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hey, i'm not a very nice person if i get pissed off, but i've gone through a lot in my life so i think that i can give good advice on a lot of things. if anyone isn't sure that they can talk to someone because they don't understand then feel free to IM me on my AIM and i can talk to you, and i don't mind letting you guys know about my past.
*~*shan*~*


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(this is my favorite quote) "as long as you've got one person in the world, you've already betten the odds"



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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

start with a talk, if you care about him then i wouldn't jump right to breaking up with him, talk to him and let him know that some of the things that he does hurts your feelings and that you really want to know if he cares about youthe way that you care about him. and if he doesn't change what he's doing then it may be time to move on to someone else

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I can't believe you would tell that girl that she was pothetic, you know that could have led her to killing herself becuz of what you said. And no I don't think you a "generally nice person" because if you were "that" then you would've tried to help her and not tell her that she is pothetic and shit like that. You don't know what it is like to be in that kind of situation so you shouldn't be fucking talking. I think that your the one that is pothetic trying to come up with some comment to make you feel better about yourself.
How bout you should answer more questions when you can finally get over yourself.

first off, anyone who feels that they need to kill themselves because they are getting picked on, are pathetic, and second it's none of your goddamn business what my advice says. it has nothing to do with you so why don't you mind your own fucking business. and how exactly is telling the truth trying to make me feel better about myself?? i couldn't feel any better. my life's perfect

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Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they?

look on google

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

hell no, not everyone does drugs, morons do drugs, i have a lot of really close friends and the only drug they do, is smoke and i don't mean weed. i think that you should start hanging outwith people who don't do drugs, you'll feel more comfortable around those people and less pressured

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my best friend is pregnet. i dont know what to do. i know she wants to keep it but she hasnt even told her boyfriend and she wasnt going to tell me but i found the strip in her room. I'm afraid that she wont be able to handle it and that her parents will be mad if they find out I've known this girl since i was 7 and were 14 now and she is so young that her parents would probly just kick her out. i dont want this to happen to her and i dont know if i should tell anyone she's not ready to have a baby at all and she cant get enough courige to go tell somebody about it so now im realy worried about what will happen if she doesnt tell. should i just go ahead and tell ppl and make things easy or should i just let her do it her way?

if she doesn't have the courage to tell someone that she's pregnant then she shouldn't be having a baby, 14 is WAY to young to be a parent, all it is, is babys having babys, talk to her tell her you don't think she'sready and this might get her mad atyou but inthe long run it will help her not to ruin her life, tell her that if she doesn't tell anyone then you will it's your job as her best friend to look out for her best interests and it sounds to me like you've only got her best interests in mind. but someone else like a trusted adult needs to know

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(13/f)
I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do?

i think that if your friends stop talking to you because you want to hang out with someone who isn't as popular as they are then they are the one's being shallow. you shouldn't need your friends permission to hang out with someone else. if they can't accept the people you want to hang out with or at least be nice about it then i'd seriously think about reevaluating your friendship with the popular girls

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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do?

my boyfriend likes to flirt a lot too, but i know that he loves me more than anything in the world, i suggest talking to him. let him know that he's the guy that you love and no other. flirting is just part of who you are, it's meanless. you just have to make sure that he knows how you feel about him.

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I was wondering what the day 4/20 meant?

Thanks

it's a pathetic excuse for the potheads of the world to smoke pot. it's stupid and childish

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i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!

it all depends on how active you are. every girl's period is different

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I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!

then you should be a little more obvious about why you're asking questions like that, and A. it's not just the womans fault but the mans too, but most of the time it's the women who can stop the situation but they refuse because they are too stubborn. you should know what people think in situations like that, they think the woman is a slut and the guy is a retarded jackass with no feelings or morals!

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why is april 20th national pot day? kids got arrested at my school today and they had drug searches in the parking lot. i didn't know it was a "holiday" though until this past monday...what's so signifigant about the date? why is this national pot day? thanks!

because kids these days are stupid

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how do you know if your in love?

you just know, it's hard to explain but you just know

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In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!

Wales Bullied

aww so you couldn't handle the advice i gave you? the truth hurts grow up you pathetic child. i'm generally a nice person but when i come across someone as stupid as you then being brutally honest is all i can do, like i said before DEAL WITH IT!! i'm not taking back what i said because what i said was true

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im grounded....not allowed to do anything, just recently quite doing drugs and all that bad shit. Ive been grounded for like 2 months now....and today(interesting how its 4-20) my dad comes up to me and tells me he knows im doing something wrong, and hes gunna find out what it is...im like.....UHHH ok good fuckin luck faggot!!!I didnt do anything wrong!!!nothing and suddenly now he thinks he knows me and he thinks he knows wen im doing something wrong..wen ive been coming home high almost every weekend for the past year and he never knew....Im so mad cuz i didnt do anything and he suddnely doesnt trust me anymore, right wen i thought i was earning his trust back....what should i do?? he just went out to dinner and ive been calling him every 15 mins and letting him know im still home and i aint doin shit!i told him that i was mad and hung up on him..!!I have enuff problems and he makes them 10 millions times worse.....is that wat parents are here for or something???

did it ever occur to you that he knew what you were doing? don't ask how or why but parents always know. and could it be that he doesn't trust you because you used to be a drug addict? my oldest brother used to be the same way and my mother still won't trust him. you need to earn your parents trust back until then he's still going to act like you're doing something wrong because of how long you were doing things wrong. believe me you dad knew what was going on, i just think that he didn't know how to handle it so this is what he's doing. deal with it and start taking responsiblity for the things you have done because that's what your being punished for

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hi i am had the injection as form of contraception is there any possiblility that i can fall pregnant on the injection is it 100% safe or 99%? im not sure and i really dont wanna sound dumb or anything?

there is always a risk of the form of birth control you're using not working, but the best way to insure that you won't get pregnant is to use a condom, i'm not going to say don't have sex because most people who say that are hipocrytes, just make sure that along with the shot you use a condom to, that way you're sure that you're totally safe

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how do you give head?! Honestly i need to kno!!!!

if you don't know how, then you most certainly not ready to do so

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well i got certain dri on tuesday,it worked amazing,but on friday i started to use it everyother day.then on saturday i used it again and on sunday i used it again.but it seems to be not working.is there something wrong.please help.thanks

what is certain dri?

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I just got my report card this past friday. It said that my grade point average is 3.95 which is really good. but when i started look at what i got (A A-) it said I had straight A's, A-'s A+'s and I was confused. I get to see my grade a week before they come out, and my science teacher said i was getting a B- then, on the report card it said A+...i don't understand that..can someone explain?
TarA

it's possible that your grade could have dropped since you got your report card. ask your teacher why they are different

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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend

tell her to step off your man, he's your boyfriend and not hers tell lee what she's doing or tell her that you're going to tell him if she doesn't back off of your boyfriend and leave him alone

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I am soo confused I cant figure it out...how would you know if ur bi or straight bc i thought i was straight but now im trying to find out bc i dont think its wrong to be bi and theirs nothing wrong w kissing another girl to me that is so please answer back ill rate also

if you kiss another girl once, that doesn't make you bi, it makes you curious

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