he didn't shave for a week and said he was too lazy to (he usually shaves everyday), he changed up his haircut a bit because he said he was bored, and also he said he wanted to shave his happy trail cause it made him hot lol. That made me a little nervous like why the sudden change in appearance? I looked through his phone and didn't find anything but I was so paranoid and thought maybe he deleted stuff. Its driving me insane I really do love him but i'm just so insecure. Help? (link)
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When you found the pic was it just in his pictures or was it sent to someone else?
I mean obviously, if it went to someone else then he's cheating but if it was just in his pictures, who knows.
You won't be able to know he's cheating until you actually find out.
Besides that, I don't think it's a good time for you to be in a relationship. You really adore him, and that's good but you need to work on yourself.
You have some issues to deal with, like not being able to trust and even though you have very good reason not to, it can ruin future relationships. Also with being emotionally unstable, it's not good to be in a relationship until you are stable. I mean everything he does, you're going to be paranoid. Maybe he is cheating, maybe he's not but you don't trust him and relationships don't work without trust.
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28 year old female.
I need help! I dont know what to do. Yesterday my boyfriend of almost a year used my phone to check his facebook messages. Well he left it logged on and I didn't realize it until I got a notification on my phone saying I recieved a message. Not realizing at first that it was his facebook I went to check. Immediately I realized it was his after opening the message but then I noticed my name and started reading. I discovered that he has been talking to this girl for quite a while telling her my life story my secrets and thoughts. I also discovered that he has been waiting for me to fall asleep atleast twice a week and sneaking over to her house. The after reading that message curiosity got the best of me and I decided to read other messages. Turns out he had sex with his ex girlfried/baby's mother the day we got together and on many other occasions. Once even bragged about doing it in the livingroom while I was sick in bed with the flu. He has been cheating on me all along. I thought he was different I thought he was the one I was going to spend my life with. I told him about reading the messages and at first he lied but then he told the truth. Meanwhile my heart is shattered! He broke my trust, he betrayed me, he freaking cheated on me. I have been nothing but good to him. I cook for him, clean for him, invite his buddies over and let them play video games while I bake them all cookies and fetch their beers. I try to never complain and always try to be the perfect girl for him. He has told me many times I am everything he ever wanted. But then he goes and sleeps with someone else. I love him but I cant stand to look at him. Everytime I think about him in bed with another woman I literally get sick. I have no family. I am basically alone in the world. He was the only person I have ever truly loved. What am I to do? Do I stay? I know I cant do any better and I should be thankful for what I have and I know that I am nothing without him, but inside I want to run away. I cant stop crying. Im so hurt. Please help.
-Heartbroken (link)
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You move on from him. By staying with him, it's making him think it's ok. It breaks my heart to read this.
You don't stay with him because he's all you have. You'll be unhappy and miserable. You won't trust him and you'll be wondering what he's doing when he's out or when you're sick in bed.
You need to leave him. You are the perfect girlfriend and he just couldn't appreciate it. There is someone who you will make you fall in love again and he will appreciate everything you do.
He'll regret what he did because a lot of girls won't be as good to him.
Do what's best for you. He's no good for you so go get some friends and enjoy yourself. You don't need him.
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So im 15/f and my friend is 15/m. However, im gonna be a junior and he's gonna be a sophomore in hs. And he gets bullied a lot! He's short and small and has some issues like if you met him you could understand why he gets bullied. These douchebags at school always pick on him, beat him up and no one does anything about it. Hes also very sensitive and I Just want to help him get tougher skin and to help him stop getting bullied
However, i dont know how to do this because i also get picked on all.the.time. I get racist jokes, jokes about my name, these guys always pick on me in class. Its never ending torture, i mean tbh i dont care and i dont really get upsrt cause theyre just idiots and i just laugh with them cause i think some r just joking and r just assholes in general but for the new year coming up, i want it to stop so i can actually pay attention in class and not feel nervous all the time cause of them. I dont want to use any teacher or parental help cause they dont help they just make things worse..trust me none of these kids care about getting in trouble but if they knew u got them in trouble..well theyd just be worse. So how do me and my friend get respect and make them stop? Should i stop laughing and ignore them? Should my friend get fit so he can take them? Or something? Idk please help and remember how kids can be and dont just give the "Professional" answer but something that can actually work. So yeah sorry this was long but thanks for helping! (link)
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So I understand how you feel about this with bringing in teachers and parents because it can sometimes make them want to tease you more. But I do think that's the number one thing that will fix it.
Besides that, those people are idiots. They most likely won't respect you no matter what you do, so I would advise you to ignore them. If they keep it up, there isn't much you can do. You can ask them to stop and if they keep doing it, then go talk to someone, maybe a school counselor and tell them your situation about them going to tease you more if they found out you went for help. They'll do their best to help you.
As for your friend getting fit to take them, it's good to know things for self defense but only to defend himself, not to fight them.
Hopefully this will be a little helpful. That's a tough situation to be in.
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My ways of coping w/sadness have never really been healthy. Self-harm was a part of my life for 3 years & the last time was 4 months ago. I don't have much desire to do it again because I don't feel it has the same affect on me anymore. About a year ago I began praying & trying to put my life in Gods hands & I feel I've built a strong relationship w/God I feel I've gained a lot of hope/faith from it, but when I'm sad I feel I become a completely different person I become so angry & feel so helpless & all I do is cry & feel like dying after I've taken some time to calm down those feelings subside. I'm just afraid I won't give myself some time to calm down & I'll end up acting on those feelings... need advice :)
Thank you! any advice is very much appreciated :) (link)
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There are so many people who have gone through your situation, it's good that you want to look for a healthy way to cope with your problems.
You should definitely talk to a counselor or therapist. They specialize in things like this and can help you much more than we can.
Besides that, I can try suggesting things for the time being.
Praying is good, it's good to be close to God and feel like you can depend on Him. When you start feeling angry or upset, pray. Just talk about everything and anything that comes to your mind.
Exercising will really help too. It releases endorphin's and will help release stress. So go to the gym, dance, go for a walk, anything.
I've heard that writing all your feelings down will help. What's helped me was writing in a journal.
Go relax, take a bath, paint your nails, face mask, make yourself a treat, watch tv, or do anything that helps you feel relaxed.
Try taking up a new hobby. It will distract you and take up time till the feeling passes.
Try to plan regular activities during your hardest times of the day.
Remind yourself that cutting is impulsive. It only lasts for short bursts of time.
Hopefully these will help. But definitely go see a counselor.
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My boyfriend says he loves me sooo much. We've been together 6 years. He jokes around a lot. He's cheated on me in the past, I know this may sound bad but today when I went to the store I set up a voice recorder before I left. He was beggin me to go boat riding. But told his friend on the phone he'd prefer I didn't go so he would have more fun and look at bikinis. I confronted him and he says it was said as a joke, I really don't know what to think... any advice? Btw we are in our 30s (link)
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It sounds like he isn't really into being committed to you.
You don't trust him, you really don't have a reason to. He told he he was joking, but did he say that to his friends. I mean they probably end up thinking your not a real thing to him because he'd rather check out other girls. When you love someone, why would you joke about things like that to your friends?
He's in his 30's and isn't showing he's in love with you. So this is your call to make but he doesn't seem like someone you're happy with.
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My ex and I broke up a few weeks back. There are times when I feel really happy but because he's in my class in school, I always hide my real feeling i.e sadness at times and missing him. The thing is, he's upset because of his family issues. Though I'm not sure about it, I feel as ifhe doesn't miss me. The times when Im happy are amazing, I'm just myself. But what do I do when I feel like I'm stuck somewhere where I can't go infront without my past blocking out my future completely? I don't want to go back and relive the last four months in my head; but when the memories start rushing back, what do I do? There is a limit to which I can shut myself out and distract myself with work, friends, etc. What do I do in the times I feel as if there is nothing left? (link)
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You can't completely block out the good moments you've had together, it will probably happen a lot since your break up was recent. It was only a few weeks ago the two of you broke up, you can't expect to be over it so fast, especially if you cared about him a lot.
So give yourself time, let yourself grieve, then get up and keep going. Easier said than done, but if you work on it, you can do it.
When you're feeling sad, let yourself feel it. Only for a few minutes, then go do something else.
Call up a friend or watch a movie, read a book, ect. Break ups are a good time to start doing new things. Try something you've always wanted to try.
Give yourself time and eventually it won't be so bad.
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I know love is just supposed to be about love but realistically financial situations can easily ruin a relationship and I think it's already starting to tear apart mine.
Here's the deal. I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months of now and we're doing really good. He's become my best friend and I almost believe he's my soul mate as silly as that sounds.
We'd never really fought before last night but I finally hit a weak point with him on the topic of money.
He's 21 and his parents pay for almost everything. He lives in an apartment outside his parents home and they pay for his schooling and rent. All he has to pay is like $100 a month for car insurance on the car that was given to him also by his parents and he doesn't even think he should have to pay that. He works about 25 hours a week at a local grocery store.
I work 40-60 hours a week and I'm 19. I pay $550 rent, $316 car payments, $180 car insurance, $50 cellphone bill, $150 groceries, gas and other living expensive all on my own. I don't have any help from my parents or family members.
Last week he decided not to go to work for a week. He didn't even take vacation he just didn't go so he didn't get paid today like he normally would. Well now he's saying he probably won't be able to see me this week unless I pick him up and that he's afraid the cash he has won't last him through the week for even himself and frankly that pisses me off.
He chose to not work and now he's realized he doesn't have any money and he's upset about it.
I wouldn't be so angry if he hadn't said I spend too much of my own money last night when I went over all of my finances with him (which isn't the first time it's been talked about) he kept saying that I was paying too much for them when clearly he doesn't understand how much it costs to actually support yourself.
Now it's like if I drive to him I pay for gas i pay for all of our meals I pay for everything. With that said I've been low on cash lately (I have $180 to last me until Friday) because he always wants to go out to eat for all of our meals and I almost always pay and I never had this issue before we started dating. I literally probably spend around $150 on him every week between eating out and gas for my car even with a hybrid.
On top of that I have the next week off which I'm taking vacation time for (I get paid) and just a couple nights ago we planned to go out of town. Now we can't go anywhere because he doesn't want to pay for anything and I'll be damned if I spend all of my money when he put himself in his financial situation so I'm probably going to spend the next week at home doing nothing.
What do you think I should do?
We'd talked about getting engaged in the close future and getting a place together but there's no way in hell I'm going to pay for everything and support him while he pulls crap like this. (link)
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So pretty much he hasn't grown up yet. He's still figuring things out and depending on his parents.
I know people who are in their 20's and still trying to get their feet on the ground. But it's ridiculous if he's skipping work and expecting you to pay for everything.
Clearly, you both aren't on the same page. Before you jump to breaking up with him, talk to him again. Don't fight or argue. Just point out that you can't go out every week because you can't afford that.
Let him know that it is going to effect your relationship and you can't get married to someone who can't support himself.
If he can't understand that, then it's time to go. But if he agrees, then keep trying and see if he's making those changes.
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I want to feel worthy of living. I don't feel I deserve anything I have/ever will. I think about the roof I have over my head and feel guilty because there's someone my age who's much smarter and prettier out there who doesn't have a good home, and I do. I almost feel as if I'm stealing from someone who actually deserves the things I have. Even breathing gives me anxiety, I feel like I'm taking oxygen from people who actually matter.
I feel like a humongous waste of space and time. I wish so much that someone else had been born into this situation in my place. I have no idea why God put me here. But then sometimes I think, "Without ugly people, there are no beautiful people." and like, SOMEONE has to have an average IQ, I guess.
These feelings have been growing since I was 10. I'm 19 now, and I don't think I can take much more of this life. I've stopped praying because I feel like I'm bothering Him. And I know that's not true, but I feel like that anyway. I have a lot of friends, but I'm always the one comforting THEM and listening to THEIR troubles. They don't feel like they have to care about my worries. I always pretend like I'm happy, I've gotten so good at it, I almost fool myself. But I have this constant depression cloud hanging over me, sometimes it's impossible to ignore.
To release some tension, I've taken to cutting myself secretly. It's always in covered places, if you can see them I always have an excuse. I looked up how much aspirin it would take to kill a person, separated that much into a plastic baggie and keep it in my sock drawer. I made a post-suicidal apology video. Literally the only reason I'm still alive right now is because of how much it would scar my mother. I honestly don't know why she loves me, my other siblings are astronomically more talented and beautiful. When I drive across bridges on the highway, I have to restrain myself from driving off them. I'm not afraid of dark and empty parking lots or anything because if someone killed me, I'd be relieved. And as sick as this is, sometimes I daydream about getting a terminal illness, not telling anyone about it, and dying a few days later.
I'm not looking for a pity-party, or anyone to tell me not to do it. I hate it when people use cutting or suicide threats for attention. I want to know how I can tolerate myself again, and maybe even learn to like me. I don't know how much longer I can go for anymore. I can feel myself coming to my limit. Soon my mom won't even matter to me. I already know Jesus loves me no matter what, and however I die I'll be with him. But... At the same time, you get one life. This is it. Any tips for me to want to continues living? Much appreciated, sorry for the length, thanks for your time. (link)
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First I'm going to suggest talking to therapist. They'll be much more help than we will. They can go deeper into your problems and help you learn to deal with them.
I can understand the things you're thinking. But since you believe in God, you believe he put you where he wants you to be. I mean maybe someday, you'll meet someone who is dealing with something like this and you'll be able to help them because you were in this situation.
You have a good life, you need to enjoy it because you can't change the fact the other people don't have it as good. But you can give to people and you can help people and that's something that will help you feel better, and help other people feel better. So I'd look into something to do for the community.
As for your friends, if they are good friends, they'll listen to you and be there for you.
Because of your cutting and suicidal thoughts, you need to seek help because these things are hard to overcome by yourself.
Like you said, you have one life, you don't want to lose it so fast and you don't want to spend it being depressed. So go get the help you deserve.
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16 Female
Both male and female answers.... but I mostly want a guys opinion on this! Thanks :)
I like this guy and he likes me. We are going out. He is 18 and I'm 16. He has already had sex. And I haven't. He wants to have sex, not right asap, but he doesn't want to have to wait so long for it. I understand what he means by it because I care about him and I don't want him to feel like he doesn't get pleasure in that way. He respects that I'm a virgin and doesn't pressure me into having sex, and that I'm nervous about having it. His birthday is in two months and I was thinking about giving in to him then. My one question is am I ready to have sex with him? Or do I just hold off on it. My other question is would his birthday be a good time to give him sex? (link)
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You do sound pressured, maybe it's not by him, but you are definitely pressuring yourself.
In my opinion, you'll know when you're ready and I don't think you are. I think you want to have sex with him because like you said, he's not getting pleasure that way and it makes you think he needs it or really wants it because he doesn't want to wait so long for it.
This is a big deal, before you think about how he feels about it, think about yourself. This should be a decision for you to make without thinking that it's his birthday, he doesn't want to wait very long, he's not getting pleasure that way, ect. Don't let that be the reason why you're thinking about having sex.
So from all that, think about it some more and figure out how you feel about the situation.
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I am 14 a year ago I flahsed my body on omegle to heaps of guys (very stupid I know) . To be honest I'm not afraid of it being leaked online cause I can tell people it wasn't be it wasn't me but I am worried on the men I flahsed to may be stalking me or trying to find me am I being paranoid ? (link)
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You're not paranoid. Those kinds of things happen when you do stupid things like that. Men could possibly stalk you if you keep this up.
Your pictures will get out there, and most likely end up on some websites. I don't know why you wouldn't care about your body being on the internet. Either way, it can be traced back to you and you could be charged because it is illegal to do that.
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it is kind of childish to think that way but those naturally come to me. I think it is because my mother won't be there forever so it is not really bad to think that way right (link)
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I wouldn't say it's bad. I wouldn't say it's good either. As long as you have realistic expectations how things will be when she gets out, then everything will be fine. Like as long are you're not thinking that she won't punish you anymore or tell you what to do, then it's not bad.
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Okay. So. I've dated this guy about 3 times now. The 3rd time, We stayed broken up and didn't speak for months. Then. We got back together and he loves me like he did in the beginning. However. In the months that he didn't talk to me, I started to like another guy I'd been talking to over Facebook since last December. Since then, we've talked all day, everyday. He didn't express to me that he liked me until after I had a boyfriend. In fact, he said he wasn't sure about me when I told him about my boyfriend wanting to get back together. Now I don't know what to do. The second boy said that he wants to make us work and that we'd be together for a long time. And i like the thought of that. But I'm not sure about how much he really likes me. Lately, we're not as in "like" as we were a few days ago. But. Hes the kind of boy I've always wanted. He's a Risk on my feelings getting hurt but he. understands me. On the other hand. My boyfriend is "safe". I know he loves me and I can see a safe future with him. But he doesn't really get me or my interests. He makes fun of me a lot and says really immature things. This makes me sound kind of bad, i know. But its not like that. I care for both of them but I don't love my boyfriend anymore and i feel like I'm not being fair to him. Please Help. And if you suggest I break up with my boyfriend. How can I do that? I've already hurt him before so I don't know what to say. Thank You. (link)
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It's a tough situation to be in when you're confused between two guys.
When you're in a situation where you aren't caring as much for your boyfriend, you need to break up. You don't want to stay with him and hope your feelings for another guy go away. It's just not fair to him.
This is your call, if you are going to break up with your boyfriend, don't go after the other guy, at least not right away.
As for breaking up with him, it will hurt him no matter how you do it. But it's good to be kind and straightforward. You don't have to tell him you like someone else, but just tell him that you're not feeling it anymore.
After that, give yourself time. Take your time with the other guy and make sure that both feelings are mutual.
You're not breaking up with your boyfriend for another guy. You're breaking up with him because you don't love him like you used to. So that's how you make sure you don't feel as hurt if this other guy doesn't want you. If this other guy didn't want you and you knew that, it would still be right to not be with your boyfriend until your feelings are sorted out.
So do this for yourself and give yourself time.
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I am not going to lie not having my mom for a while will mean slightly more freedom so there is this sense of funniness. Not in a malicious type of way but more in a teasing type of way. Not because I hate her or dislike her. On the contrary I had a good relationship with her but I definitely find it kind of funny that my mom is in the punishment situation now and is taking orders from others and also it might give her a different perspective on certain things. She won't be there to hound me for details 24/7 and she can give me a lot of good advice from an outsiders perspective. She also won't be there to get me in trouble if you mess up so you might be able to tell her more and be more honest. Also because I know she is coming back in eight months and is not going away from forever or for years and years. I guess it is kind of childish to think that way but I cannot really help it but I honestly think it is OK of me to cope this way. In fact I think my parents will be glad I am taking it well and not being hysterical about it. (link)
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Yeah it's good that you're not freaking out or being too upset over it.
It's fine to think the way you do, as long as you do accept that she will be coming back and will still have a say in what you do, ect.
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I'm a 13-year-old girl, and I started cutting myself in December. My mom found out and tried to help, but she only made things worse for me.
After a few months, I managed to stop by myself, and everyone thought I would never do it again. But I started cutting again in June because I have been really sad and stressed out for several different reasons.
There is only one adult who knows that I still cut myself, and I love her more than anything in the whole world. I used to be able to see her in person and talk to her about anything, but now I only get to talk to her through letters. She told me a while ago that I need to tell my therapist I'm cutting. Honestly, I would tell my therapist, but I know he would tell my mom that I'm hurting myself. I know from experience that my mom will only make things worse for me if she finds out.
I don't know how to stop cutting. It feels like there is nothing else I can do to express myself. I can't really tell anyone else about it, because I know they would make things worse! If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it. Thank you! (link)
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A lot of parents when they first find out that their child is cutting, they'll get really upset, mostly because they don't understand. I'm sure your mom is good to you and tries to take care of you, ect. Which is probably why she doesn't understand why you feel the need to cut.
I started cutting when I was 12 or 13. It went on for about 6 or 7 years. My parents found out by accident. They just yelled and grounded me for months. I wish I had gotten help.
You can't stop by yourself. You can, but you'll probably end up relapsing.
Talk to someone, talk to your therapist. Maybe he can help your mother understand.
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Hi! I just wanted to know how old you have to be to work at red robin like as a hostess or whatever? Thank you! (link)
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You could probably call them. Most places you need to be 16, but since you want to be a hostess, and serve alcohol, you'll have to be older.
So I think it would vary between 18-21 to be a hostess and 16 you could work there doing something else.
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how long can you leave tampons in? (link)
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Most would say 4-8 hours. You obviously don't want TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) so don't wear it any longer, just for safety.
Don't sleep with them on either. I mean you can..but it's best to just sleep with a pad on instead.
I think it depends on your flow. If you have a heavy flow, 4 hours would be best to change it. If it's light, then you can wear it a little longer.
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OK! This will take some explaining so I apologize. I met these 2 guys at during Field season last year. One was my age (both 8th graders at the time) and the other one was a sophomore (3 years older than me). I got really super duper close to the guy my age. Like full on crushing. He sadly had to move half way across the country (very hard on me) and it turned out we both liked each other a lot. He doesn't know when he will be able to come back. He had told me that we have a very unique connection with each other, and he thinks I'm the one (I don't want any lectures on us being to young to feel that) but I can tell we are starting to grow apart a little bit. I have never been in a relationship before. I miss him a lot and I'm trying to move on for the times sake (I don't think I'll ever fully move on) Anyway, so he's been gone a few months now. I didn't know the other guy (The Sophomore) very well. After a performance for Band and Guard (I in Guard, he in Band) we started talking A LOT more. We text almost everyday. He's never had a GF, like me with a BF. Well, We've been talking a lot and I asked him what his favorite memory from last year was and he said it was meeting me, he's told me that I am very special and that he doesn't want to leave me when he graduates. We are both very shy and I ran into him at a music store twice. Both times he hugged me leaving (He gives very nice hugs btw ;D) and I was surprised he broke the touch barrier. He's called me beautiful before and I asked him what he thought of our friendship and he said it was excellent. The thing is though, I think he likes me. I don't know for sure. Can you tell me if he does? The problem though is... I think the first guy and I... "Really Really like Like" each other. I know he won't be back for a long time. But I am kind of developing feelings for the older guy. I don't know what to do. I know it's good to move on. So should I try and see what happens with the older guy? Don't comment on age difference please. And I know older guys tend to try and chase younger girls for easy sex, but I know this guy well enough that he would NOT do that. I need help! please! (link)
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So you're stuck on choosing between two guys. You'll have to think very hard on this one. Don't rush into anything though, take your time to think and figure it out.
They both seem to like you very much. You already know it's good to move on from the first guy since he lives so far away and who knows when you'll ever see him again.
With the other guy, if you keep developing feelings for him, then go for it. I wouldn't say there is anything wrong with the age difference as long as he wouldn't have a problem with it. Plus he still has a couple years till he graduates so that's not a big deal.
Just don't get involved with the second guy until you are over the first. You said you think you'll never fully move on..and that's not good. It's pretty much saying you'll never get over him. You don't want to be thinking about him when you're with another guy.
Most girls who convince themselves that they won't move on, they're the ones who keep it going for years and years instead of letting themselves move on and knowing they will.
So take your time, enjoy talking to this other guy and let yourself move on.
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I live in Florida and I have become increasingly aroused by my dog. I have let him lick me a couple of times and really enjoyed it.
The other day my bff found out and told me it is disgusting and I could go to jail. First off, it is all over the internet and many people enjoy the company of animals. Gayness is disgusting to some, but makes others happy. Same applies here. What concerns me is that it may be illegal. I have searched and searched but have found conflicting results. I really enjoy what I am doing and don't want to stop. Please Help. Is it legal in Florida? Thanks XoXo (link)
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Yeah it's illegal. It's called bestiality. People enjoy the company of animals but not getting aroused by them, that is disgusting..
Being gay is different, it's two people who can consent to it. Your dog can't consent, it's a dog, it doesn't know what it's doing. It's also considered animal cruelty. So you are also considered abusing your dog.
You could also contract infections.
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Am 14 years young female
i have had Sharp pains like at the top of my lungs its a pain in the top of my lungs but it lastes like 2 seconds then like 5 minutes later it comes back and back again ?
whats happening !? (link)
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So this could be something bad, or it could be something that'll go away soon. But you won't know until you see a doctor.
This could honestly be a few different things. A doctor would have to look at you, maybe take x-rays, ect. Maybe prescribe you pills to take so you should probably get checked out just to be safe.
Most people on this site won't have much of an idea since we're not doctors.
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