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self esteem
I seem to have not low self esteem but not high self esteem either. I don't really get it because the cutest guy at my summer guy liked me and the cutest guy at my school likes me. But the thing is when i go to the mall none of the guys will try to talk to me. I don't get it, if the cutest guys at my school and camp find me attraction why dont the rest do. I personally don't think im that attractive i know im not ugly but not a beauty queen. I just want to know how can i get better self esteem. And whats some ways to flirt with guys. Also whats some ways to get a little attention from guys when i go to the mall. (i don't wear revealing clothes)
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Those 2 guys probablly liked you for more than just your looks. Random guys don't usually go up to girls and just say heyy. Sometimes they get shy and think the girls are out of their leages and it's the same way with girls. Getting a better self-esteem and being confident is pretty easy. You have to learn how to love yourself. Your looks, your personality, and everything. Be confident in the things you do and try not to be nagative. For example: If someone tells you that you are pretty, just say thank you instead of saying no, I'm not! It's a starter. Flirting with guys is easy. If you try to hard it's very noticable and guys think of it as desporation. Most important thing you need to do is be yourself. It's cheesy but it's important. The guy might like you for who you are and that's awesome rather then liking you for someone that your trying to be. If you see an attractive guy make eye contact. It will show him that you are checking him out and that you might be interested. Flash him a smile and if you have the courage talk to him. Same thing goes for getting attention at the mall. You don't have to wear revealing clothes to get attention. Some girls think of the stupidest ways to get attention. When they see some hot guys they get extremly loud, start laughing, showing off and it's so annoying and the guys are just like what the fu*k is wrong with her.
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Maybe people out in public are intimidated by your beauty! ;) Those boys at school and camp got to know you. The people at the mall don't even know who you are. Some people are more shy than others too. You should look in the mirror every morning and say one postive thing about yourself and don't think about anything negative. It works. To flirt with guys, keep eye contact, smile and laugh alot (not too much laughing though), talk to them alot, and just be yourself! To get attention, smile at guys that you think are good looking.
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maybe those two cute boys liked you for your personality as well as your looks (IT COULD HAPPEN, YOU KNOW!) and seeing as how the boys at the mall most likely dont have a chance to get to know you, the personality theory is likely.
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