My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
Website: MySpAcE
E-mail: x3candiigurrrl@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Colonie New York
Occupation: Radio Host && Singer/Songwriter
Age: 14
AIM: x3candiigurrrl
Yahoo: x3candiigurrrl
MSN: raexnicolee@hotmail.com
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This is for people in high school. Sorry if it's long but I'll rate all 5s && give feedback! When you go into high school from middle school, does everything change alot? && Also, do you loose a lot of friends/do a lot of people change/is there a lot more work?? I'm just really nervous for high school && that everythign's gonna change I know high schools "the best years of our lives" but Im scared so if you guys could tell me your expierences with it && if you loose your old friends/best friends && everything changes && how it changes. Thanks. I will rate you all fives promise! &♥; dayna. (link)
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ok im not gon lie 2 you it gets pretty bad in highschool. im a freshman now... and my grades have dropped a lot. i went from a 90 something student to barely passing in some classes. i dont want to scare you though. and yeah you will face a lot of drama. you probably will lose a lot of friends ... just remember youll get a lot of new ones 2 rae
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What is involved or what is the total procedure of a complete body checkup at a family doctor? Im in my twenties and havnt had one in my life. (link)
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They check your reflexes, sour seeing, your hearing, theyll probably check your blood pressure and a few other things. Theres nothing to worry about lol.
Rae
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how do i delete the websites that come up when i click the down arrow? like if i have been the www.advicenators.com ....and if i click the down arrow than the website will be down there...how do i delete it? (link)
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On your desktop it has internet explorer... right click that and then click properties.
Then toward the bottom it will have something that looks similar to a sun clock thing. Clike Clear history... and make sure the dropdown menu says 0. Then after a few seconds they're all gone.
If you're using AOL its different...
You have to go to to settings in the toolbar. then look under the T section and then click Tool Bar Settings.
Then toward the bottom it will say history... and do the same thing as for internet explorer.
Hope I Helped!
Rae
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I had a perfectly flat and toned stomach, but now that I've had a baby I have stretch marks and some saggy skin in the lower belly. What can
i do? (link)
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use some cocoa butter on the stretch marks
Rae
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It seems impossible to save enough money for a mortgage downpayment. how do most people do it and buy a house? Are there any shortcuts? (link)
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You need to get a loan from the bank.
Rae
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well i am having a baby and i got from when i got raped and my boyfriend said i will be the dad and i'll help buy things. i hope he does but i am afraid that we stay together and the baby sees him as daddy and calls him daddy then we breakup and what i will do to tell me child he's not daddy anymore (link)
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im sorry you got raped... but if you're so worried about it you could have gotten an abortion.
But if he says he will be the father then let him. dont worry about it. even if you break up you can still let the baby call him daddy... same as divorcing you know?
things are good NOW dont make it bad in the future already
Rae
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Every night i eat dinner but I always get hungry later at night and i eat way too much..what should I do? (link)
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Take your time while eating your food. And wait a few minutes before you take more. Then later that night if you get hungry again drink a lot of water... It helps fill you up. or eat slim fast bars... small but like a meal.
Rae
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theres this kid in school whos "somewhat" popular becuz hes really good looking. I want to become friends with him but i dont want to just go up to him and say "hi i want to be your friend"..how weird is that..what should i do?? (link)
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when you see him in the hallway say hi to him. Say what's up. It always starts a conversation and lets him notice that you want to talk and be friends.
When you guys start talking try to talk about things he likes or mutual topics like school... a stupid teacher you both like. Make sure you look in his eyes and say his name a few times when talking to him... i dont know but it makes people feel good.
Then you guys should become good friends eventually... hope I helped
Rae
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How do you give a hickey? (link)
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when you suck on a part of the body of your... whoever... hard or for a long time and it leaves a hickey
Rae
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My mom is bugging me to death. I've told my friends about everything that she does NOT let me do and they agree with me: it's ridiculous. I'll turn 16 in about 3 weeks. Anyways, she won't let me have a myspace because people get raped and stuff through that. Well the ONLY information about me that's on my myspace is my first name. I lied about my age and city and state on it. AND I set my profile to private, and I still can't get on it. It's not only myspace, it's parties. When I go to a party, I have to be home by 11 pm, and all my friends (even freshmen!) can stay 'til whenever the party is over. Not only that, but she won't stop asking me what I do at the parties. She'll say "How was the party? What did you do?" And I'll say "Good. Nothing." because she doesn't need to know everything (and no I don't do anything illegal or have sex or anything). She even asked my sister once what I did at a party because I told her, and she told my mom that we played truth or dare and I got kissed twice (which is true but who cares??). My bedtime is 10:30 and my friends don't have a bedtime. ALL my friends think that she's having trouble "letting me go" and I agree but how do I tell her that hey I'm about to turn 16 leave me alone? Today I got on myspace cuz I'm at my dad's house and my bitchy sister had to call my mom and tell her. Now my mom is mad. What do I do about all this? (link)
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She has the right to ask you questions about the parties.. i mean your lucky she let you go.
but even I have a myspace... and im 14. and you should let her know that its private, so only your friends can see it. And let her know that it only has your real name.
Just let her know your getting older and you should start to get more privledges.
but no matter how old you are your parents are still in charge of you until you move your ass out
Rae
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should your boyfriend/girlfriend come before your best friend?
please explain too ♥ thanks. (link)
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no he deff souldn't. guys come and go but best friends should last forever. I know it sounds corny but it's true. If she's your best friend, this guy shouldn't come between that
Rae
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ok, well im 14/f , im not sexually active at all, but i have a problem. i have loose, long, wrinkly skin on my vagina on one side. but the other side is still tight. ive had this for about a year maybe less, and i itch it alot on some days, and some days it just doesn't bother me. will this go away? alot of boys have wanted to date me but ive turned them down because ive been scared of them possibly seeing. please if u know what this is help! ill rate HIGH!! (link)
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I don't think thats normal. And if you've had that for a while you should go see a doctor. its better to ask professionals instead of asking people online.
It might not go away.
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ok i just wrote a preivious question yesturday askin wat i should do aobut my boyfriend n today we like got in the "moment" and we had sex and weve been only dating for awhile and then like 2 hours after it happened i finally got the nerve to call him and break up with him because i dont have feelings for him like sum one should if there in a relationship, now i feel like a whore like i just slept with him n now i broke up with him.. wat r people gonna think wat are my friends gonna think... that shouldnt matter but it does to me n i just dont kno wat to do its all just so confusing i just dunno wat to do i cant even talk to my ex now cuz of wat just haoppened he probably thinks its cuz we had bad se(it wasnt) oh if i just uused him and this is all running througfh my head n i just dunno wat to do or think will sum 1 please please help me!!
thanx (link)
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If you didnt have feelings for him you shouldn't have done it. Whether you were in the moment or not. You should just tell him that You didn't have feelings for him and you thought it would get better or something... that way he doesnt think you were using him.
As for your friends -- they should totally understand you breaking up with him. As for having sex with him and then breaking up with him a few hours later is what they might not get. They're your friends so just tell them what happened.
Rae
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Does anybody know a good website you could get good love quotes not like famous or really cheesy ones just some plain good ones? Please and Thank you! (link)
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www.freewebs.com/quotes4lyfe
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Do hickies hurt when people give them to you? I'm so confused about it... (link)
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As long as he doesn't suck too hard it shouldn't hurt. It all depends on that.
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what kinds of food help make you fell full longer. I'm tryin to loose weight???? (link)
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drink LOTS of water and it'll help you fill up more. Also try eating energy bars... they're small and keep you filled for a long time. Some good ones are the Slim Fast bars.
Also the lean cuisine meals...my mom says they're really good all the time and shes dieting too
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I wore all of my favorite shirts last summer at camp and it was really hot there so everyone sweat a lot. Is there any way to get rid of pit stains? I don't want to have to toss my favorite shirts, but it's really gross! (link)
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My dad uses this thing called GOO-B-GONE... and it t akes out EVERYTHING. that might work. Or just try using a bleach pen or something. If that doesnt work you could always try taking it to the dry cleaners... they can get anything out
Rae
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Ok, theres this boy I know, and have known for like, ever, and he has started picking on me here latley. My Grandma says he likes me, but I dont think so. He is cute and all, but I dont if I like him. I think of him more as a friend also, so, why do you think he is acting that way, and what do I say? I kinda like him, I just have a hard time thinking of him as a BOYFRIEND and not a FRIEND. Please help me out! (link)
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It doesn't necessarily mean he likes you as more than a friend. I have a lot of friends who are guys who tease me and pick on me. If you can't see him as more than a friend then there's nothing to worry about. You might like him for the attention... that's happened to all of us.
If you do start to like him and be able to see it turning into more than talk to him and tell him you're starting to have feelings for him.
Rae
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I'm 17 years old and i dropped out of school and i dont have a job and i reallly want one i aplied every where and no one has CALLED ME!! All i do is sit here al day getting yelled at by my mom because i dont have a job!! But im trying!! im so depressed im just here all day and we need money so bad were almost evicted ive gained so much weight since ive been home ive been in the hospital before for trying to kill myself and i have cut marks all over my body im about to jump over the EDGE!! and i have a physicall comming up and if my doctor see's those marks im right back at the psych ward:( how do i cover those marks??
I really need some advice thanx (link)
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Right it's hard to hide those marks especially from a doctor. A wise man once said "the scars reminds us that the past is real"
If you cut yourself before... do you still do? If you do you might need to get some help to let you realize whats going on isn't your fault.
A lot of jobs won't hire anyone if they don't have a high school diploma anymore -- including McDonalds.
You might need to go back to school to be able to get a full or even part time job. Until then you could always babysit and do jobs for other people to make money.
Just remember that the key to life is falling on your ass and being to get back up like nothing happened.
Hope I helped
Rae
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idk if its the right subj, but im sick and ill be out of school tomorrow caz its a half day and my mom doesnt want me in school. im 13/f and i need stuff to do with a computer, tv, and i dont know just somthing to do. thanks (link)
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myspace is ALWAYS such a majorly fun thing to do.. and there isnt much on TV during the day so try going outside or playing games on the computer. a really funny website is www.ebaumsworld.com they have tons of funny things to do and watch
my myspace is www.myspace.com/rae_u_noo_x3 if you wanna do that ;-)
Rae
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