there is this girl at school that i really like. i want to ask her out but i don't know her that much.
what advice could you give me?
thanks
Start to talk to her more. After you start talking to her and get to know her, ask her to hang out. Then, you can ask her out.
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I'm 5"4' and 160 lbs. That doesn't sound that 'fat' but I'm also 13 years and my doctor thinks it's too fat and that was the cause of my 'monthly's' stopping for 4 months early last year! I really need an appropriate diet to lose some pounds because I feel fat and since I have to maintain school and homework, chores, etc. it's tough to not eat.
Recently I've been on a diet with food and water and no snacks but I did eat a few snacks and after 4 bottles of water...I felt reallly bloated! So How Do I use my water and food (lunch) diet without the snacks...the temptation of the snacks? Does anny one know how to avoid buyin em?
You need will power. Obviously, you don't have alot of that since you gave into temptation. I know it's hard. Try starting a food journal and write down everything you eat. When you think about eating a snack, think about the 3 minutes of pleasure and then the 3 pounds it puts on that is harder to work off. Talk to your doctor about going to a nutritionist who can put you on a healthy and balanced diet.
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This is long...sorry...but if you read this and answer I promise to rate you a 5 and I will be so greatful! thanks in advance for reading this. I have this friend named nicole (fake name) and she has been my best friend for about 2 years. She gets really annoying and is pretty stupid, and my family doesn't like her very much. She doesn't have a lot of money and her parents are completely uninvolved in her life. My parents do everything for her and we get nothing in return. She never really does anything to show she appreciates it and I really don't like that and neither does my family. So recently she's been pretty rude to me. She ditched me twice. At lunch I sit with nicole and kelly (fake also) and 3 other girls who im kinda barely friends with but mostly I only talk to nicole and kelly. well kelly is "popular" all of a sudden to nicole but no one really likes her...and no one really likes nicole because she's so annoying. I know nicole doesn't care about popularity because if she did she wouldn't be so weird and act so nerdy. We're not popular but we're not geeks, I guess we are known as just normal group, except to the geeks we are known as popluar, so i've heard. Well nicole has just been obsessed with kelly and she blows me off or is too busy to hang out with me but not kelly. I have many friends in school, like a ton, but I usually only hang out with friends once every week or maybe even less then that. I only really hang out with nicole. But shes always so busy and always grounded so I kind of have no friends outside of school. I make an effort to hang out with other girls I know at my school but it never really works out, not that they don't like me just our plans don't really follow through. Sorry I'm writing a lot but I wanted you all to understand the background of my question. So here it is...Today nicole got mad at me and I had no idea why and so her and kelly totally ditched me at lunch and sat with someone else and I asked kelly is she mad at me she said no there was no room at the table...when there were plenty. I am so mad at nicole I seriously was about to punch her because suspension was worth punching her. She totally takes advantage of me and I keep going back to be her friend. My parents and bother think I should stop being her friend and there a feeling in me that I want to but then there's also a feeling that's not willing to give her up. The main reason I don't stop being her friend is if I do then kelly wont be my friend and I'll have no one to sit with at lunch and no one to talk to during class because most people in all my classes are popular or totally nerdy and all that stuff. But today seemed like the last straw and I don't want to be her friend but I'm afraid of what will happen. I'm hoping once I start high school I'll make new friends and totally ditch her for good, but thats about 6 months away and I don't want to go with nobody to hang out with during summer if I stop being her friend. I really love her and shes so funny and fun to be around. If I didn't love her, I would hate her and think she is the stupidest person ever, and I would never consider being her friend, if you know what I mean. I love that she doesn't care what others think, but sometimes I hate it because she is truly embarassng and since not a lot of people like her, I think that's why nobody ever calls me to hang out because they probably think I'm just like her. Basically I want to know all of your opinions about what I should do. Stay her friend, ditch her, wait a little longer, etc? Please help I have no idea what to do!!! I will rate you 5 if you answer no matter if I like your answer or not, just because you read all this. By the way, im 14 female. thanks so much!
Well you said you have a ton of friends so why can't you start talking to them more and sit with them. It seems like Nicole is selling you out to try to fit in with Kelly. I would talk to Nicole and remind her of all you and your family do for her (play the guilt trip). If she doesn't stop, just stop talking to her. What kind of friends are those? They both stop talking to you because ONE of them is mad at you for a stupid reason. I would say talk to her, if she doesn't change, ditch her.
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I seem to have not low self esteem but not high self esteem either. I don't really get it because the cutest guy at my summer guy liked me and the cutest guy at my school likes me. But the thing is when i go to the mall none of the guys will try to talk to me. I don't get it, if the cutest guys at my school and camp find me attraction why dont the rest do. I personally don't think im that attractive i know im not ugly but not a beauty queen. I just want to know how can i get better self esteem. And whats some ways to flirt with guys. Also whats some ways to get a little attention from guys when i go to the mall. (i don't wear revealing clothes)
Maybe people out in public are intimidated by your beauty! ;) Those boys at school and camp got to know you. The people at the mall don't even know who you are. Some people are more shy than others too. You should look in the mirror every morning and say one postive thing about yourself and don't think about anything negative. It works. To flirt with guys, keep eye contact, smile and laugh alot (not too much laughing though), talk to them alot, and just be yourself! To get attention, smile at guys that you think are good looking.
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How can you tell if a guy really loves you or is just interested in sex? I rate high!
If he doesn't ask you more than once if you are interested in having sex and still acts the same around you no matter what your answer is to him. Also, if he compliments you more than saying derogatory comments.
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Please do not delete Im honestly 100% want to know this.
Do you believe in Aliens?
Life on other planets, Aliens.
Thank you.
I believe life on other planets and in aliens.
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help Ilike this kid he said something really mean would you still like him
Depends on what he said, if he meant it, if he is always like that, and how much you like him.
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ok so heres the thing...i started working out to loose some belly fat n stuff over christmas break ((a few weeeks ago))...and i keep checking the scale n it says i have lost 7 pounds already__but when i look at myself i think i look the same!.!. why is that???
should i try like seeing how much fat is around my tummy with a ruler or something n then measure it like that???
i rate HIGH for GOOD answers!!!
Well, you may have just lost water weight. You have to eat right and exercise in order to lose weight. You could measure your self around then keep dieting and exercising and check your weight and measurments in a few weeks.
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OK so to get rid of stretch marks, whats that stuff called? And whats the brand, and where can i get it? Thanks in advance
Palmer's Cocoa Butter - It's about 4 dollars for a bottle.
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My friend, Austin, used to be overweight and lost a bunch of weight two summers ago. I lost a lot of weight too but not as much as her.
The thing that bothers me is that she calls everyone fat, if someone has an inch of flab -anywhere-, she'll call them a cow. Especially is she's mad at them.
She also thinks that anyone who is overweight is disgusting and lazy. She won't even consider -looking- at a guy who is a pound overweight.
She's not exactly skinny. She worries about her "gut" which is like a pound of flesh on her tummy (it's tiny) and I'm not fat but I'm bigger than some of the girls she makes fun of. I am more understanding though and I wouldn't secretly pick on people because of their weight.
Austin and I are like best friends. So does she think I'm a cow too? How can she look down on all these girls who aren't even all that fat and not look down on me?
If I were you, I would remind her that she used to be overweight and she's being very shallow for making fun of overweight people. Tell her that some of the girls that she's making fun of are skinnier than you. She might be looking down on you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she just says those girls are fat to make herself feel better when she doesn't even think they are fat.
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ok so i made a new s/n to ask this guy if he likes me...but r u sure there is no way he can find out it is me
There is no way. Just don't tell anyone that it is you and no one will know. Try not to talk like you do, use different punctuation and grammar.
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I believe in abstinence, which is not having sex until you are married. I was just wondering how many guys would dump a girl who wouldnt have sex with him if they were going out? Guys tell me if you would dump me.
I know guys that would and I know guys that wouldn't. If a guy dumps you because you won't have sex, that's pretty lame and he definitely isn't worth it. You will find a guy that will respect your values and morals someday.
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.
People are idiots. Face it, people like to laugh at other's expenses even if it hurts the other person. If someone gives advice like that you should report them. But I agree, don't waste your time coming here if you don't even want to help anyone.
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Do you believe that "God" has already planned out our destiny, or do you believe we make our own destiny?
And do you believe everything happens for a reason, or do you feel that's just some clever line a thinker thought up to try to reduce the amount of stress and anger in our lives?
I think that we make our own destiny. I'm sure God doesn't plan out people murdering people. People make their own decisions. I think that everything happens for a reason. If you have a breakup or something, then you find someone better and you realize you are happy that you did breakup with your partner.
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Ok here is a question that ponders my mind my mind, any ideas about the answer?? Where do the dinosaurs come in the bible?? and also if God existed forever then what was he doing before he created earth??
You are asking people on advicenators a question that nobody could answer. People today are STILL arguing whether dinosaurs really exsisted and what happened to them. Of course they aren't mentioned in the bible they were alive like 65 million years ago - way before people. The bible was only written like 2000 years ago or something. Nobody knows what God was doing before he created the earth because no one has ever talked to God so no one would know the real answer to these questions.
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"uh huh... ok no one was around when adam and eve were there, to write tha bible at least, the 12 apostles wrote the bible and they wrote down what happened cuz Jesus told them duh, if dinosaurs existed (whicht hey do) im wondeign WHy they wrerent mentioned"
The dinosaurs were here MILLIONS of years before Adam and Eve, that's why no one even knew about them. It was recently that we started digging up and learning about dinosaurs. So now why did you give me a one?
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My grandpa died about one year ago, and the only time I cried about it is when i recieved the news on the phone. Not even at the funeral/wake..=\. But it's sort of hard to believe that I didn't because I used to have a diary and i wrote about how close i was to him and how much i loved him and such. Now for the past few days, all I have been doing is crying about him because I miss him so much. I mean i can't even watch certain shows on tv anymore because we used to watch them together, and songs that sing about relationships make me cry. My question is, why am i just starting to miss him and crying now? What should I do? This is the first time i've cried about him being gone.
Thanks for any advice. And btw, I dont have any other grandparents, and my parents and i arent that close so i cant get help from them. Thanks.
I went through the same thing when my grandma died. I didn't cry until like 3 months after and I've been crying ever since. You didn't cry at the wake or funeral because it probably didn't set in that he wasn't coming back. Now you are feeling bad and missing him because it's been along time and you realize how much you really do miss him. Mourning is good, just not excessive amounts. If you cry like everyday, I would go to a school counselor since you aren't close with your parents or talk to a friend or something.
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Have you noticed that everything now is sparkly belts, big sunglasses, ripped jeans, granny sweaters, oh and sparkly purses? and those BOOTS? im so sick of it all that is ALL i see in stores oh and those short lil jackets!! UGH!! Does anybody think they know what will be next, i started liking this stuff too late and im getting sick of it cuz i see it on everyone else!! I need some HOT new trends to be the FIRST with it out, i dont wanan follow i wanna LEAD!!
Yea it's annoying that everyone dresses exactly the same and the girls that dress like that all act the same too. It's just a trend it will end by like May. Make your own clothes if you want to be the first with it on because as soon as someone sees something cute on someone, they go and try to buy it. There will always be trends, you can't do anything about it.
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is it gay for a guy to go on a diet?
Lol, last time I checked it wasn't. Wouldn't you want to look good rather than be a fatass? Yeah, I'd think so. The girls would probably give you more attention if you looked good.
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i didn't know what category to put this under so i just guessed.
ok, here i go. first off, i am 14/f. i am very athletic. i have a sweating problem, too. i have athletics first period at school with no time to take a shower...barely enough time to get redressed so i don't have much time to cool down from practice. sometimes when i get home from school i will have sweat stains on the armpit part of my shirt. i need some SERIOUS help on what i can do to help prevent this. sometimes i even sweat through two t-shirts after a hard practice. i usually wear a jacket so no one can see but i am getting tired of jackets and when i get hot i can't take it off. please help me! i'll rate! thanks in advance!
You have hyperhydrosis (excess work of the sweat glands). You can order online Dri-sol. It's 13 dollars for a 3 month supply.
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ok im a 13 f, and have herd about the things (i think there exames...) that u have to get when they stick a tube up.. umm.. "there" is it an option to refuse to do it? thx! i rate 5s!
please no smart remarks....
I think you are talking about a Pap Smear. It's when they check for cervical cancer. You don't have to do it but eventually you will have to. So why not just do it now to see if you have anything wrong with up there for later on in life?
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